Would you get mad if your girlfriend/boyfriend went to prom with another person as"friend" because you couldn't go with her?

by AT2926 Posted 2012/05/06 01:54:45

Related Topics: School, Friend, High School, Prom, Student, Class, Mad

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I graduated last year, and me and my girlfriend stayed together even tho we weren't seeing each other at school. So because i wasn't a high school student i couldn't go and my girlfriend was asked by one of her class mates to go with him. I got pissed!

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Dean 2012/05/06 06:25:06

No

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When prom is over, i will be there to spend the night with him/her.
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LilOldMe 2013/05/06 22:25:01

No

I mean, I'd offer to take her out somewhere instead if I couldn't go, but I'm not gonna hold it against her if she wants to go as friends with someone else. Might be a bit peeved but I'd get over it in the end.

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Evan 2012/06/14 17:55:17

Yes

You know what other guy wants.

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Nika 2012/05/06 21:45:15

No

If I couldn't go with them then I wouldn't care if they took someone else. Why ruin an important event for someone you care about?

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*Mahogany Goddess 2012/05/06 18:40:36

No

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If I'm not going I shouldn't stifle his/her fun.

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Mark 2012/05/06 15:59:01

No

Proms are considered a bit lame over here.

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sky blue pink - American 2012/05/06 15:19:56

No

You need to get over yourself and be very thankful your girlfriend said anything to you.
I hope and pray she has a blast.
Have a nice day !

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Cassi 2012/05/06 13:46:27

No

+2
I think it's her one & only high school life. She should go. Although I might feel jaleous, I still think she should go. I would let her go, if she's mine.

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Veritas 2012/05/06 12:59:29

No

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I'm too old for proms, but it is an important event. I wouldn't deny someone I cared about from having that experience. If he/she were to cheat, I'd have to just let 'em fly and go my own way.

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sweet silver 2012/05/06 11:09:57 (edited)

Yes

YES I WOULD BE PISSED IF I CANT GO YOU SHOULDN'T WANNA GO IM NOT A VERY TRUSTING PERSON AND AT MY OLD SCHOOL AFTER THE PROM IS WHEN GIRL'S STOP CARING AND WILL LET ANYONE SMASH. WHEN THEY HAVE NO RESPECT FOR THEMSELVES IM SORRY BUT I HAVE NOT MET ONE MAN IN MY LIFE AS TO WHERE A GIRL TROWED IT AT THEM AND THEY DIDN'T TAKE IT SO IF HE GOES WITHOUT ME AND DOESN'T GET BACK AT A DECENT HOUR WERE PRETTY MUCH OVER

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Dweezle 2012/05/06 08:07:26

Yes

Yes & no, I had friends that dated much older guys, and they did not go to any proms. But I joined the Army right out of HS, and I went to the prom with my gf at the time.

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thisguy:) 2012/05/06 07:56:22

Yes

an ex told me that one time
and that's why she's an "ex" now :)

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BeautifulSoul 2012/05/06 07:36:39

Yes

Yes.

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GothicaVende††aSquiggles\(#... 2012/05/06 07:23:36

No

$GothicaVende††aSquiggles\(#_#)/$

Of course not. But for prom, I'd try my best not to skip out on them.

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justcaroline† 2012/05/06 06:47:53

Yes

The main reason is because I know how they dance and no one will be dancing with my boyfriend like that except me. lol

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Dean 2012/05/06 06:25:06

No

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When prom is over, i will be there to spend the night with him/her.

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Inquisitve Kat 2012/05/06 06:11:40

No

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Why should she not be able to have a prom date? Prom is a major event and, for girls especially, something that will be remembered for life! I went with a friend, because my girlfriend was 24... she didn't mind at all!
It sounds like you don't love her... you are displaying insecurity and possessiveness, which are signs of attachment and/or obsession, not love. That attitude (insecure possessiveness) pushes people away.
Let her have the night of her life... it doesn't mean she's going to be interested in her prom date instead of you; if she is, she's really not that into you anyway.

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GeminiWolf 2012/05/06 06:01:20

Yes

It depends on who the friend is.

I'd probably get a little miffed, but as long as they behaved it wouldn't be breakup worthy.

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Daedalus 2012/05/06 06:00:25 (edited)

No

Not if that was all there was to it. I might be too easy going though.

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Stef and the City 2012/05/06 05:55:52

Yes

If I can't go and he goes with another girl instead of going solo or with a group of his friends then yes, I'd be pretty hurt. Hurt enough to buy a killer dress and show up at the after party with a male "friend" and see how he likes them apples.

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Dweezle to Stef an... 2012/05/06 08:08:51

+1
hmmm, what ARE you doing after this post? lol

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Stef an... to Dweezle 2012/05/06 18:20:51

Well I can tell you what I did do after that post, I drank five light beers and went to bed.

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0cean3yes 2012/05/06 05:04:33

No

It all really just depends on who this person is.

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Amy.[: 2012/05/06 04:28:08

No

But it depends on the person they go with of I know them

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Barefooted Nana ∞ijm♥∞AFCL 2012/05/06 04:27:28

No

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Well now that wasn't very mature of you now was it.......her prom and you would rather her go stag or not even go at all?!?!?!?! Shame on you for getting pissed. :(

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Inquisi... to Barefoo... 2012/05/06 06:14:09

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It's sad! I can't believe the comments here, either... self-centred, insecure jealousy! Not healthy relationship material.

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Barefoo... to Inquisi... 2012/05/06 06:20:58

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Thank you! I guess I was blessed with a fiance who loved and trusted me enough to go with another because he could not attend.

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Ashlyn<3 2012/05/06 04:26:21

No

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Nope i'm not the jealouse type at all. If I couldn't go I would be dissapointed but I wouldn't let him miss it because of me.

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Bibliophilic 2012/05/06 04:18:36

Yes

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Yes, I am a jealous person.

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Stef an... to Bibliop... 2012/05/06 05:47:16

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And honest.

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Inquisi... to Bibliop... 2012/05/06 06:14:47

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I admire your honesty (with others, as well as with yourself [regarding your jealousy]).

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Bibliop... to Inquisi... 2012/05/06 18:38:38

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Yeah, I'd probably get over it eventually- but at first I would feel hurt and jealous.

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16 2012/05/06 04:09:31

No

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Not in the slightest. I know plenty of girls who went to prom with other guys because their boyfriends go to a different school. I know a lesbian who didn't go with her girlfriend, but with a guy. Mainly because she couldn't go with a girl. :P

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Pixie·MzAwesome♠ƤĦĂĔŢ♠ 2012/05/06 04:07:55

No

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why should they miss out going to prom if your couldn't

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Dagon 2012/05/06 03:56:20
AT2926 to Dagon 2012/05/06 03:59:39

its not like im asking her not to go just not with a date.

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Dagon to AT2926 2012/05/06 04:01:16
C-ZAR™, Emperor of the PHÆT 2012/05/06 03:14:18

No

Long as no funny business happens, lol

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Nai M. 2012/05/06 03:09:16
turtledove123 2012/05/06 03:04:59

No

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That is her prom, and she wants to go. Since you can not, then you should not be angry at her for going with a friend. Now, if you think he is not just a friend, then you need to check him out.

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not u 2012/05/06 02:54:37

Yes

Cant say for sure that I would be pissed.... More upset at stupid rules......
If it was a friend of hers/ours and I could not go because of the school.....
Then I would be cool with it........ If it was some random guy that asked her and she said sure...... Then I would be upset with her, and hurt.................

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