Would you ever be willing to forgive infidelity in a relationship?

by EliteAmongOutcasts Posted 2012/06/16 20:14:27

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The Fantastic Kai 2012/07/02 21:40:55

None of the above

Depends on how many times 2 times is enough

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flyingseaturtle BN 2012/06/21 00:07:37

No

More than likely not.

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MYSTIC MYSTIQUE 2012/06/18 18:26:58

Yes

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if the person was honest

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SilveryRow 2012/06/18 12:45:52

None of the above

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It would really really depend. Mostly no, though.

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Luke 2012/06/18 11:03:02

None of the above

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It's hard to do......

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atomikmom 2012/06/18 04:33:50

No

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It is dead wrong!!!

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Anne 2012/06/18 03:36:38

No

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If I am not providing a good enough sex life for someone, they can get away from me. Sex is sacred.

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ShyBaby 2012/06/17 23:55:42

None of the above

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It depends. if we were dating then no. but if we had been married for a long time with kids id try to work it out.

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cheighti g 2012/06/17 19:59:59

None of the above

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what is infidelity?

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JausiaBaltazar 2012/06/17 19:12:31

No

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I would want to, because I probably loved him or her. However they obviously don't think I'm enough if they are going to up and cheat on me.

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FeelHood H. Obama~BN28 2012/06/17 19:04:45

None of the above

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Changeling 2012/06/17 18:15:55

Yes

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If I really loved them, then yes.

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Eania 2012/06/17 18:02:47

Yes

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It would depend on who I'm with, and the circumstances of the cheating.
If I had a boyfriend/husband who was regularly seeing one other person, as in a serious relationship, I would probably leave him. I'm not entirely sure on that count.
If I had a boyfriend/husband who was, for arguments sake, a rockstar, and he was sleeping with other women in that context, I'd be much more likely to forgive him.
If I wasn't able to forgive that, I'd be the one to blame, for getting involved with him to begin with . . .

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SA 2012/06/17 17:45:46

None of the above

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I would forgive and move on with my life.

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Maria 2012/06/17 16:28:44

Yes

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yes forgive him/her and take vacation get out of place ...be alone and injustice the relationship..

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Little Fawn 2012/06/17 16:20:11

No

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Never.

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Jack's Pearl 2012/06/17 16:16:04

Yes

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I use to say never ever. But now I've been married for almost 9 years and we have a child together. I would not want to break that apart over one regretted indiscretion by my husband. If it were more serious then it may break us up. But it's more up in the air in my mind now then it was before I was married.

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GothicaVende††aSquiggles\(#... 2012/06/17 14:59:07

No

$GothicaVende††aSquiggles\(#_#)/$

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Nope. I have too much pride to do that.

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Veritas 2012/06/17 14:25:53

Yes

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IF it was a one time thing, I think I could wrap my mind around it. People make mistakes. An affair that went on and on -- no.

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Hsmagst 2012/06/17 09:56:48
The River Rat 2012/06/17 06:09:44

None of the above

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I am not sure but I think it would always be in my mind every time we tried to make love and that would be the death of the relationship, no matter how much I loved her.

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Raven♥ 2012/06/17 03:56:30

None of the above

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It would depend on the situation.

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starguide 2012/06/17 03:05:36

Yes

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Picasso's Cat 2012/06/17 02:53:27

None of the above

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Only if it was a 3-some.
And I was one of those 3. !
Lol !!

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ZB 2012/06/17 02:50:38

Yes

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We're only human and we all screw up. As long as it doesn't repeat, I'm willing to forgive and even get couseling.

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Jack 2012/06/17 02:06:15

No

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No. I was once lucky enough to have a girlfriend who stayed with me, even though I 'played around' in the first few months of the relationship. After that, I was faithful for the next 18 months, but she never got over it, and it broke our relationship up, which nearly killed me.

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DoxieDad 2012/06/17 02:04:35

Yes

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As long as it comes with a get out of jail free card, also know as a What is sauce for the Gander is sauce for the Goose. If that is not an option then the whole relationship needs a good looking at.

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Chaoskingsxz 2012/06/17 02:00:19

No

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Never ... I think I commented something like this earlier this week.... but the answer is no...

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Diana 2012/06/17 01:07:38

No

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If they do it once ,they will do it again.

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❤Runaway❤ 2012/06/17 00:37:14

No

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Absolutely not!!!

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Fxckiin Brii 2012/06/16 23:35:50

No

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I do not tolerate lying of any form, and infidelity is lying, betrayal, AND disrespect all in one.. Coming from a stranger, OK, coming from someone you are in a relationship with? Wtf?

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N-RagedOwner 2012/06/16 23:32:46
me being me 2012/06/16 22:55:41

Yes

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I would forgive him but I wouldn't continue the relationship.

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♥☯ ʂıoвнaп ☮♥ 2012/06/16 22:54:48

No

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Sadisticon 2012/06/16 22:50:03

Yes

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There's no way I will ever hold someone to a higher moral standard than the one I have failed to live up to.

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Dagon 2012/06/16 22:39:41
Trish 2012/06/16 22:31:45

Yes

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Forgive not forget. I wouldnt be back with the person though.

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Vision of Verve 2012/06/16 22:26:22
Lerro DeHazel 2012/06/16 22:24:04

None of the above

NOT enough details . . .

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Griegg 2012/06/16 22:22:54

No

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The relationship would be over. It would be time to move on.

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