Will you give me an educated guess, on why people are bi-sexual ?
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However, there's a theory that one of those influences is hormone levels in utero. If a male fetus gets a lot more estrogen than usual, or a female fetus gets a lot more testosterone than usual, that child is much more likely to end up gay. This could have to do with the way male/female hormones affect the brain during development, including but not limited to what they look for in a partner. It would explain why some gay men tend to be feminine and some lesbians tend to be masculine. It would also explain why statistics show that the more older brothers a man has, the more likely he is to be gay; a woman's body isn't suited to mass produce testosterone, and I think that every male pregnancy could put such a strain on her endocrine system that she has less ability to produce testosterone in the future. Now, imagine if the opposite-gender hormones were only moderately elevated. If this theory is partially accurate, moderately elevated hormones could lead to the child ending up bisexual.
"You can't be bisexual and be faithful to one person."
A person's decision to be monogamous with a partner is an individual choice influenced by many things involved in a relationship and in that person's own personality. Some bisexuals have open relationships and have relations with different people of different genders on different levels. Other bisexuals are in long term monogamous relationships, including faithful marriages. It is not unlike being straight or gay or lesbian and in a closed relationship. Different people simply make different choices as to how to go about relationships. This is not determined by the person's sexu...
"You can't be bisexual and be faithful to one person."
A person's decision to be monogamous with a partner is an individual choice influenced by many things involved in a relationship and in that person's own personality. Some bisexuals have open relationships and have relations with different people of different genders on different levels. Other bisexuals are in long term monogamous relationships, including faithful marriages. It is not unlike being straight or gay or lesbian and in a closed relationship. Different people simply make different choices as to how to go about relationships. This is not determined by the person's sexual orientation but rather by themselves and, in some cases, their partners.
Many bisexuals feel that they can be perfectly content with one person and don't have an overwhelming urge to carry on relations with two genders at once. This is analogous to being a part of a monogamous gay/lesbian or straight couple and choosing whether or not "cheat" on that partner. Or, in cases where both partners are involved in the decision of who is involved in there sexual lives, it is no different than being a straight 'swinging couple involved with other swinging couples (or individuals). Once again these are individual choices and are not a direct consequence of a person's sexual orientation.
I don't get it personally, but that's just it - it's something personal. I wouldn't begin to try to figure out what's going on in someone else's head. Have a hard enough time controlling my own head.
I'd say most likely that they're born that way is a big factor in it, but there's several factors that may contribute to one's sexuality. Given that scientists have determined that there are genetic contributors to sexuality, and also MRIs have determined that the homosexual man's brain functions more like a straight woman's and a lesbian's brain functions more like a straight man's.
Growing up I was more interested in playing sports, with blocks, action figures than playing with barbie dolls or baby dolls. Sometimes the mood struck me and I'd play with a barbie or a baby doll, usually when my girl friends were over, but I drew the line at romantic movies. No way, no how, unless it was Bram Stoker's Dracula, which isn't really a romance movie, forget it. I was also more into power rangers and beetle borgs than some of the shoes the other girls were into.
When my guy friends were over, I was doing the arm pit farts, sports, action figures, and watching 'guy movies' with them and loved every minute of it.
Some would blame the fact that I was raised by my Dad, but you know something? If I hadn't been raised by him I would've possibly become a psychotic, raving, manipul...
I'd say most likely that they're born that way is a big factor in it, but there's several factors that may contribute to one's sexuality. Given that scientists have determined that there are genetic contributors to sexuality, and also MRIs have determined that the homosexual man's brain functions more like a straight woman's and a lesbian's brain functions more like a straight man's.
Growing up I was more interested in playing sports, with blocks, action figures than playing with barbie dolls or baby dolls. Sometimes the mood struck me and I'd play with a barbie or a baby doll, usually when my girl friends were over, but I drew the line at romantic movies. No way, no how, unless it was Bram Stoker's Dracula, which isn't really a romance movie, forget it. I was also more into power rangers and beetle borgs than some of the shoes the other girls were into.
When my guy friends were over, I was doing the arm pit farts, sports, action figures, and watching 'guy movies' with them and loved every minute of it.
Some would blame the fact that I was raised by my Dad, but you know something? If I hadn't been raised by him I would've possibly become a psychotic, raving, manipulating lunatic like my mother. Also one of my friends lost her mother in a car accident when she was 4, so she was raised by her dad, and she's straight. I will say this much though, Dad didn't want me dependent on anyone. So he taught me to cook, clean, sew, basic car mechanics, how to change a fuse, a light bulb, he taught me how to do simple repairs on faucets and taps, toilets, ect. Over all, he aimed for me to be fully independent. Some people would claim that by teaching me things regardless of social gender stigma, he made me bisexual. I don't think so.
Some say that homosexuality is a choice, I never remember waking up one day and saying, 'I think I'll get a crush on a girl.' it's just something that happened, I can't really explain it. But when I was about 12/13, I started developing little mini crushes on my classmates. Ya know, like most kdis that age? puppy love it's called? Yeah, except I was an even split. One day I'd like a girl, another day I'd like a guy.
So I'd say more a combination of genetics and brain structure makes a person bisexual.
"It's all about the pleasure thang."