Quantcast

Will you give me an educated guess, on why people are bi-sexual ?

2789847 2012/06/08 10:08:09
You!
Add Photos & Videos
Add a comment above

Top Opinion

  • Mic-E 2012/06/08 10:16:54
    other
    Mic-E
    +12
    Everyone can have a different opinion on this, but it always comes back to the individual and their personal journey in life. There may be tons of reasons why, it just depends on the person's personal reason, I would say.

Sort By
  • Most Raves
  • Least Raves
  • Oldest
  • Newest
Opinions

  • Frank 2012/06/08 16:10:01
    Maybe they were born that way
    Frank
    +1
    It's all about the brain, everyone is different in their own way. Thank goodness I love only women............
  • Doc Frank stein 2012/06/08 16:00:23
    They are just horny and would fuk a tree if they could
    Doc Frank stein
    +1
    Exactly!!
    Doesn't take Rocket science to figure that out!! lol ;)
  • Rowena Ravenclaw 2012/06/08 16:00:02
    other
    Rowena Ravenclaw
    +1
    Either they just want attention or they were born that way.
  • GeorgeLEMONGraves 2012/06/08 15:52:02
    other
    GeorgeLEMONGraves
    +1
    they like it both ways and enjoy it
  • aeroshock 2012/06/08 15:33:20
    other
    aeroshock
    +2
    I vote other because I truly don't know. Every person is different, and every person has their own views. With that said, there can be many reasons why one is bi-sexual. In my experience, I am attracted to a guy or girl not because of their gender, but because of who they are.

    I grew up learning that it's bad to be gay or bi, and being straight was right. I questioned if there was something wrong with me for years for liking girls and guys until I decided to say screw it all. I like who I like regardless of their gender.
  • SoCalEx-Dem 2012/06/08 15:18:37
    They are just horny and would fuk a tree if they could
    SoCalEx-Dem
    They are sexually greedy and need any human contact.
  • patchulie 2012/06/08 15:16:47
    other
    patchulie
    Are you retarded?
  • Moose patchulie 2012/06/08 16:46:51
    Moose
    Do YOU have nothing intelligent to add? Has no one ever suggested to that,"If you have nothing nice to say, keep you mouth shut?"
  • patchulie Moose 2012/06/13 20:23:31
    patchulie
    +1
    I have a friend who is gay, I asked him one time "why are you like this, I just don't understand?" he said" do you think I CHOOSE to be like this? It is just the way it is, and it's not easy to love someone, I am unable to, I have tried" so the motivation, in this case is, trying to fit into a societal norm is hard, harder than feeling what you truly feel... He is my good friend, and I love him very much... And he loves me
  • Moose patchulie 2012/06/14 00:28:01
    Moose
    Thank you for replying with useful, intelligent comments. I knew you had it in you.
  • patchulie Moose 2012/06/13 20:33:06
    patchulie
    +1
    To say someone is greedy is dismissive, you cannot know what someones motivation or NEED is... And the second part of your statement is about human contact... There was, in fact, a study about the NEED for human contact... It was called the "teri cloth monkey" to sum up, a Teri cloth monkey and a real monkey was available to baby monkeys, both had milk available, but the baby's that had the "tericloth mothers" did not thrive... The outcome was, that higher creatures, such as yourself will NOT thrive without human warmth... Dumbass
  • Moose patchulie 2012/06/14 00:41:11 (edited)
    Moose
    With the exception of calling me a dumbass (that was just plain rude), I want to thank you for your comments. I don't disagree with them. I can, for the sake of expediency, be dismissive sometimes. By not replying directly to the the comment, it makes it difficult to understand how the rest of your statement relates. For that reason, I feel inclined to dismiss it. Again, thank you. (Edited for grammar corrections.)
  • patchulie Moose 2012/06/20 20:04:27
    patchulie
    You still did NOT get the point... The Tericloth monkeys observation and outcome shows, that all creatures require Touch Connection Warmth, to thrive... That being said, all you or I know the importance of human contact... What someones motivation is for having sex with same sex or hetero, is something, you CANNOT know... About anyone, but yourself
  • adeenmckenziekennedy 2012/06/08 15:16:32
    other
    adeenmckenziekennedy
    Maybe because that is their sexual preference. Who knows?
  • luvguins 2012/06/08 15:06:12
    other
    luvguins
    +1
    It doubles their chance for a date on Saturday night. Simple enough.
  • Fashionable60s 2012/06/08 15:05:16
    other
    Fashionable60s
    Unless one is young and not sure of his/her sexuality, by the time they get to admit that they are bi people, they are really gay but like to feel respectable by saying they also like heterosexual sex. They are opportunistic since they also like to dabble in a romp with the opposite sex but basically they prefer the gay sex better.
  • Cellar Door 2012/06/08 14:44:17
    Maybe they were born that way
    Cellar Door
    Not really sure. I don't think it matters why people's sexual orientation is the way it is, it just is. oKAY that made nO SENSE but it makes sense to me so meh
  • heirsoftheking 2012/06/08 14:42:19 (edited)
    other
    heirsoftheking
    Bad upbringing.

    My best friend as a boy seemed pretty normal - not effiminent in the least bit. He loved it when my Dad took him, me, and my brothers for a walk on the railroad - my friend loved it so much, decades later he remembered things about that walk that I had long forgotten. He loved that walk because his Dad never did anything with him - his Dad never even spoke to me, despite all the times I went to his house. (My Dad always played baseball and football with me, and took me fishing.)

    A few years ago I learned my best friend got married, went in the Air Force, had a baby girl, then got divorced after 7 yrs. and supposedly found better affection from another man. My best friend was wimpier than me as a boy. I work out, yet today my best friend
    has an even more-muscular build than me.

    Married to a woman once, then went into a gay lifestyle. I'd call it Bi.
  • Bastion 2012/06/08 14:35:32
    other
    Bastion
    +3
    Because human beings are complicated creatures that don't fit easily into the boxes that simpler humans want to put people in.

    The problem lies is the human drive to label everybody. The name is not the thing. Humans are complicated, and sexuality (like everything else) is a continuum, not a defined, static rule.
  • polkastria 2012/06/08 14:33:21
    Maybe they were born that way
    polkastria
    +1
    Maybe it;s the default sexual orientation while we develop in the womb and then things gradually change as our sex is determined... For some folks that default changes to a particular sexual preference and for others it stays more open to both.
  • Peacock 2012/06/08 14:29:08
    Maybe they were born that way
    Peacock
    +3
    I have a very big heart..love to see people happy, BUT the THOUGHT of a woman being with me in a sexual way, really makes me feel sick. I truly believe that people are born with sexual orientations, be they conventional, or alternate. I remember liking an"older" boy, when I was 4...really wanted to kiss him..Baby, I was born that way!
  • Walter Harris 2012/06/08 14:26:45
    other
    Walter Harris
    +1
    different strokes for different folks. that saying will always hold true.
  • ally 2012/06/08 14:26:44
    Maybe they were born that way
    ally
    +3
    For the same reason why I'm heterosexual.
  • tncdel 2012/06/08 14:24:11
    other
    tncdel
    +2
    In some respects it reflects a lack of integrity and principles. A person who lacks integrity and principles will be apt to not be choosy about what he or she does or chooses. "Any port will do in a storm" attitude is the mark of someone who would likely resort to anything.

    They are in effect part-time homosexuals, but lack enough integrity to commit themselves as one.
  • .: LiVi :. 2012/06/08 14:21:22
    other
    .: LiVi :.
    +2
    I think deep down (very deep down for some) we all are capable of being attracted to both sexes, and some people are bigger fence-sitters than others
  • bob h. 2012/06/08 14:14:31
    other
    bob h.
    +2
    I think that if your chromosomes make you either male or female, you could still have a male or female soul.
  • RainbowKisses(: 2012/06/08 14:14:29
    other
    RainbowKisses(:
    +1
    Hmmm ? i dont know? Maybe because they just are...
  • João Guilherme da Silva 2012/06/08 14:14:03
    Maybe they were born that way
    João Guilherme da Silva
    I guess it comes from birth...and it's very cool !!!!
  • mk, Smartass Oracle 2012/06/08 14:10:06
    other
    mk, Smartass Oracle
    +1
    In my opinion only women can truly be bi sexual. If a man has one same sex partner in his life , he is gay. There are countless married gay men that have sex with women and even have kids. And I do not label anyone. I was only answering your poll.
  • Crimson 2012/06/08 14:03:06
    other
    Crimson
    Confusion. It would be better to be straight or gay? In my opinion a relationship is a relationship whether you are gay, bisexual or straight......nothing will change.
  • Flowers 2012/06/08 14:01:27
    Maybe they were born that way
    Flowers
    +2
    People can be sexually and emotionally attracted to both man and females. It's how the brain registers chemical stimulates through pheromones
  • Nickie Ahreeya 2012/06/08 13:57:36
    Maybe they were born that way
    Nickie Ahreeya
    +2
    They don't know which on is better.
  • sandra 2012/06/08 13:56:32
    Maybe they were born that way
    sandra
    +4
    It has something to do with everyone including males ,being female in the early stages of development in the womb. Eventually hormone levels trigger the development of male gender . But sometimes only the physical characteristics change, and not the brain. Thats why alot of people say that they are in the "wrong bodies " for their brains.and vise versa.
    Hormones aren`t always secreted at a steady pace during development.
  • Alethia 2012/06/08 13:54:42 (edited)
    Maybe they were born that way
    Alethia
    +5
    No maybe about it.

    Human beings fall anywhere on the scale between gay and straight.

    I propose bisexual is the majority and strictly straight or gay are the minorities (although combined can rival the numbers of the majority), regardless of whether or not people act upon their tendencies.
  • Flowers Alethia 2012/06/08 14:09:32
    Flowers
    +3
    very good point. there are a lot of people who reject what they are feeling because they have been told for so long that is it bad, or evil.
  • Alethia Flowers 2012/06/08 21:32:54
    Alethia
    +1
    Thanks.

    I agree. Like water, some bisexual people may opt to flow the easiest route available and only form whole relationships with the opposite sex.
  • Dynasty Fighter 2012/06/08 13:53:31
    other
    Dynasty Fighter
    +2
    God made them that way
  • Kayla Mace 2012/06/08 13:52:34
  • lee 2012/06/08 13:49:19
    other
    lee
    +2
    They have great sexual lust and greed! They want more than being just gay or just straight! Double benefits is their view point!
  • martha.benton.3 2012/06/08 13:44:54
    other
    martha.benton.3
    +2
    They are not Christians and just yield to their lustful desires. Just like the sinners in the Bible that God condemned. We know what he did to Sodom and Gomorrah. I think they got his message.

See Votes by State

The map above displays the winning answer by region.

Fun

2013/05/25 07:43:22

Hot Questions on SodaHead
More Hot Questions

More Community More Originals