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Why do people always take advantage of me?

The Amazing Gir 2011/11/14 16:42:59
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  • Simeon~theratchetliberal 2011/11/14 20:09:46
    Simeon~theratchetliberal
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    Because to some people, you look like this? people

    I've had issues with letting people take advantage of me as well. I'd be too nice and I'd let people dupe me and I hated it. But I learned to stand up for myself and I learned to recognize when someone was trying to manipulate me (and I made sure I avoided such people).

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  • SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 2011/11/24 02:22:36
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin
    +1
    happens to me all the time...:( i think its because of good nature and good willing, being nice has it downsides....:(
  • The Ama... SebaThe... 2011/11/24 06:11:26
    The Amazing Gir
    +1
    yeah tell me about it :/
  • SebaThe... The Ama... 2011/12/10 04:41:09
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin
    +1
    you'll find others, and hopefully they wont take advantage of you....
  • jere.chievres 2011/11/16 02:29:08
    jere.chievres
    +1
    You let them I suppose.
  • boots 2011/11/15 02:51:23
    boots
    +1
    Thanks for paying my rent again .
  • Rakohammas 2011/11/15 02:42:07
    Rakohammas
    +2
    bc u let them, ur the one to blame
  • SebaThe... Rakohammas 2011/11/24 02:24:18
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin
    what if thats just how someones personality is? for example, im a nice person, and people take advantage of me. im assuming it might be because im a kind and nice person and i might let them because i might be afraid of what everyones else might say what i say or do, also because of others reasons.
  • Rakohammas SebaThe... 2011/11/24 02:41:11
    Rakohammas
    Before I answer you, honestly tell me, why do you care what they think of you? do these people bring food to your table? they pay ur bills? they dress you? or something like that?
  • SebaThe... Rakohammas 2011/12/10 04:40:39
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin
    no...but thats just me...everyones different.
  • Rakohammas SebaThe... 2011/12/10 17:57:55
    Rakohammas
    different doesnt always mean good. I dont mean to offend you or anything, just saying that we, as humans arent perfect and when we know we arent doing the right thing, we should change things.
  • SebaThe... Rakohammas 2011/12/30 20:18:32
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin
    +1
    i guess lol and you didn't :) but i do see your point...:P
  • *○*Me*○* 2011/11/15 00:19:25
    *○*Me*○*
    +3
    I'm sorry :(
  • Heathen 2011/11/14 23:49:11
    Heathen
    +3
    Because you allow them to, I suspect.
  • Son Of Anubis™ 2011/11/14 22:50:50
    Son Of Anubis™
    +3
    Because you let them....I don't know
  • Simeon~theratchetliberal 2011/11/14 20:09:46
    Simeon~theratchetliberal
    +4
    Because to some people, you look like this? people

    I've had issues with letting people take advantage of me as well. I'd be too nice and I'd let people dupe me and I hated it. But I learned to stand up for myself and I learned to recognize when someone was trying to manipulate me (and I made sure I avoided such people).
  • Recruit 2011/11/14 19:53:37
    Recruit
    +3
    Its time to take the Recruit training course on how to stop being so nice.
    1.friends say hello...you say..screw you
    2.some one asks a favor...you say ...screw you
    3.Friends need someone who will listen to them...you say screw you.
    4.old lady needs help crossing the street....you help her.....and tell everyone else ...screw you for not helping her.
    So very easy to do and works wonders
  • SebaThe... Recruit 2011/11/24 02:25:21
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin
    that doesnt always help....:/ then your not going to have anyone by your side.
  • Relay 2011/11/14 18:10:10
    Relay
    +3
    well i can only think of two reasons why..
    1. you let them, your too nice of a person and trust everyone.
    2. your name is Matt, first name Door
  • Mrs Reckless 2011/11/14 17:56:06
    Mrs Reckless
    +2
    Because you let them..if people take advantage of you, you can only blame yourself for not standing up to them:/
  • rwsncool 2011/11/14 17:45:32
    rwsncool
    +2
    may be coz you let them...............
  • Tytto'cCaqeePypo<3 2011/11/14 17:40:55
    Tytto'cCaqeePypo<3
    +2
    Maybe you don't stand up for yourself and you let people walk all over you. Maybe you should believe in yourself and not let people do it
  • SebaThe... Tytto'c... 2011/11/24 02:26:03
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin
    what if you have low self esteem or low self confidence?
  • Heat Her 2011/11/14 17:35:06
    Heat Her
    +4
    Because
    people suck
  • CharlesG BN-0 2011/11/14 17:30:11
    CharlesG BN-0
    +1
    It only seems that way, work on discernment and building self confidence.
  • Tessa 2011/11/14 17:20:48
  • Crime Time 2011/11/14 17:15:56
  • Ruadon 2011/11/14 17:15:14
    Ruadon
    +2
    because ur a sweet person who tries to think the best of people. you havent had time to turn into the psychotic cynical guy I have become
  • Mike Chang 2011/11/14 17:01:04
  • Joanie 2011/11/14 17:00:39
    Joanie
    +2
    Because you let them.
  • TasselLady 2011/11/14 16:46:45
    TasselLady
    +1
    I used to be one of those people. But now I'm older, and I can usually tell when people are trying to get everything they can get from me. Just learn to say NO, NO, AND NO AGAIN. If they don't like it, too bad. If they don't come around after, then with friends like them you don't need enemies.
  • Kyle 2011/11/14 16:44:09
    Kyle
    +2
    im not a guy who would do a thing like that
  • The Ama... Kyle 2011/11/14 16:55:36
    The Amazing Gir
    +1
    i know kyle and i like that you arent :)
  • Kyle The Ama... 2011/11/14 16:56:53
    Kyle
    +1
    XDXDXXD
  • SebaThe... Kyle 2011/11/24 02:27:11
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin
    same here...:/ its hard saying no....:/

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