Why do men always want to marry a virgin ?

someopinion 2012/02/01 18:18:55
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  • NoobGotPowned 2012/02/01 19:41:10
    They don't.

    "Here is your honeymoon gift. My awkward breaking of the hymen. Also your pee pee looks funny *giggle*."

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  • Amandeep Dhaka 2014/01/04 18:45:40
    Amandeep Dhaka
    why to spend rest of ur life with a left over ( second hand ) when u can get a fresh one .
  • Amandeep Dhaka 2014/01/04 18:43:43
    Amandeep Dhaka
    i would prefer a virgin as i want to love my wife as a special one and I want to be treated as a special one my self and not just one of her sex partners who ultimately ended up as her husband , apart from that if i am saving myself for somebody I would prefer to marry someone who did the same thing for me instead of somebody who don't even remember the number of men who had screwed her . I think if a guy/girl is experienced b4 marriage , they can't be trusted after marriage as well , they are bounded to cheatas having sex with diff people becomes a part of them and they will do it .
  • andy Amandee... 2015/01/20 07:27:02
    strike 1. i agree
  • Ben Richards 2013/08/24 14:21:48
    Ben Richards
    They don't. Some men want a virgin to marry and some don't care. It's the same with women. To me, it doesn't really matter. It depends on loving someone.
  • Guadalupe 2013/08/09 22:26:49 (edited)
    I'm waiting until marriage to lose my virginity too.
    About having to instruct her, that's not true! Sex is very natural and I'm sure she has already seen and heard a lot about it (I know I have).
    I'm choosing to wait until marriage bc it would be something special to share with the person I love. Just think I've decided to keep this possession through all of these years and temptation and you're the only one that'll ever have it. That's like the ultimate sign of love. And if he's willing to wait and get to know me and settle down without having sex, that shows me how much he cares and wants to be with me because he can go out and find some random girl at the club or even the grocery store these days and have sex with her and leave but if he's willing to wait just for me, I'll know he's a keeper.
    And all you guys talking about "I want experience blah, blah." I know exactly who to steer clear of. And the guys who are asking if virgins even exist anymore, they do. (:

    Also, I wouldn't mind marrying a man that has already lost his virginity. I think that would be an even bigger honor bc a guy that hasn't has already been not having sex for years so it isn't that big of a deal for him to wait, you know, But it doesn't matter if you're a virgin or not. As long as he respects me, cares for me and loves me unconditionally.
  • Whatever 2013/06/12 07:33:40 (edited)
    I'm a girl and I would want to marry a man who has not been with another woman. Also this whole thing about "experience" really shouldn't be a determining factor. It should be whether or not you want a woman who has been with a bunch of guys and given up her love for them before you OR if you want a woman who has waited for you and given her sign of love to YOU and YOU alone.

    Also, I find it so stupid that you all think you'd have to "teach" a woman how to do it. We all should know that the huge majority of us have, at one point or another, seen porn or read it. I think, by that time, most people have at least some idea how to do it. Seriously, though, be honest with yourself on that. You don't have to admit you've done it.

    I've never had sex in my life and I certainly don't plan on doing it until AFTER marriage. And I do not plan on marrying a man who has had sex with another woman unless it was with his previous wife or something (at that point, the wife must've divorced really early on or he did).

    But, what the hay, we all have our opinions here. So don't bite my head off if you don't agree with mine.

    BTW, we are not the last generation. If anything, I'm making sure my children know how to keep virginity alive. :D
  • Younes ... Whatever 2013/07/29 06:21:15
    Younes Bentalha
    am a virgin man
  • Kabiyr Whatever 2013/09/05 08:16:58
    I'm with ur opinion sister I love to marry someone like u cos I feel cheated if I marry a disvirned person.
  • C. C. Rider 2012/02/04 02:24:25
    C. C. Rider
    It takes a while to wean the man off of his hand, a virgin will not notice that.
  • someopi... C. C. R... 2012/02/16 20:17:24
    that i have never heard
  • C. C. R... someopi... 2012/02/16 20:41:24
    C. C. Rider
    So you have not quit? LOL
  • someopi... C. C. R... 2012/02/16 21:34:38
    which hand ?
  • sodabox 2012/02/03 04:42:54
    Because he wants his penis to be the biggest one she has seen no matter how small it is! XD Actually it comes from religion. Most religions mandate that a girl be virgin on her wedding night or she is to be stoned to death (Islam, Jewish, Christian).
  • someopi... sodabox 2012/02/03 20:35:44
    i knew i came from religious beliefs
  • Kabiyr sodabox 2013/09/05 08:26:22
    No Islam doesn't say a girl who is not virgin @ her wedding night be stoned to deaths only receives some 100 lashes if she is seen on the act by four just persons is quite difficult therefore,u can't tell until she confesses which I'm sure she would not do
  • sodabox Kabiyr 2013/09/18 02:59:23
    Then why is hymen reconstruction (hymenorrhaphy or hymenoplasty) the most popular type of cosmetic surgery in the middle east?

    hymen reconstruction
  • robert 2012/02/02 19:11:58
    they are hard to find
  • someopi... robert 2012/02/03 20:35:55
    u betcha
  • 00B 2012/02/02 14:49:52
  • 00P 00B 2012/02/06 18:17:55
    Good one :)
  • Shaun 2012/02/02 13:57:11
    Not true at all
  • SourDiesel 2012/02/02 11:08:31
    I don't. I love whores!
  • Jay 2012/02/02 08:02:18
    Because their sorry a** are under the impression that it's better to have some pure. Where as they themselves never considered staying away...
  • Lady Wh... Jay 2012/02/02 11:02:21
    Lady Whitewolf
  • GoDucks5 2012/02/02 04:41:32
    I don't even care if I marry a virgin or not.
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  • Disko Pickle 2012/02/02 02:04:57
    Disko Pickle
    Because, as with all things, people with no experience are usually the most skillful.
  • Mrkando 2012/02/02 01:52:57
    I think the younger and more nieve you are the more likely this would appeal to you. The reality is there is nothing better than experience.
  • Guru_T_Firefly 2012/02/02 01:48:13
    Not I. I want a woman who can surprise me and please me, not one that I'd have to instruct.
  • someopi... Guru_T_... 2012/02/03 20:36:58
    we all like surprises
  • DuncanONeil 2012/02/02 01:11:35
    They don't!
  • someopi... DuncanO... 2012/02/03 20:37:12
    most do..
  • DuncanO... someopi... 2012/02/03 23:50:14
  • C. C. R... someopi... 2012/02/16 20:40:59
    C. C. Rider
    When you reach about 19 you too will no longer need a virgin.
  • Lady Whitewolf 2012/02/02 01:01:46
    Lady Whitewolf
    Double standards!
  • someopi... Lady Wh... 2012/02/03 20:37:24
    luv those standards
  • Marvelous Wildfire 2012/02/02 00:56:52
    Marvelous Wildfire
    It's like the story of the farmer's wife.
    He comes into the kitchen, and sits down for breakfast.
    His wife gets up, walks around the table, and slaps him in the face.

    He stares in shock at her for a moment, then said "What did you do that for?!"
    She said: "For thirty-three years of bad sex!" then she went and sat down at her place.

    He sat there a minute in stunned silence, then he got up, walked around the table, and slapped her in the face.

    She shouted at him: "WHAT DID YOU DO THAT FOR?!"

    He said: "For knowing the DIFFERENCE!"

    If they are both virgins, I think it best if they didn't have sex until the wedding night.
    If they are not, they shouldn't be allowed to get married until they've had sex at least 100 times. (I believe most cases of "love", that people "fall out of" is really just lust.)
  • someopi... Marvelo... 2012/02/03 20:37:51
    excellent dissertation
  • Nick Name 2012/02/02 00:25:37
    Nick Name
    That is simply not true.
    I can't imagine marrying a woman I haven't had sex with. Lots of sex.
  • Max7 2012/02/02 00:11:23
    I think marrying a virgin is rare these days, our generation was probably the last. I think that a man who has married a virgin, knows that "nobody" has had this but me!

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