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Why are girls so emotional and guys not.?

Raghunath Roy Choudhury 2012/07/22 09:17:59
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  • Tom R 007 2012/07/22 09:19:13
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    I can be quite emotional and I'm a guy. My sister isn't very emotional though.

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  • Mj PINKYFINGERDOWN 2013/01/16 20:55:39
  • Sinister Ken Doll™ 2012/08/21 22:57:32
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    Sinister Ken Doll™
    idk, i'm a pretty emotional dude
  • Vision of Verve 2012/08/21 22:06:43
  • stevmackey 2012/08/21 13:48:31
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    stevmackey
    That is just a front. Guys don't like to be seen emotional.
  • La 2012/08/12 12:22:18
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    La
    Actually guys are plenty emotional. I know some emo, emo guys.
  • Fallen_Angel 2012/07/27 18:36:01
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    Fallen_Angel
    +1
    girls have a higher pain tolerancy than guys..physical and emotional.proven fact..but girls for some reason show it more..maybe because of the different horomones..
  • PocketHalei<3 2012/07/25 21:59:48
  • serethiel 2012/07/23 19:11:22
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    serethiel
    it varies from person to person regardless of sex. a reason some girls can be emotional is because of hormones, and then there's always this thing called societal norms...
  • Akilian 2012/07/23 14:15:32
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    Akilian
    That's not always true! I'm none emotional
  • Aksana 2012/07/23 13:56:59
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    Aksana
    not sure
  • ✞Knight of Honor 2012/07/23 09:24:56
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    ✞Knight of Honor
    It's how society expects women to act, so they do.
  • guitar kid 2012/07/23 07:51:35
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    guitar kid
    Wrong question: the question is why are a majority of girls extroverts and a majority of guys introverts?
    Or better yet, why are some people introverts and others extroverts? Sex doesn't have much of a role in this case. I've seen both men and women cry over the same things, I've seen both men and women get angry over the same things and I've seen men and women become happy over the same things.
  • Dana Lynn 2012/07/23 07:31:08
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    Dana Lynn
    it's a societal thing. it is more acceptable in society for females to show emotion because they are the "weaker sex" so to speak. females are expected to be more vulnerable more gentle. males on the other hand are look to to be the "stronger" more stoic sex, and society has looked upon men who are emotional as "weak" or not good providers/protectors. when in all reality a man who can show emotion is much more stable than someone who suppresses his emotions. i heard once that men don't cry, they keep their feeling to themselves and stuff them deep down inside where they turn into prostate cancer then have them removed... i look at that as a sign as to why women tend to outlive their male peers.
  • Rubyking 2012/07/23 02:20:28
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    Rubyking
    guys are more logical
  • jomiabe 2012/07/23 01:03:14
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    jomiabe
    Si esto quiere decir que se llevan más por los sentimientos que por la razón... es cierto, la mayoría de las veces, pero si se quiere saber si son más sensibles (en todos los acpectos), esto no es cierto, hombres y mujeres son igual de sensibles, pero diferentes factores sociales lo limitan o exageran según el género
  • JDreDaCookieMonster 2012/07/23 00:37:01
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    JDreDaCookieMonster
    ESTROGEN!!!
  • ashlee 2012/07/22 23:04:59
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    ashlee
    It might have something to do with the emotional rollercoaster that our brain and body goes through during menstration.
  • malikasecrets 2012/07/22 23:03:42
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    malikasecrets
    Hormones and up bringing. Personality choices. guys are too emotional. they play foot ball and punch each others lights out instead of going to the little girls room to talk it out with tissues and a new application of makeup.
  • boss hawg 2012/07/22 22:46:54
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    boss hawg
    been trying to figure that out for years. maybe its estogen
  • Katherine 2012/07/22 22:46:05
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    Katherine
    Hormones. We're the nurturers.
  • 22rexy22samo 2012/07/22 22:42:47
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    22rexy22samo
    im pretty sure its cause guys dont have feelings. no offence guys:)
  • Angry Amber 2012/07/22 22:34:24
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    Angry Amber
    That's not entirely true. I've been in a couple relationships where the guy ended up being more emotional then me when it came to some stuff, to where they would even shed a few tears... and that was a complete turn off because I saw it as being weak. Then again... the one guy was weak and just rolled over any time a girl (any girl for anything...) asked him to do something.
  • Artisan Rose ☽✪☾☥ 2012/07/22 22:19:42
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    Artisan Rose ☽✪☾☥
    +1
    It's all in the hormones.
    Girls+Estrogen= Emotional
    Boys+ Testosterone= Not as emotional.
  • XCloudPandaX 2012/07/22 21:59:39
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    XCloudPandaX
    dunno
  • I don't like Obama in office 2012/07/22 21:24:09 (edited)
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    I don't like Obama in office
    +1
    http://www.writing.com/main/q... , Temperament Test, Temperament is a set of innate traits that underlies personality. Find out which of the 4 below temperaments suits you best. It is highly likely that you are a blend of two temperaments, one being more dominant than the other. It is also a bit possible that there is a tiny bit of the traits of a third temperament. It is very, very unlikely that there is a blend of all four temperaments in one person.

    You be the judge.



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    I personally think such is partly a DNA genetic predisposition .
  • YepIDidItSo 2012/07/22 21:12:04
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    YepIDidItSo
    Technically speaking women have three hormone rollercoasters peaking at three different intervals. Psychologically speaking (this is my opinion), it is because boys are taught that to show emotions is a weakness, and men aren't allowed to be weak.
  • DFA 2012/07/22 20:43:24
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    DFA
    different hormones?
  • AlexTheDrummer 2012/07/22 20:17:45
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    AlexTheDrummer
    Here is my theory: Males are far more worried to be mocked for their emotions, so they bottle them up inside. It is culturally acceptable for females to express, and not as acceptable for males to be. So males tend to appear more "deadened', for fear of being called weak, sensitive, feminine, and so on. If one is raised a certain way, they will continue to be that way as they grow older, unless they make conscious moves to change it.
  • Red Branch 2012/07/22 20:13:49
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    Different genetics, cultural and environmental influences.
  • freakoutnow... cuz mom's here 2012/07/22 20:05:35
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    freakoutnow... cuz mom's here
    It's a combination of things. First the hormone cocktails us girls have in our systems of estrogen and progestone make us more prone to being emotional especial when we're on our periods or are going through the hormonal minefield of pregnancy (or when we were younger puberty even or if your older perimenopause/the early years of menopause). Secondly us girls are raised to be in touch with our emotions, openly express them (within reason), and not be ashamed that we are beautiful and wonderful creations made with emotions and feelings. Third, who says guys aren't emotional too but they just either only let their emotions out in private by themselves or channel it through an acceptable activity because of the social taboos on how a guy is supposed to act. Lastly we are all individuals. Some of us girls are more emotional than others. Some guys are more emotional than us. Some of us girl are less emotional than most guys. It takes all types of us women and the men to make the world go around.
  • Pele Emerging 2012/07/22 19:41:58
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    Pele Emerging
    +1
    In part it's because it's far more accepted for women to show their emotions. That's a generalization, of course, but for the most part, society frowns when guys cry.
  • Bob, the reasonable one 2012/07/22 19:39:23
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    Bob, the reasonable one
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    men and women are wired differently...that's just the way it is...there is nothing you or I can do about it...celebrate the differences and when your girlfriend is discussing her feelings, try and fake interest.....
  • Curmudgeon 2012/07/22 19:32:12
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    Curmudgeon
    Men are actually VERY emotional, however it depends on the guy how much they actually choose to show it. I know guys that are more emotional then their girlfriends.
  • Vinny 2012/07/22 19:25:18
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    Vinny
    Guys are emotional to, we just show it more, well some girls do!!
  • LdyLeo 2012/07/22 18:51:15
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    LdyLeo
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    Guys can be just as emotional as women are. The only difference is that most try to mask their emotions.
  • justnotsaying (: 2012/07/22 18:50:11
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    justnotsaying (:
    It varies from person to person. I'm not really an emotional person, but the men I have encountered were very emotional. Guys are emotional, but show it differently.
  • BHGOzzy 2012/07/22 18:43:20
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    BHGOzzy
    It has partly to do with brain chemistry, IE how the brains are hard wired from the inception of gender. Men's brains tend to be more wired for logic and problem solving, thus men are less adept at social interaction then the more socially driven and creative women.

    It also has to do with the difference in how the two genders are raised. Women are raised to express their emotions freely, and even encouraged to abuse them a bit while men are taught from an early age to suppress emotions and not show them (taught that it isn't "manly" to overtly display emotions).

    Basically the brain hard wiring is re-enforced socially during development of men and women, resulting in men being less overtly emotional then women. It's only two million years of directed evolution and societal development at work, y'know.
  • Lizzeh 2012/07/22 18:34:26
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    Lizzeh
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    Emotions aren't based on gender. It depends on the type of person you are. You could be extremely emotional and be a guy, and you can be not emotional at all and be a girl.
  • Skylaris Alanis 2012/07/22 18:26:36
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    Skylaris Alanis
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    Both men and women are emotional, last time I checked. We express our emotions in different ways.
  • Sedated Whispers 2012/07/22 18:15:56
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    Sedated Whispers
    Nope it just depends but guys can be emotional as well, just not out in the public.

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