Sorry but it is the how is so and so, and discussing who is married, divorced, what the kids are doing etc etc. Men generally don't give much thought to any of that.
There are a couple of drama queens on here, and one drama king that is always with those two. Rather entertaining, though to watch them spew their hate. lol
Also, are we talking in general, or in terms of their relative power/ability to?
Caveat: Teen boys are as bad as teen girls.