Which parent made more of an impact on the way you turned out?

I was an ORPHAN, a CHILD OF THE STATE. I lived in foster homes, groups homes, children shelters, and boys correctional institutions, a by-product of the GREAT STATE SYSTEM, exactly what the left/progressives are wanting to impact our country with, STATISM: the theory or practice of concentrating economic and political power in the state, resulting in a weak position for the individual or community with respect to the government.
I know who had an IMPACT on my life and who didn't, if we want to ask the question was it a MAN or a WOMAN, both sexes are just as capable of warmth and/or coldness; neither man or woman, get a POSITIVE IMPACT on the WHOLE OF MY LIFE, they cancel one another out, both get an equal contribution. But WHO, the STATE IMPACTED MY LIFE, they contributed the GREATEST AMOUNT OF COLD PAIN, meaning without regret or insight for the INDIVIDUAL. Now who has more of a POSITIVE IMPACT( in my case) STATISM vs.THE INDIVIDUAL. I find individuals can better address personal issues and needs that are far more effectuating in positive way and can help real growth, than a COLLECTIVISM or STATISM, which seems to be the CURRENT TOUTED WAY WE SHOULD RUN or LET OUR LIVES BE RUN and who can or can not IMPACT OUR LIVES. THE MACRO or MICRO, THE STATE or THE INDIVIDUAL, I say the individual.The question asked says it all.

I am sure my answer does not really falls in line with what would have been TYPICAL; but who IMPACTED my life, the question didn't ask whether it was POSITIVE or NEGATIVE, so I answered with WHO REALLY IMPACTED MY LIFE, the PEOPLES PROXY CARE MACHINE, THE STATE.

I LOATH THE STATE.