When would the the right amount of time before you have sex in the relationship?

by Magical Mushroom Posted 2012/09/03 22:24:17

Related Topics: Relationship, Marriage, Sex, Days, Save, Time

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		Few days
		Few weeks
		Under a month
		month
		Around 2 to 3 month
		4 to 5 months
		save it for marriage

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	Few days	6 votes	13%
	Few weeks	4 votes	8%
	Under a month	5 votes	10%
	month	4 votes	8%
	Around 2 to 3 month	6 votes	13%
	4 to 5 months	7 votes	15%
	save it for marriage	16 votes	33%

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XRenX 2012/09/04 00:04:02 (edited)

save it for marriage

+4
At least get to know someone on an emotional level so you can have a strong backing for your relationship. If you just want a freak-with-me buddy, then this need not apply to you. :)
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Anna 2012/09/08 04:54:01

Around 2 to 3 month

If you have to ask sodahead you are not ready.

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Magical... to Anna 2012/09/08 14:41:41

I am just asking to see if other people agree with me. I came upon a question similar and it struck a interest in my mind.

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SilveryRow 2012/09/07 13:33:32

month

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To be honest, it's different for each person and whoever they're with. Each relationship should be assessed for it's own merit, there's no general rule.

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ttfndude 2012/09/05 11:33:48

save it for marriage

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especially if this person you believe is "the one"

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Ninjaman 2012/09/05 02:46:28

Around 2 to 3 month

+1
the answer will vary depending on the couple of course.

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Jack 2012/09/04 23:59:15

Few days

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Actually, I'd say that if it's the right person, you can tell; so, maybe, a few hours, even?
I once had it with a girl 3 hours after we met, and we went out for 4 years after that. Another lass, the same thing, and we went out 18 months. Everyone is different.

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Pixie·MzAwesome♠ƤĦĂĔŢ♠ 2012/09/04 18:48:07

Few days

+1
I have been known to screw on the first date if the chemistry was there.

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Bronar 2012/09/04 14:10:37

save it for marriage

None of the above. Each relationship has it's own pace.

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strawberry 2012/09/04 08:47:35

Under a month

+2
Wish you had put Other. Actually there is no set time.

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mama sew,gung ho 2012/09/04 05:34:56

4 to 5 months

+1
But all things considered,time is only relevant to age,experience,and your un-inebriated good sense!If under any other circumstances things could become a pain!"If you know what I mean!" LOL

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Walter Harris 2012/09/04 05:11:06

save it for marriage

+1
otherwise never on the first date

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†♫ Muzikfreak ♪† 2012/09/04 04:08:54

save it for marriage

+3
I'm not just saying this because it's 'the right thing to say.' (Not that it isn't) But when you have pre-marital sex, it totally ruins the sex you have with your real wife/husband!
So please do yourself and him/her a favor and save it for the beautiful thing that it was created to be :)

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Jenna ☮♡ッ 2012/09/04 03:58:49

Around 2 to 3 month

+1
I don't know, it depends on the relationship. Usually after a few months for me, though.

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Nameless 2012/09/04 03:45:41

4 to 5 months

+2
That is very dependent upon the people and the relationship, imo, so my answer was arbitrary. My husband and I moved in together after knowing each other for 6 weeks - and that was 26.5 years ago. We got married about 10 mos later. Every relationship is different.

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Pat 2012/09/04 02:58:03

Few weeks

+1
I think it varies depending on the couple. I slept with my first husband the first night I met him. Stupid, I know. I knew my second husband for at least a year before we even became a couple and then it took a while longer to actually have sex. We've been married almost 35 years now. So, I think you just have to go with feels right at the time.

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Sinister Ken Doll™ 2012/09/04 02:43:42

Few weeks

+1
depends on the connection you have with the person; that's personal and can't really be determined by a set amount of time

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clasact 2012/09/04 02:02:29

Few weeks

+1
this is totally dependent on each person

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The.Z.Viru5 2012/09/04 01:31:02

save it for marriage

+1
I would personally wait for marriage this time around, but in reality, the only right time for a couple is when they're BOTH ready.

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2012/09/04 01:28:35

save it for marriage

It's better than all the other options.

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Miss Kris 2012/09/04 01:25:55

save it for marriage

+2
That's the optimum, but for everyone else, just when you think is right. At least be in love so it will mean something.

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Lydecho Rain (Лидия) 2012/09/04 01:25:40

4 to 5 months

+1
Other: Whenever the couple feels like they've gotten close enough to do it. Sometimes that's longer amounts of time; sometimes it can happen fast. Basically, when ever they feel the time is right.

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Christian 2012/09/04 01:22:42

month

+1
It depends on who she is, what kind of girl she is, if she is an easy girl, then it don't matter, if she has beauty, class and brains, then you want to wait.

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Erik Dean 2012/09/04 01:12:02

Few days

+1
Depends on the relationship and the people.
My current relationship, we started on the first date. Previous relationships and friends, it's been any of the above. Well, except marriage.

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Doc. J 2012/09/04 00:31:38

month

+1
My entry is such because you left nothing open ended for me to choose.

The right amount of time....is not a hard number.
It is the amount of time that you and your partner arrive at together. It can be a week, month, or several.
You have to talk....openly and honestly together. And sometimes that's more intimidating than the act of sex.
And if it is.........You need to wait longer.

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XRenX 2012/09/04 00:04:02 (edited)

save it for marriage

+4
At least get to know someone on an emotional level so you can have a strong backing for your relationship. If you just want a freak-with-me buddy, then this need not apply to you. :)

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AM 2012/09/03 23:54:18

Around 2 to 3 month

+2
I don't believe there is a time line for when it's right.For me it won't happen unless I'm absolutely certain that he's a keeper and that feeling is reciprocated

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MlssCue =Go Blue= 2012/09/03 23:50:06

month

+2
I chose the middle ground since there was no other. There is no set amount of time, imo. I think it's a decision to made by the two people involved. What works for some won't work for others & vice versa. Gotta go with your instinct.

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jc 2012/09/03 23:32:47

Few days

+3
How come on the 1st date isn't up there?LOL

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Daedalus to jc 2012/09/04 01:37:32 (edited)

+1
Does that work on a 1st date? Or is it really 2nd / 3rd date?

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peaches 2012/09/03 23:14:50

4 to 5 months

+1
It really depends on the people and situation. I knew I loved my girlfriend before we even started dating! But I waited even longer than 5 months to have sex with her. But I'm young and she's the only person I've been in a relationship with. It'd be different if I were 30 and experienced. Just an example of how it varies.

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DM Twin 2012/09/03 22:47:29

Few days

+1
moving it along....if that doesn't work.. ( and there is such a thing as bad sex )...why waste time?

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terrabytes 2012/09/03 22:45:14

save it for marriage

+2
In my opinion.

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me being me 2012/09/03 22:44:56

Under a month

+2
It depends. There really isn't a time table for it.

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Alli 2012/09/03 22:44:38

4 to 5 months

+1
How about when you're in love? I mean just because you date for a certain amount of time doesn't mean you're obliged to have sex with someone you only kind of like

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Kat 2012/09/03 22:42:53

Few days

+2
Depends on the people

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Link 2012/09/03 22:40:52

Under a month

+3
Entirely up to both of the people involved... this is not the same for all people...

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Theresa 2012/09/03 22:34:24

save it for marriage

+1
I am joking very few will delay gratification these days. But I think when you know the person is serious and you can trust them for their word. and the timing is right.

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Kevin 2012/09/03 22:25:57

Under a month

+2
It all really depends on the couple and their position on the matter; however, if you're younger than 16, you should wait until you are 16.

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