When someone tells you someone really close to them died. what do you say?
Erin
2012/04/25 22:20:20
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i hug them :3
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- thetacat 2012/04/27 15:35:22hug them and comfort them
without the hug. I lost both my parents. You don't need to be patronised, you need to be told the truth. Be honest. Things are going to be hard, but will get better.reply - rknothead 2012/04/26 06:10:11say sorrylet them do the talking if they feel they need to say something, then be a good listener.reply
- SemperRick 2012/04/26 05:24:54hug them and comfort them+1Give them your deepest condolences and ask if there is anything you can do or them.reply
- Cricket 2012/04/26 02:20:35say sorry+1I mean what I say. I'm sorry for their loss and depending on the circumstance, I sometimes hug them.reply
- Nai M. 2012/04/26 00:34:59say sorryMy boyfirends papa died. I ahd NO idea what to say or what to doreply
- Medulla Oblongata 2012/04/26 00:32:20say sorry+1I'm socially awkward, especially in situations like that, so generally I'd just say sorry and offer my condolences. Unless I knew the person that passed, will I hug and comfort the person that told me.reply
- Changeling 2012/04/26 00:01:11say sorry+1Unless I know them. Then I hug emreply
- Willski 2012/04/25 23:44:10make fun of themLast time, was my driving instructor a week or two ago... i said something like "Okay, that's nice."reply
- FencerCat 2012/04/25 23:24:25say sorryIt depends on how close a friend they are. I always say I'm sorry to hear that and sorry for their loss.reply
- wtxwoman 2012/04/25 23:13:15say sorrySay that I'm sorry for their lose and ask is there anything I can do for them. If they are close frinds or family, I hug them.reply
- Blonde Angel 2012/04/25 23:05:20hug them and comfort them& say I`m sorry for your lost :(reply
- Mz Understood 2012/04/25 23:04:01hug them and comfort themAnd tell them that I'm sorry for their loss.reply
- xEmoLoudCupcakex 2012/04/25 23:02:20hug them and comfort themI would also say I'm soo sorry for your lossreply
- shippo 2012/04/25 22:48:16hug them and comfort themI know how it feelsreply
- Brian 2012/04/25 22:47:20say sorryExpress my deepest sympathy and let them know I'm ready to help them during their time of grief.reply
- Kristen Lynn 2012/04/25 22:47:16avoid saying anything about itMy mom's dad died today. I don't handle death well. My brain just goes: "oh well, they're gone. nothing you can do about it. click." So I've just been kind of letting her be alone.reply
- aherbert 2012/04/25 22:46:50hug them and comfort themSincerely express you are sorry for their lost and tell them if you can do anything for them (within your means) that you will do it.... just be there it is so comforting.reply
- Pixie·MzAwesome♠ƤĦĂĔŢ♠ 2012/04/25 22:46:03avoid saying anything about itI never know what to say. A friend of mine told me he had cancer... I had no idea what to say I ended up saying "Wow...umm... That sucks."reply
- kitkat42 2012/04/25 22:45:58hug them and comfort themNot much you can say, just be there.reply
- Jack's Pearl 2012/04/25 22:45:04hug them and comfort themIf I know them well or if it seems an appropriate action. I say, "I'm sorry for your loss and let me know if I can do anything for you during this difficult time."reply
- Xitlalilolly 2012/04/25 22:44:58hug them and comfort themand say im sorryy :(reply
- Wolfie The Fallen Angel 2012/04/25 22:43:52hug them and comfort themI hug them and say aww I'm sorry I know how it feels
reply - Quiet-is-feared 2012/04/25 22:38:37hug them and comfort themIf it's someone im close with i will comfort them the best i can. I also tell them i'm sorry for their loss, as death is a pretty depressing thing :Lreply
