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When someone lies about you vindictively, how do you react?

prinzessin 2009/02/08 06:19:32
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Go after the person personally.
Get your husband, father or brother after them.
Turn the other cheek.
Trash talk them as fast as you can.
Gather all your evidence, let the law deal with it.
Tell everybody.
Pray God gets to them first.
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  • tarkeg 2009/02/08 21:08:06
    Go after the person personally.
    tarkeg
    +4
    not to lay the smack down, but to get to the bottom of it. If it gets loud- so be it. person personally lay smack loud-

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  • sailor.sim 2012/12/04 01:47:32 (edited)
    Hide from everybody
    sailor.sim
    I would be deeply hurt by their actions. I wouldn't want to talk to someone with the capacity to do that - not even to discuss the reason for their lies. I wouldn't want to deal with the repercussions either, i.e. the gossip and the questions... It's not always possible, but I'd rather isolate myself and recover from the cruelty of the act than endure the aftermath.
  • Majorshadow 2010/12/26 16:01:59
    Tell everybody.
    Majorshadow
    "Stand" is a song I wrote and it addresses lies and other evil deeds. Hear it at URL: http://www.youtube.com/watch?...
  • prinzessin 2009/02/11 08:28:04
    Gather all your evidence, let the law deal with it.
    prinzessin
    +1
    Update: The little twit thinks this is all a lark, we're going to go into "the arbitrator" and come out friends. The issue was I didn't want her as a friend to begin with. I hired her. She is an employee in the house of my abductive male parent. I want nothing not business related between us and I want her to stop trying to rip me off on her paychecks.Or am I asking for miracles?I am looking for a lawyer so I can dispose permanently of any ties to that family.
  • hyacinthwoman 2009/02/10 06:17:21
    Tell everybody.
    hyacinthwoman
    +1
    Really, I get pissed! But it happens, and there is not squat that you can do, is there? I just get tired of it big time. I try not to react. If I do, I am talkin' smack. I so do not want to give them satisfaction.
    There is a situation in my life right now....where I would like to scream but I'm not in the middle of the forest.....lol
    I've got your back!

    talkin smack satisfaction situation life scream middle forest lol ive
  • prinzessin hyacint... 2009/02/10 08:48:21
    prinzessin
    +1
    Thank you darlin. I'm working through the stun of it....and then I will finalize and forget.
    (77 Summerhill, Spotswood,Feb 18, 10 AM at the moment)
  • Majorsh... hyacint... 2010/09/05 20:45:42
  • divajinx 2009/02/09 05:09:35
    Go after the person personally.
    divajinx
    +2
    I've got a short fuse. I make a better friend than enemy. I don't get mad, I get even and paybacks are HELL! person personally ive fuse friend enemy mad paybacks
  • prinzessin divajinx 2009/02/10 08:49:36
    prinzessin
    People who make me into an enemy are very foolish indeed.
  • divajinx prinzessin 2009/02/22 21:31:06 (edited)
    divajinx
    It does depend on just what was said.....If someone ratted me out after I told them a secret then I would just deny saying it and move on. I also wouldn't EVER tell that person anything else. If someone did something that would disrupt my home (which I share with a parent) then I would go after them! They wouldn't only be hurting me, they'd be hurting my parent too! Those are grounds for revenge!
  • Majorsh... prinzessin 2010/09/05 20:45:15
  • Majorsh... divajinx 2010/09/05 20:45:30
  • moorrbrt1 "In God we Trust" 2009/02/09 04:56:29
    Go after the person personally.
    moorrbrt1 "In God we Trust"
    +2
    Depends on who's doing the lying. Most of the time I just get a good laugh at their expense. If it's someone that I once thought something of, I may go to them and try to reconcile. Or I may go looking to kick some ass. lol.
  • prinzessin moorrbr... 2009/02/10 08:55:52
    prinzessin
    +1
    An employee whose hire I approved refuses to refrain from injecting herself into my personal life. She's been insubordinate multiple times, had the stupidity to try and enlist me in her defrauding the State of New Jersey of Disability Payments and wants to cheat on her taxes on the same money. I said no and leave me alone with your personal messes. She took a hissy fit and called me a blazing bi-polar schizo. Told her the fact that I don't like her and that she's committed a crime makes me nothing, it makes me a criminal and do not contact me except for her hours report. Dropped off two paychecks at mutually convenient place, found notice in my box that she had file a
    harassment complaint (informal). My counter isn't informa. Not about to let it slide.l
  • moorrbr... prinzessin 2009/02/10 21:34:54
    moorrbrt1 "In God we Trust"
    +1
    Sounds like it's time to open up a can of whoop-ass.
  • woody 2009/02/08 23:18:12
    Turn the other cheek.
    woody
    +2
    Tell them to kiss my grits!!! and go on to next chat!!! or this turn cheek kiss grits chat
  • prinzessin woody 2009/02/10 08:58:12
    prinzessin
    That's what I basically did...so me not wanting to do with her is harassing her. She's lucky I didn't fire her for her insubordination months ago. Now the law will have to tell her.Some people are unreal.
  • Majorsh... prinzessin 2010/09/05 20:44:48
  • ctuagentdown 2009/02/08 21:15:21
    Go after the person personally.
    ctuagentdown
    +2
    then and there face to face with a crowd that way there is no misunderstanding about anything
  • prinzessin ctuagen... 2009/02/08 21:38:16
    prinzessin
    liable witnesses are a great weapon.
  • tarkeg 2009/02/08 21:08:06
    Go after the person personally.
    tarkeg
    +4
    not to lay the smack down, but to get to the bottom of it. If it gets loud- so be it. person personally lay smack loud-
  • prinzessin tarkeg 2009/02/08 21:39:09
    prinzessin
    +2
    It clears the garbage out of the way.
  • tarkeg prinzessin 2009/02/08 21:43:22
    tarkeg
    true dat
  • ZILdeactivated 2009/02/08 18:05:35
    Hide from everybody
    ZILdeactivated
    +1
    I've always been somewhat cowardly that way.
  • prinzessin ZILdeac... 2009/02/08 21:46:57
    prinzessin
    +2
    I prefer to just ignore them but some just can't let it be.
  • Majorsh... prinzessin 2010/09/05 20:44:06
  • Majorsh... ZILdeac... 2010/09/05 20:43:57
  • Nick~believe ^MOTOOP^ 2009/02/08 17:17:29
    Go after the person personally.
    Nick~believe ^MOTOOP^
    +1
    None of the choices are exactly what I'd do. I do try to confront the person directly, but sometimes that's not possible or doesn't do any good. My friends know me and what I would or wouldn't do. I've never had anyone do that in such a way that it would jeopardise my job or relationship. I hope I'm low profile enough that no one ever would.
  • prinzessin Nick~be... 2009/02/08 21:46:04
    prinzessin
    You're very fortunate. Some people around this area can't stand to see others happy, stable, at peace with themselves. It's a cutthroat society in part. Some people just can't stand being rejected or not being the center of attention. They have an absolute hissy fit.
    It's a total loss of rational behavior. Next door live some guys and at 2AM some girl decides she's in love with him, kicking down his door, assaulting him, claiming she's in love with him and wants me to call the police cause "he's a nutcase". First thing they say when they're on the losing end. As if they're all that someone has to be nuts not towant to be involved.
  • Nick~be... prinzessin 2009/02/09 00:02:22
    Nick~believe ^MOTOOP^
    That's unfortunate that you live in a place like that. I guess I've always been under the radar. No one ever took me seriously enough to give me a difficult time about anything. The most attention I ever had was being in a few plays in school an at university, and whatever viscious people might have been about simply didn't care about the theatre types.

    Now that I pretend to be a grownup, I'm away from all of that. All in all, Cardiff is a pretty nice place.
  • Sasssy 2009/02/08 15:26:30
    Go after the person personally.
    Sasssy
    +3
    person personally person personally

    IT'S ON...
  • prinzessin Sasssy 2009/02/08 21:47:45
    prinzessin
    +2
    Wish I could do that..nice action.
  • moorrbr... Sasssy 2009/02/09 04:58:43
    moorrbrt1 "In God we Trust"
    +1
    An eye for an eye. Go get'em girl. If you need some help. Holler.
  • prinzessin moorrbr... 2009/02/10 13:47:19
    prinzessin
    I'm hollerin! Hope the judge hears me.
  • Majorsh... moorrbr... 2010/09/05 20:43:07
  • Majorsh... Sasssy 2010/09/05 20:43:18
  • autumn_1959 2009/02/08 13:12:02
    Pray God gets to them first.
    autumn_1959
    +2
    as long as i know it aint true i ignore them sooner or later everything comes clean in the wash and people eventually learn that person for who and what they truely are i dont have to do anything the Good Lord deals out his wrath on those kinds on people
  • prinzessin autumn_... 2009/02/08 21:48:17
    prinzessin
    I hope.
  • Majorsh... autumn_... 2010/09/05 20:42:59
  • autumn_... Majorsh... 2011/01/08 15:25:58
    autumn_1959
    majorsh wrote down the link thank you
  • Shellva 2009/02/08 12:15:32
    Pray God gets to them first.
    Shellva
    +1
    I don't go after them myself, because God wouldn't apporve of that. I just pray He will seal with it in a timely way that will let them know they were wrong.

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