When dating, what are your dislikes about someone that would make you stop dating them?

It seems as though after a while, the "other" person appears and sometimes this is a dating breaker. "Dr. Jeckle/Mr or Miss Hyde. I have found that it takes 6 months for this to occur.

If they was too serious all the time are to childish all the time steels nd smells bad with nasty teeth also OVER BOSSY

Not being trueful. Lying is a very good reason. Selfishness, negative, nerdy, not compassionate, really cheap,body order, drinking too much or taking drugs,fighting, only coming over for a bootie call, not taking a person out....etc.

that first few weeks where everything seems all lollipops and rainbows doesn't count for much because people are usually on some of their best behavior.
I do my best to be REAL but i can't say the same for others.
After that phase when things get real... I will be super observant and notice the small things:
How he treats people (does he tip? is he a jerk to the valet guy? does he hold the door open for me... or the older lady that's behind me?)
How he handles stressful situations. If he allows me to pick up a check (i'm all about equality and if he insists on picking up the check it means he doesn't consider me an equal) and does he speak highly of his parents/family without being a mamas boy.
Does he exhibit crude behavior or say inappropriate things when out with my co-workers/good friends for the first time.
Yes, it's all a test... and i'm not ashamed to say it.
Either someone stands up to the tests or not. I'm too far along in this life to consider wasting time w/ anyone or anything that's not going to work out.

Never been on the dating circuit but would probably say the way he treats the people around him and handles himself as a whole in a relationship minus the intimacy as that comes a lot later is most important. Its first getting to know the attitude of the person, adjusting to it and then finally taking the natural plunge if its All Clear. No doubt, looking at the face value plays an important role, its the ability to interact and bring forth results that makes a difference. I tend to take time in deciding who I want to be with in life and when I make up my mind, I know that they are with me for life and I stand by my word despite the odds. Its a commitment for life which defines dignity and character and I personally will not bend my head to break my promise even in times of pressure, so if they are unable to treat people well, which includes family, I would rather stay away from them. I do take the overall appearance into consideration to make a full assessment of character rather than a hop into bed after one phone call type as how you dress portrays the attitude to life.

When they cheat. Or flirt wih other girls.

Sodahead won't let me change the answer, so I'll have to do it here: bad manners, being very demanding, and insisting on having their wall on all things.

If they become too clingy and needy where I have to tell them everyplace I am going and who I am seeing, than in the next breath tell me "of course I trust you honey."

I like commitment and dating, but couples should be able to spend time apart to do things they enjoy without the other partner freaking out.

I was with someone like that--he was even upset because I was teaching a class and needed time to prepare. He wanted ALL my free time....bleargh!

That is the reason I am no longer with my ex, she wanted to be together 24/7 and cried whenever I spent time with any other women.

Ego problems don't sit well with me.

when they grab my butt

Although not looking like your profile picture is annoying, I'm not going to date someone I meet on Facebook

Bad manners, hygiene, & lying.....

All of the above and more. I don`t like it when a guy doesn`t want to work, or who is dumb.

I like basic intelligence or at least someone with alot of common sense and humor.

I also like guys to be a jack of all trades, ie : knows basic automobile mechanics...

When I was younger this was common knowledge for guys to know this kind of stuff, nowadays it seems different.
I don`t want to be the one that "wears the pants " in a date.

When it comes to cars these days, unless someone has a diagnostic computer like they have in repair shops (he doesn't), there's as much a shade tree mechanic can do any more. The days of boyfriends fixing your car are going away. Batteries,radiator fluid and oil changes, sure, but a lot of stuff in cars is too electronic, and if you try to fix one thing, the other things can be thrown off.

Ya your right, I always had old cars, still do ,second hand vehicles. I really miss the old car engines, sad that this is a thing of the past. Such a perfect American made engine with it`s carburator and all. lol
Thanks for your response, It made me feel like you understood where I was coming from. My first car , paid $200.00 for it, second hand. and it lasted me years. The best car ever 1972 Duster. I waNT TO GET ANOTHER ONE.

i dont have any bieng in a relationship is the best thing that could happen to me

*Being bigoted
*Being fake
*Being rude
*Being flirtatious with every girl

That basically sums it up.

Timing is everything when it comes to the 'L' word, bad manners is just disrespectful, and if you can't even post your own profile pic, you're either insecure, don't love yourself, or don't want anyone to know you have an online dating profile. . . which means you're involved in another relationship. . .

that happend to me couple times...

But you're so lovable! ;-)

haha, thanks...i guess...

Because most dates I've been on have been very pleasant!!

Those are all pretty bad but not all of them.

Rudeness doesn't ever fly with me.

Ignorance, inanity and/or a closed mind will do it every time;

"How much do you earn" is also a bit of a turn off ;)

I am put of by women who constantly complain or moan about just about everything and everybody they know or meet.

Constantly complain is a good one. What about if the woman blows up your phone every min??

I was dating a women who used to phone me what seemed like a million times a day and I only actually went out with her once. Surprisingly she was a nurse to and I am not kidding you here. I was working a seventeen hour week at the time and it was not a pleasant feeling that she was stalking me. But, after 3 months I decided to stop answering the phone.

I also had a woman who would phone and tell me what a "lovely body you have Joey" every night of the week at the same time for almost a year. I believe that was someone who was known to me, taking the mickey, but she never admitted to it. lol. But one could see that she had a very distinct twinkle in her een as she denied it and still denies it.

Wow, yes that happens alot for both men and woman. Had almost the same happen to me, and like you on the 3rd month I had to end it. Maybe some can be rather needy no matter of the sex.

i have trust issues and "i love you" has the opposite effect on me.and also, i don't think you know you love someone after the first date.

I so agree with the I love you being said so early. I can not stand when people pick on the weak or disable ., Thinking it is funny or trying to impress me by being rude to others. I'm a nurse by trade and that just don't go down with me, nor do I think it is funny. Not only do we need to see how these people treat us, but how they treat others as well.
xx

you're right.how about when they say ugly things about their exes? it's so stupid don't you think?

Very, much so. Maybe they still stuck on the ex
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or maybe they are just childish.you know,when kids change their "best friend" and say bad things about the other to show their loyalty to the new one :))

... there's a lot actually.

But bad manners can really get to my nerves.

I don't like rude people.

amen!

If I am going to date then my preference is an Asian gal.