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What the hell is wrong with most of you on here?

critter171 2012/04/29 22:22:37
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Anyone a child cries he either spoil and brat and trying to get everything he or she wants.

Kids cry its normal the problem lies with adults who forget how it was being a child and many of you are trying to get these kids to grow up way to fast.


In fact Adults need to get more common sense and no i didn't say all were i said most on here are ignorant beyond belief.
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  • oldlady 2012/04/30 16:43:15
    Undecided
    oldlady
  • evangel... oldlady 2012/05/01 01:11:19
    evangelism_vision
    +1
    I Put undecided only because I think the question and choices could have been worded a little different but I get the jest of what your saying.

    You know what really sets me off is when I am at the local store and I see a little kid jumping up and down crying because his or her mom won't give him this or that. One day in the Store at J.C. Penney's I saw just that and the young boy I would say about age 6 kicked him mom in the leg and she went ahead and got him what he wanted!
    What??????????????????? Are you nuts?
    First off, It was a Hispanic woman not that that makes a difference but My daughter when she was 7 years old tried that and she never ever did that again. You know why?

    I applied the board of correction when I got home and at the Store I spanked her in front of Everyone and firmly told her so all around would hear that " You will never act like that again and be disrespectful to your Mother"
    She was very quit and every time we went to the Store she never acted that way again.

    The Bible says : Spar the rod and spoil the child. It also says if you spar the rod you actually hate your children, further it says that you will drive them away from Hell.

    The problem we have in this Country starts at Home and the way you and I raise our children. There was a time when the Ten Command...















    I Put undecided only because I think the question and choices could have been worded a little different but I get the jest of what your saying.

    You know what really sets me off is when I am at the local store and I see a little kid jumping up and down crying because his or her mom won't give him this or that. One day in the Store at J.C. Penney's I saw just that and the young boy I would say about age 6 kicked him mom in the leg and she went ahead and got him what he wanted!
    What??????????????????? Are you nuts?
    First off, It was a Hispanic woman not that that makes a difference but My daughter when she was 7 years old tried that and she never ever did that again. You know why?

    I applied the board of correction when I got home and at the Store I spanked her in front of Everyone and firmly told her so all around would hear that " You will never act like that again and be disrespectful to your Mother"
    She was very quit and every time we went to the Store she never acted that way again.

    The Bible says : Spar the rod and spoil the child. It also says if you spar the rod you actually hate your children, further it says that you will drive them away from Hell.

    The problem we have in this Country starts at Home and the way you and I raise our children. There was a time when the Ten Commandments were taught and you don't have to be religious to understand that it is a Moral standard. It is God's Moral Standard for all of us.

    The problem is no one is ever able to keep them all and if you break One, you are guilty of all. The Law of God is the Tutor that leads us to Christ because we are all sinful people who naturally have the ability to sin. (Romans 3:10)

    Secondly, Our school has taken them out of the School and refuses to allow students to pray and that's because of Atheist and Communist Groups like the ACLU who claim that they are standing up for the rights of Americans while the Schools are driving Morality far away from our students.
    Is it the Responsibility of the School to teach Morality and Life issues? Or should that be the Responsibility of the Parents? Actually as I said, it begins at home. But the problem is and most students across this country can confirm that if a student does exercise his religious rights, he is quickly condemned either by the school or those around him as if he is strange.
    Don't expect the schools to force religion on anyone and it should not be but students should be able to exercise that if they desire.

    Parents... You who have teens.... Thank goodness mine are grown up. You have a great Responsibility trying to keep them from the temptation of immorality and creating a unwanted baby that will effect their ability to finish school or future employment opportunities.
    I can say that my daughter made it through and graduated from High School without a baby, However she disappointed me after school and those are the trying times for parents who try and raise kids to do the right thing but you have to understand that if you try to do the right thing and they blow it, It was not your fault.

    Everyone is responsible on their own merit before God. Ya even me too. Sometimes when I talk about politics I put my foot in my mouth.... Heck I am human! My motives were right......OK some of the times. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh there in is the flaw in all of us as a member of the Human race!

    Parents! GOOD LUCK! i DID IT, DONE IT AND DONE WITH THAT! But does it stop there?
    Sorry !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... If your a Grandparent! Now you have new responsibilities!!!! Geeeeeeeeeeeeeeee It never ends does it? Well in the famous words of Homer Simpson:

    D'OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH... !
    (more)
  • Dweezle evangel... 2012/05/01 09:11:55
    Dweezle
    +1
    I was agreeing with you until you got into the Bible crap! then I just moved on...
  • evangel... Dweezle 2012/05/01 19:53:17
    evangelism_vision
    +1
    I NEVER GO WITH OUT IT SO WHATEVER
  • critter171 evangel... 2012/05/06 17:42:26
    critter171
    I can agree with some but you didn't need to through the bible into the mix of that man, i respect religion but this has nothing to do with bible kids don't all act like that in fact i umpire youth softball and baseball the other day a 12 year old girl gave a bat to another 12 year old girl. she never had to do that. she did it for helping out. they also clean the plate for me but i got to say no they don't need to do that. Secondly the women has no control over her child the child controls her. she a bad parent cleary. If i had a child like he be brought to the damn car and we wait for the mother or go home i wouldn't put up with it.
  • SovereignX 2012/04/30 13:35:01
    Undecided
    SovereignX
    +2
    some ppl just don't take other opinions very well, thats all i got to say about the subject
  • critter171 SovereignX 2012/05/06 17:43:33
    critter171
    nothign wrong with a opioion that someone does not like but don't go label them as bad kids are bad parents cause a kid cries or does something at his age its normal.
  • YodaHead 2012/04/30 09:56:04
    Undecided
    YodaHead
    +1
    well ... i think my ears stick out a little ...
  • Wanderer 2012/04/30 09:00:32
  • Andy Fletcher 2012/04/30 07:41:52
    Undecided
    Andy Fletcher
    You wonder why adults don't talk to you in respectful manner? Are you REALLY a graduate of a high school located within the United States of America? Is English your native tongue? If the answer to any of my questions is yes, America is freaking doomed. Sorry kiddo, you sound EXACTLY like one of the spoiled brats you are trying to advocate for. Parents should NEVER give in to children who are crying because they don't get what they want. It only serves to reinforce the attitude that promulgates the entitlement sector of society. My step-daughter tried the sit down in the middle of the aisle and scream because her mother told her she couldn't have something...ONCE...It would have been much easier of course to just give her what she wanted to shut her up and stop the embarrassment, which prior to this incident had been mommies way of dealing with it. I had had ENOUGH. When I grabbed that 5 year old up by her arm and stood her back on her feet it and told her that her mother said no and that was EXACTLY what she meant, the cashier got so scared she couldn't look me in the eye and was shaking so bad she dropped my change. The child was not hurt in the slightest, but you know, she never tried that again. Under no circumstances should a parent allow themselves to be blackmailed.
  • critter171 Andy Fl... 2012/05/06 17:44:30
  • Andy Fl... critter171 2012/05/06 22:32:16
    Andy Fletcher
    Well, at least you can read. You were able to recognize that it was indeed an insult, though not that it wasn't necessarily aimed at you alone. Children that throw tantrums or use threats to get what they want from parents are spoiled. It makes for bad children and bad parents.

    I'm old enough to be your grandfather, I'll reserve the right to call you kiddo if I choose thank you very much, especially since you write like a 10 year old.
  • critter171 Andy Fl... 2012/05/07 18:11:47
  • Andy Fl... critter171 2012/05/07 21:36:33
    Andy Fletcher
    Does your English tend to get better the more pissed you get? You did much better this time around.
  • Bibliophilic 2012/04/30 05:42:30
    Undecided
    Bibliophilic
    There's nothing wrong with crying?
  • critter171 Bibliop... 2012/05/06 17:44:58
    critter171
    +1
    crying is normal so yes nothing wrong with crying
  • reaper 2012/04/30 05:15:09
    Undecided
    reaper
    what isn't wrong with me?
  • James 2012/04/30 02:20:11
    No i didn't kids are selfish to much this day
    James
    We need to find a balance between being a complete hard-ass and being a doormat. Kids need structure; especially when they are young. I especially liked that Tiger-mom book; it reminds me alot of myself. I strive for my kids to be the best because when they grow up, getting what we had given to us will be so much harder. You can't coast through life anymore and expect the world to be handed to you on a silver platter. Everything within reason.
  • critter171 James 2012/05/06 17:45:48
    critter171
    +1
    i do agree people need to find a balance some parents are just letting kids control them.
  • me being me 2012/04/30 01:37:13
    Undecided
    me being me
    +1
    My ex thinks the same way. That if a child cries he/she is spoiled. Hence"ex". Children that want for nothing, though and then told that they can't have it...that's another issue all together. Other than that, children need to be allowed to discuss their feelings. Sometimes all it takes is to start asking them why they r crying. If it's a baby then it's needs not wants most of the time.
  • critter171 me bein... 2012/05/06 17:46:18
    critter171
    +1
    thanks for your opinion love it.
  • **StarzAbove** 2012/04/30 01:29:38
    Undecided
    **StarzAbove**
    +3
    I'm pretty good at figuring out what someone is trying to ask on here, but I have no idea what you are trying to ask. Maybe you should rewrite your question so we can understand. OK?
  • critter171 **Starz... 2012/05/06 17:46:39
    critter171
    you don't udnerstand don't bother replaying as many other have no issues with it.
  • **Starz... critter171 2012/05/06 17:49:50
    **StarzAbove**
    You mean "don't bother replying"? It looks you're wrong. There are a lot of people on here that don't know what the heck you asked.
  • me bein... critter171 2012/05/06 18:12:07
    me being me
    Ouch! LOL
  • beach bum 2012/04/30 01:20:33
    Undecided
    beach bum
    +1
    there are more kids on here than adults
  • critter171 beach bum 2012/05/06 17:46:59
    critter171
    i am 25 years old grow up and stop trying to call someone else a child
  • beach bum critter171 2012/05/19 03:39:25
    beach bum
    doh!
  • me bein... beach bum 2012/05/06 18:11:45
    me being me
    +1
    Then that makes me the rarity and the parent. UGH!!!!
  • beach bum me bein... 2012/05/19 03:39:46
    beach bum
    +1
    it does bring a different perspective or view to the site
  • me bein... beach bum 2012/05/19 03:50:41
    me being me
    LOL!
  • jubil8 BN-0 PON 2012/04/30 01:13:10
    Undecided
    jubil8 BN-0 PON
    +4
    Would you like Italian or Ranch dressing with your word salad?

    I've never seen a post with so many "Undecided" replies because people couldn't understand wtf the writer is talking about.
  • critter171 jubil8 ... 2012/04/30 01:14:38
    critter171
    i have no problem with what they voted for or why they voted for.
  • FrancheskahMae:) 2012/04/30 00:57:30
    Undecided
    FrancheskahMae:)
    +5
    Why don't you just edit this question and clue us all in here..
  • critter171 Franche... 2012/04/30 01:00:19
    critter171
    +1
    why should i? its obviously i already told you its adult trying to get kids to grow up way to quick. its adult that think everytime a child cries he is being selfish and couldn't be nothing more no matter the age. how hard is that to understand?
  • Franche... critter171 2012/04/30 01:03:02
    FrancheskahMae:)
    +1
    -_- Well I feel sorry for said people who think this.
  • critter171 Franche... 2012/04/30 01:06:48
    critter171
    no i wouldn't of said it if people actually stop trying to label every child selfish for crying. they can use better words to describe there disagreement. that where my problem lies.
  • Ian 2012/04/30 00:26:20
    Undecided
    Ian
    +7
    Look mate, what hell are you talking about?
  • XENON23 2012/04/30 00:15:21
    Undecided
    XENON23
    +1
    While I think I tend to agree with you I can't help but think that our current concept of childhood is only a little over 100 years old. Before people did not tend to think or childhood as we do now.
  • SlaveWaterNymph 2012/04/30 00:09:00
    No i didn't kids are selfish to much this day
    SlaveWaterNymph
    +4
    im going with this one. I had to read it about five times, and getting a bit of it.
    Okay in the beginning it is the parents fault, for not raising them right. But once they hit the age of decision making and knowing wrong from right, it is the child's fault.

    And anyways most children do cry and get what they want, as they see it works all the time. And they think, why stop when im getting everything i want? Would you stop if you knew all you had to do was cry or make a scene in a public place to get what you want?
    And that is why adults/parents ignore most children who cry in today's society as they see it as wanting attention and so forth. So yup that is where you are wrong. :P

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