What should you do if you like a guy but your not sure he likes you back?

Live_for_music 2010/04/28 21:33:28
I really like this guy, and I think he might be sending me signs back....but Im not sure if hes just messing around.... my best friend told me to just go for it... but I dont want to get hurt
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  • jordie123 2012/11/30 17:00:18
    what i do i just be myself around him and if he likes you he will give you his number or sit next to you and if you act all nerous he will know because theres a boy that i like just act normal it helps a lot if your close friends like me and him youl get a good chance with him

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  • celia 2013/09/14 22:30:18
    Go for it and if it turns out bad act like it was a dare. EASY
  • Seharra 2013/08/30 23:50:27
    I like this guy and I don't know how to be around him. He's older and all but I'm really shy.. What should I do?
  • Hadley Seharra 2013/09/11 03:02:45
    Be yoyrself
  • amy 2013/08/18 01:53:09
    I've liked this guy for months now and me and him are really good mates we talk all the time and we both fancied eachother at the same time and his mates kept coming up to me telling me that he likes me and all he done was smile and it went on for a month and he was always talking to his mates about me saying he liked me but he wouldent admit it and now I have fell for him all over again and I don't think he likes me anymore what should I do ?
  • Kayleigh 2013/02/13 06:59:16
    I really like this boy called bryce and he is really hot. But I don't know if likes me and if I ask him I might get hurt
  • jordie123 2012/11/30 17:00:18
    what i do i just be myself around him and if he likes you he will give you his number or sit next to you and if you act all nerous he will know because theres a boy that i like just act normal it helps a lot if your close friends like me and him youl get a good chance with him
  • brianna 2012/11/03 06:55:26
    I'm Kind Of In The Same Situation. Theirs This Guy, Woody. We Get Along Great! He Makes Me Smile and Laugh and Everyone says he's lonely without me when I am sick or something. Everyone says he likes me and I dont know what to do. I can tell be kind of likes
    Me which makes me so happy but idk how to take it a step farther...
  • tia brianna 2013/02/02 20:33:57
    Hey I have been through that if he really likes you give him your phone number tell him to call you sometime
  • holly brianna 2013/09/29 03:57:14
    Ask a friend secretly to ask him what he thinks of you. But make sure that 1. You can trust the friend. 2.tell the friend not to tell him that you sent the friend.
  • kelse midway 2012/10/24 01:12:16
    kelse midway
    girl go after your man you like him thats not something to play around with. Go i say go tell him and chances are he loves you. You known him for that long ahhh..... yea he likes you
  • nikki 2012/10/13 22:07:25
    i have been friends with a guy for five or six years and i like him now but he has been sending me mixed signals like we txt like all the time and people say we would make a good couple but i dont know if he likes me you know? and if i dont askhim out now i could be too late.what do i do?
  • tia nikki 2013/02/02 20:35:42
    Just go for it
  • amy nikki 2013/08/18 01:54:51
    Go for it he might feel the same way you never know and if not at least you tried
  • celia 2012/09/22 16:08:49
    Well here are my steps...#1. Tell him that you have a crush on a guy. #2. Ask him for advice weather to tell the ``guy`` or not. #3. Ask him if he has a crush. #4. Let him take charge and let it go on from there!
  • Bree celia 2012/12/17 03:22:49
    I think thats to straight fowrword you need to talk it slow or you'll scare him/her off.
  • Janet 2011/07/20 18:24:06
    I don't know.I have the same problem,but with a girl.
  • cara 2010/09/26 18:11:18
    what should i do i meen i dont want to ruin the friendship we have but i also want to be more!=)
  • Sarsoura 2010/07/27 09:43:57
    I am the opened person. If I like somone, I tell him.
    My friends always tell me that this is the wrong way. That makes you "less interesting". but hey, if everyone would be the same, it wouldnt be interesting nomore, right?
    So try to listen to your heart what is the best for you. Would you like to tell him, then do so. Would you like to show him, than do it. Would you like to wait, wait.
    Try to not open your heart too much, then you cant get too much hurt. You can say him "I like you" without getting to much hurt if he doesnt.. you know what I mean?
    Try to not daydream "what would be if". Wait and see what happenes.

    Good Luck Girl ;)
  • rowafa17 2010/07/20 01:40:03
    well first thing I'll tell him that I like him and if he laugh I'll kill him ..
  • purpleicecreamvan<3 2010/05/02 13:07:02
    just tell him! for all you know, he likes you back and you've been wasting your time worrying
  • CCHHii<3 2010/04/30 10:19:57
    im just gonna shut my mouth..and tell no one about him..thats what i usually do i just avoid those guys i like..^^ weird right..but i like it..rather to flirt with them..
  • Brian Tristan MacQuillan 2010/04/29 19:01:51
    Brian Tristan MacQuillan
    The more you worry about it, the more bad vibes you give off, and the more likely you are to attract a negative response. Everyone gets nervous, but the longer you wait to do anything, flirt, or just to come right out and say something, the more you tie your self up in knots, and the more likely you are (in your mind at least) to make a fool of yourself. Just put yourself out there, and see what happens. If it does not work out the way you want, just remember your own self worth is not tied up in if you get the response you want.
    flirt tie knots mind fool work remember worth tied response
  • rwsncool 2010/04/29 13:20:59
    you have to be around fire to play with it
  • Dorkola -Easily Amused && P... 2010/04/29 01:38:25
    Dorkola -Easily Amused && Perverted-
    Ask him if he likes you! Obviously. Or, just go for it! If he rejects you, the find someone else!
  • kelse m... Dorkola... 2012/10/24 00:32:27
    kelse midway
    But some times its not that easy. If you get rejected you might feel lost in side, its hard is what Im trying to say.
  • katelyn kelse m... 2012/12/01 02:20:58
    Thanks i really enjoyed reading yours
  • JaneDoe 2010/04/29 01:14:15
    go for it, just think, if he doesn't feel the same way, your just steps closer to your true love.
  • Anastasia JaneDoe 2012/07/16 00:43:54
    thank you very much
  • CallMeDora(: 2010/04/29 00:33:16
    keep flirting and see what happens!
  • Ray Ray 2010/04/28 23:04:50
    Ray Ray
    Just hug them and ask!! hug
  • lintlicker 2010/04/28 22:55:18
    Ask. It saves time.
  • ☆Varsha★ 2010/04/28 22:12:55
    I think you should tell him. That's what I'd do. If you're confident in your own taste in guys, if he doesn't feel the same about you, he'll tell you in a way that won't hurt you too much. So I say... tell him. Just to see. It's pretty likely that he likes you back.
  • kelse m... ☆Varsha★ 2012/10/24 00:35:10
    kelse midway
    You are a master my friend if I know you I would ask you out
  • Prometheus~phaet~ 2010/04/28 22:05:10
  • wandering mystery aka Relch... 2010/04/28 21:47:28
    wandering mystery aka Relcho of Anid
    Hmm, is there someone you can ask o like feel out things for you?
  • ~WinnieThePooh~ ^-^ 2010/04/28 21:43:46
    ~WinnieThePooh~ ^-^
    Haha!! I went thru the same thing!! EXACT THING!! So i went farther away from him meaning u have 2 hang out more with ur bffs instead of him and ignore him.!! And if he keeps getting closer 2 u then he likes u!! But if he backs off then he doesnt care.
  • Quintessential Brother The ... 2010/04/28 21:42:03
    Quintessential Brother The Conservative Liberal
    Tell him... see what he says! Ahhhhhhhh... adolescences the good ole days! What do you mean by you don't want to get hurt?
  • Live_fo... Quintes... 2010/04/28 21:47:55
    like if I go for it and say something...I dont want to get let down....
  • Quintes... Live_fo... 2010/04/28 21:59:24 (edited)
    Quintessential Brother The Conservative Liberal
    "I don't want to get let down" You have several let downs in your future before you get married, good luck! Oh yeah I say go for it, guy love it when a girl like them, no sex though until you're married. lmao :p
  • Live_fo... Quintes... 2010/04/28 22:01:06
    ahhh so true.... lol thanks

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