What makes a guy hot? Looks? Brains? Personality? What is it?

I think that money is a big player. I watched a bit on the Discovery Channel (or something like that), where some researches took pics of 10 men and matched them with brief biographies that included a profession and salary for each. Upon repeated trials, an order of *hotness* as judged by women emerged. They then reordered the professions and salaries such that the least attractive man (as judged by women) was given the highest salary and, suddenly, the he was, again through repeated trials, ranked either first or second most sexually desirable.

I really wish that I could find that video again.

You have a point; when women want to settle down, money does come into play. I suppose for some, their hotness is defined by their dollars. I don't like that, but I do think you got a big point there.

when he sees a hot woman...lol

I never thought of it that way. Could be!

The personality...A six pack doesn't hurt either....

It doesn't. I agree!

Looks draw you to a guy, the personality keeps you there. Being able to have an intelligent convo is just a bonus...

Yep! I am 100% with you there!

Looks make a guy hot, but personality and brains make him sexy! =)

Thanks!

Why do people send me these.......like I'd know, being a man? Cripes.

There is one for each. There's one for what makes a woman sexy too. Thanks!

Uncertain of your sexual orientation perhaps ?

Unlike some who prefer deepthroating their own sex in some heightened state of arousal, I can safely state that my arrow points due north thankyouverrrrymush.

I want the whole package.

Same here! Thanks!

Shallow as if may be Looks are first yet that gets old really quick without brains=the ability to converse insightfully on a myriad of subjects.That's when personality comes into play,the ability to find humor in most situations.Fun is vastly important-I've had many dates that fulfilled the latter and bored me to tears..But in the end if he kisses me correctly-stirring me that apexes all else....however temporary.On that note off with hopes Good Night.

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personality and brains

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personality then looks then brains. As long as he can read a book and understand common knowledge, I'm fine with that. All the boys I've ever liked have been B-honor roll and I've always been A-honor roll. Anyways I think guys are just faces and their faces change for me depending on their personality. So, personality before looks and then brains. But really I look for wit above brains because I would rather have someone witty and clever cracking funny little jokes than someone super nerdy like me all like "e=mc^2"

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All of the above in a mixture

I concur! Thanks!

100% there with you on that!

Personality, sence of humor, honesty, and looks don't hurt

Sure doesn't hurt to have good looks thrown in. Thanks!

Brains and looks are fine but the three important things for me are:
1) a sense of humor
2) a great personality
3) a love for music

And a great heart! Thanks!

Definitely!! You're welcome ;)

Confidence!

Love the pic! A good sense of humor too! Thanks!

It's all about humor rather than hostility. Didja notice how much hostility you see on this site and in general?

Yeah, especially political threads. I try to stay away from them, and also not do those very often.

personality..... is the most important thing for me

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The way they look when there nude.

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lol