What attracts you to someone?

Personality, and general beauty (long hair and feminine features).

Smile & eyes are the first initial indicaters of personality.

there smile and hair <3 :P
an d personality also is important

She should be 1. Redhead 2. Caring,3 Over 50 .4 Like Sex. 5. A compatable personality.6. Not Obese or too skinny. (My redhead meets all of these.)

Aside from any sort of chemistry I may feel, if it's not a sexual attraction I like people who are warm, friendly and genuine.

Sometimes it is the above mentioned things......But it's never any one of them alone.
It's always a combination, with the inclusion of a certain intangible that cannot really be measured, called "chemistry".

There really is no 1 definitive thing that attracts me.Of course physical is always 1st.I'm analytical by nature except when it comes to that chemistry, knowing I'd 'think' myself out of any possibility of love.How do I feel in their presence ? How do they feel around me? Does not need to be reasoned out..I let it play out when I have that special feeling.For me true attraction with any depth to it takes a great deal of time,communication and wicked sexual desire..

Well said...

Thank you ,I do agree with chemistry between 2 being an intangible element.Few and far between have the ability to stir me.Interest me yes but not worth taking to another level.

I know the feeling.
It's difficult to find that person who's just alike enough, just different enough, has compatible levels of passion, a sharp mind, good humor....and that extra "something" that makes it all just click with who YOU are....

It's like trying to get a stool sample from a rocking horse.

Intelligence and Ambition...to me are important.
and the Will to Succeed..

A great personality can do wonders for me. As I love good conversation. Then smile, then eyes.

Eyes and smile are the first things I usually notice...

But, personality wins out over physical beauty... while physical beauty is awesome to behold, I'd rather be with someone who is physically "attractive" (rather than physically beautiful) and beautiful in personality.... the being beautiful in personality rounds out and completes the entire package and make the physically attractive become beautiful overall...

Personality, honesty, integrity, down-to-earth, sense of humour that bends the rules...

Does this make sense? It does to me...

And, as a side note: Face facts, Folks, it is physical attraction that most often dictates who we take interaction with to the next level... The first thing we ever know about a person (USUALLY) is how they look... They are usually physically attractive to us, first, for us to usually make the next move towards getting to know them personally...

Again, someone of simple, attractive features, with an awesome personality is the most beautiful, while some of incredible physical beauty with a terrible personality can be the ugliest person overall.

Would have too be one's inner beauty.

Their intellect.

i meant to click personality

I may find you physically attractive but if your personality sucks, even your looks go down the drain IMO.

And breast lol

It's not always the same thing; sometimes it's the body, sometimes it's her eyes, sometimes it takes a while of talking to her before I realize I'm into her.

I would explain if I could, but said explanation would be about book length because of all the factors. A bare few though, and mind you this is entirely incomplete, might be something like this.

Intelligent, attractive, driven, a little crazy even, talented, well balanced in terms of good traits and bad, passionate, restrained, dedicated, wild, energetic, focused, fun loving, adventurous, confident, possibly bordering on arrogant, etc
believe it or not, it's possible. But that's just the beginning . . .

His personality came first, then I noticed his eyes, then his smile when I make him laugh. Now everything about him. Even his flaws.

Eyes .......... Lips and more importantly huge tight boobs !! :D

typical male.

yep a typical male 4 a typical female like u !!

im not typical and im taken lol

So funny to see morons judgin em on their own basis !! :D

Kai's outgoing, funny, down to Earth and sweet amazing personality made me fall for her. Never saw myself with her till she saved me from a heartbreak <33

I'm really attracted to upbeat, considerate and genuine personalities.

may i super hot but can be mean as a snake. i love some one will understand me and care what i think.....but i do love eye color too

for me it's more of a combination of things

And a good smile. Intelligence is important to me, but there has to be some physical appeal as well. The girl doesn't have to be a knockout for me to be attracted, but average/reasonably attactive is fine, but she must have INTELLIGENCE or it means nothing!

looks a key,also.

Their nose

Looks but personality keeps me

Personality and eyes, eyes say everything I need to know

If someone has a nice personality I instantly like them.

Personality and sense of humor turn me on most in a man.

Integrity
Honesty
Loyalty
Trustworthy

eye brown or black