I was watching a video and what I noticed FIRST were his teeth. "Great teeth," I thought and laughed when I THEN noticed his bod was ripped.
It's simple biology, folks. Do his genes merit continuation? Gotta look those studs in the mouth to find out.
But as to platonic attraction, it's operating on a complimentary mental plane. I love conversational connection when ideas, vocabulary, experiences, personality, humor, spirituality... are compatible. THAT is more rewarding than gene continuation.
The ability to differentiate sincerity and dishonesty. A distaste for the insincere.
1.) Sincerity
2.) Authenticity
3.) Non-flirtatious (Any hint of superficial flirtatiousness and I'm liable to go cold and run away.)
4.) Trustworthy, honorable
5.) Impressionable
6.) Responsive
These 6 traits would allow for my trusting enough to openly communicate. Key factor.
7.) Sense of humour
8.) Physical, emotional, mental awareness
9.) Thoroughly pleasant
10.) Brunette
Personality and intelligence above anything else, followed by their physical being. I also love guys with tattoos or piercings. They also have to look strong enough to pick me up and throw me if need be!
Their ability to laugh with ease. Being able to make me comfortable. Seeing the world as a playground and being able to enjoy every second of their life.
What I find attractive is someone with intelligence, respect for others, those willing to open their hearts to another fully and able to be a TRUE partner in life .. (or has the potential to be a true partner) ..
Someone who holds dear the same values, morals, hard-working lifestyle that I do .. who is caring/kind and giving .. just generous.
hhmmm good looks, good personality, knows me through and through, accepts everything about me, smart, interested in nice things, the way they dress, being my best friend......
basically, i've got to be able to easily imagine us being together 20 years from now.......40 years from now......FOREVER! and still being happy:)
i talk to people,
get to know them
and, where other people might say they aint that much of a looker,
i get attracted to the person.
its just a bonus if they am good looking ^-^
It's simple biology, folks. Do his genes merit continuation? Gotta look those studs in the mouth to find out.
But as to platonic attraction, it's operating on a complimentary mental plane. I love conversational connection when ideas, vocabulary, experiences, personality, humor, spirituality... are compatible. THAT is more rewarding than gene continuation.
that can make you heart drop <33
then the hair. I loooveee good looking hair!
Intellect
How they treat me, themselves, and others
Humor
Looks
1.) Sincerity
2.) Authenticity
3.) Non-flirtatious (Any hint of superficial flirtatiousness and I'm liable to go cold and run away.)
4.) Trustworthy, honorable
5.) Impressionable
6.) Responsive
These 6 traits would allow for my trusting enough to openly communicate. Key factor.
7.) Sense of humour
8.) Physical, emotional, mental awareness
9.) Thoroughly pleasant
10.) Brunette
Intellect
Compassion
Honor
Here are some examples:
Mmmmm...I'd take either one of them!
What I find attractive is someone with intelligence, respect for others, those willing to open their hearts to another fully and able to be a TRUE partner in life .. (or has the potential to be a true partner) ..
Someone who holds dear the same values, morals, hard-working lifestyle that I do .. who is caring/kind and giving .. just generous.
basically, i've got to be able to easily imagine us being together 20 years from now.......40 years from now......FOREVER! and still being happy:)