Top ten things that'll make you dump someone?

Abusive, overly arrogant, disrespects my family, emotionally unavailable, messy, doesn't want children, lies, cheats, is not active and is to focused on looks

Given I have once cos I didnt want to be cheating I just have low to no tollerance for heart breaking

1) Abuses me or anyone I care about. (in any way)

2) Lies to me, or anyone I care about, or calls me a liar. (I can tell when someone is being less than honest, or is hiding something… they can have their secrets (like for surprises), just don’t lie to me about them…)

3) Is unfaithful. (like cheats on me, or is unfaithful in their heart)

4) Is, or becomes unhealthy. (physically or spiritually) (drugs, out of shape (not physically fit), has bad hygiene…ect.) (is spiritually unbalanced or has an addictive personality)

5) Is forceful, to me or anyone that I care about.

6) Is disrespectful to me or anyone I care about.

7) Is lazy, a moocher, messy or sloppy, or in any way like that doesn’t have his life together.

8) Doesn’t share the same virtues as me, ex : the Celtic Virtues of honor, loyalty, hospitality, honesty, justice and courage. (doesn’t act like a Druid.)

9) Doesn’t put me first, when I put them first. (like b4 other people not including family)

10) And if we are just not meant to be…

Blessings to all and,
May all be well with you ^_^

I tick 4/10 v.v

really cause i counted 6/10 >.>

liar
cheat
thief
negative
hater
does not do her share of the workload
jealous
over reacts
no faith
controller

1) she cheats
2) treats me like crap
3) disrespects me or anyone
4) makes me feel unloved
5) flirts with everyone
6) thinks she can ignore me then make me drop everything for her
7) I found out she used to be a big slut
8) I hear from friends she is a good lay
9) Her family disrespects me
10) she criticizes me

i have only ever been dumped and that was because a good looking guy walked past us when we wher walking down the street ...she was a slut anyway
but on to your question i have no answer but a question about your oppinion
if you would dump him for anything after 3 you find it is a bit unfair
4 if you threaten to dump him because he isn't putting into the relation ship arent you trying to forcing him to do somthing
now 5 i understand
6 was covered in four
7 people ie all the time some to boast and others to protect if he lies to protect you and you dump him arent you treating him like you own him?
8 covered in seven
9 well fair enough
10 some people cant be there and that is out of there control! so dumping him for that reason is illogical
2 one that i forgot to mention if you going to dump him for any of those beyond 3 you are the one treating him like he is replacable
because you try to force him to put into the relationship with fear of dumping 4&6
he lies to protect you from the harsh reality and u dump him for not bieg able to be in two places at once
now i don't meen to sound mean but i do over think things so if you could point out what details i got wrong that would be mush appreciated cause i don't want to feel like i made you feel #9

These are all the reasons I have dumped guys
1) Compared me to his mother
2) Wasnt around enough
3) Chose his friends over me every time
4) Lied to me
5) I got violent and jealous
6) Tries to boss me around
7) Ignored me
8) Cheated on me
9) Chose his video game over me
10) Being a hypocrite

QUOTE OF THE DAY: Person one: I'm going to make your life Hell
Person two: Don't Burn yourself trying

Mine is going to be a bit different. Mine will be for a D/s point of view, as this is my lifestyle.
1. Disrespects me and doesnt see me as a person before a slave.
2. Abuses me, physically or mentally, when i do not want it, and it is abuse(this goes to when He doesnt stop when i say stop)
3. Brings other people into O/our lifestyle without my consent, nor know my feelings on it. 4. Him doing this lifestyle with anyone else.
5. Does not listen to my hard limits and does them anyways.
6. Doesnt help me in the ways i need it after doing things in the lifestyle.
7. Thinks this lifestyle is a game and im His little toy.
8, Doesnt take the relationship serious and the D/s doesnt go anywhere
9.If i can dominant you, then you are not for me.
10. If you cant meet my needs/wants in the lifestyle, cant be in my life.

whats D/s?

Dom or Dominant and slave relationship.

ah, ok.

yea lol. Why my answers are a bit different from others. :D

lol yeah i was confused by your answer at first which is y i asked XD

lol yea, but it's good to ask. :D

i'm a naturally curious person, so i ask a ton of questions XD lmao

lol same here :D

curiosity killed the cat so i guess its a good thing we arent cats :p lmao

lol so true.

1. cheat on me
2.didn't like my family
3.drinks
4.smokes/drugs
5.disrespect me
6.lies
7.hits me
8.only talks about himself
9.doesn't care for what i say
10.treas me like crap

1. Cheat on me.
2. Lie to me about something I consider inportant.
3. Ignores me and then flirts with someone else.
4. Treats my kids badly when they don't deserve it.
5. Doesn't include me in her activities.
6. Physically or mentally abuses me.
7. Does not take into consideration my feelings and opinions.
8. Does not communicate with me.
9. Disappears for long periods of time and doesn't tell me where she is going.
10. Loses interest in me sexually.

1. you text me too much
2. you talk too much
3. you whine too much
4. you want to spend too much time together
5. you keep pressuring me to do stuff with you
6. you get too jealous
7. you freak out over little things
8. you don't like my friends
9. you don't trust me
10. you diss my hair

all that will get you dumped if you're dating me xD

1- 10 Does not respect me & my kid ( all the other misbehaviors to dump him would follow after losing respect ) .

1) someone who dosnt care about you or the relationship
2) Yells at you for nothing
3) cheats on you
4) lies to me
5) hits me or someone close to me (or anyone)
6) makes me feel worthless
7) treats me like i'm unimportant
8) disrespects someone close to me
9) Acts like he owns me
10) Drinks alot

The list below work really well for me.Only I would put infidelity at number one.

Always running late
Being rigid
Refusing to mingle
Acting as the resident contrarian
Badmouthing me
Politicking
Procrastination
Being a sloppy lover
Confusing informal with disrespectful
Taking advantage of leeway

I don't know you but from your response I want to bad mouth you.

not like her list or somethin? lol

I'd break up with a woman for being illiterate.

ok then.

I'm just kidding with you.If you didn't pick up on that I apologize.

My SH screwed up so I will put mine here.

1. Cheat on me.
2. Lie to me about something I consider important.
3. Ignores me and then flirts with someone else.
4. Disrespects me or my feelings all the time.
5. Treats my kids bad when they don't deserve it.
6. Excludes me from the rest of her life.
7. Physically or mentally abuses me or my kids.
8. Doesn't love me any more.
9. Steals from me.
10. Is no longer sexually attracted to me.

Poor hygiene
Treats me like property
Abuses me
Thinks that I owe him sex, and that my consent doesn't matter
Tries to control my life
Steals from me
Disrespects me or my loved ones
If they're sexist, racist, or homophobic, they're getting dumped

I would make sure I'd really get to know the person before I even go out with them in the first place.

1) Hits me
2) Cheats on me
3) Disrespects ANY member of my family
4) Treats me without respect
5) Tries to control me
6) Tells me who I can and can't hang out with
7) Tells me who I can and can't be friends with
8) Overreacts
9) Acts jealous over nothing
10) Forbids me to see any member of my family

1.infedelity
2.dishonesty
3.disrespect
4.violence in any form
5.has mental issues(I have too many of my own to worry about)
6.rape
7.constantly checks out girls
8.if I fancy his friend more than him
9.if he has a possessive ex
10.if his mates are complete ass holes