Top ten things that'll make you dump someone?

Dark Angel 2012/06/19 06:36:07
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1) Hits me
2) Treats me like I'm replacable/unimportant
3) Cheats on me
4) Isn't putting effort into the relationship
5) Disrespects me or someone close to me
6) Tries to force me to do anything
7) Lies to me
8) Acts like he owns me
9) Makes me feel worthless or unloved
10) Isn't there for me when i need him.

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  • Little Fawn 2012/06/19 07:29:43
    My top ten are...
    Little Fawn
    1) Hits me
    2) Cheats on me
    3) Disrespects ANY member of my family
    4) Treats me without respect
    5) Tries to control me
    6) Tells me who I can and can't hang out with
    7) Tells me who I can and can't be friends with
    8) Overreacts
    9) Acts jealous over nothing
    10) Forbids me to see any member of my family

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  • CherryPOP 2012/08/08 04:34:54
    My top ten are...
    Abusive, overly arrogant, disrespects my family, emotionally unavailable, messy, doesn't want children, lies, cheats, is not active and is to focused on looks
  • Gommball 2012/07/13 04:56:15
    i would never dump anyone
    Given I have once cos I didnt want to be cheating I just have low to no tollerance for heart breaking
  • Yoko 2012/07/12 07:38:42
    My top ten are...
    1) Abuses me or anyone I care about. (in any way)

    2) Lies to me, or anyone I care about, or calls me a liar. (I can tell when someone is being less than honest, or is hiding something… they can have their secrets (like for surprises), just don’t lie to me about them…)

    3) Is unfaithful. (like cheats on me, or is unfaithful in their heart)

    4) Is, or becomes unhealthy. (physically or spiritually) (drugs, out of shape (not physically fit), has bad hygiene…ect.) (is spiritually unbalanced or has an addictive personality)

    5) Is forceful, to me or anyone that I care about.

    6) Is disrespectful to me or anyone I care about.

    7) Is lazy, a moocher, messy or sloppy, or in any way like that doesn’t have his life together.

    8) Doesn’t share the same virtues as me, ex : the Celtic Virtues of honor, loyalty, hospitality, honesty, justice and courage. (doesn’t act like a Druid.)

    9) Doesn’t put me first, when I put them first. (like b4 other people not including family)

    10) And if we are just not meant to be…

    Blessings to all and,
    May all be well with you ^_^
  • Gommball Yoko 2012/07/13 04:54:41
    I tick 4/10 v.v
  • Yoko Gommball 2012/08/12 23:13:53
    really cause i counted 6/10 >.>
  • beach bum 2012/06/21 04:07:55
    My top ten are...
    beach bum
    does not do her share of the workload
    over reacts
    no faith
  • Changeling 2012/06/20 12:50:37
    My top ten are...
    1) she cheats
    2) treats me like crap
    3) disrespects me or anyone
    4) makes me feel unloved
    5) flirts with everyone
    6) thinks she can ignore me then make me drop everything for her
    7) I found out she used to be a big slut
    8) I hear from friends she is a good lay
    9) Her family disrespects me
    10) she criticizes me
  • king david 2012/06/20 09:26:09
    king david
    i have only ever been dumped and that was because a good looking guy walked past us when we wher walking down the street ...she was a slut anyway
    but on to your question i have no answer but a question about your oppinion
    if you would dump him for anything after 3 you find it is a bit unfair
    4 if you threaten to dump him because he isn't putting into the relation ship arent you trying to forcing him to do somthing
    now 5 i understand
    6 was covered in four
    7 people ie all the time some to boast and others to protect if he lies to protect you and you dump him arent you treating him like you own him?
    8 covered in seven
    9 well fair enough
    10 some people cant be there and that is out of there control! so dumping him for that reason is illogical
    2 one that i forgot to mention if you going to dump him for any of those beyond 3 you are the one treating him like he is replacable
    because you try to force him to put into the relationship with fear of dumping 4&6
    he lies to protect you from the harsh reality and u dump him for not bieg able to be in two places at once
    now i don't meen to sound mean but i do over think things so if you could point out what details i got wrong that would be mush appreciated cause i don't want to feel like i made you feel #9
  • ~*PoliceGirl*~ (>^-^)> 2012/06/20 08:47:29
    My top ten are...
    ~*PoliceGirl*~ (>^-^)>
    These are all the reasons I have dumped guys
    1) Compared me to his mother
    2) Wasnt around enough
    3) Chose his friends over me every time
    4) Lied to me
    5) I got violent and jealous
    6) Tries to boss me around
    7) Ignored me
    8) Cheated on me
    9) Chose his video game over me
    10) Being a hypocrite

    QUOTE OF THE DAY: Person one: I'm going to make your life Hell
    Person two: Don't Burn yourself trying
  • Ashlynne <3 (; 2012/06/20 02:43:25
  • SlaveWaterNymph 2012/06/20 01:29:55
    My top ten are...
    Mine is going to be a bit different. Mine will be for a D/s point of view, as this is my lifestyle.
    1. Disrespects me and doesnt see me as a person before a slave.
    2. Abuses me, physically or mentally, when i do not want it, and it is abuse(this goes to when He doesnt stop when i say stop)
    3. Brings other people into O/our lifestyle without my consent, nor know my feelings on it. 4. Him doing this lifestyle with anyone else.
    5. Does not listen to my hard limits and does them anyways.
    6. Doesnt help me in the ways i need it after doing things in the lifestyle.
    7. Thinks this lifestyle is a game and im His little toy.
    8, Doesnt take the relationship serious and the D/s doesnt go anywhere
    9.If i can dominant you, then you are not for me.
    10. If you cant meet my needs/wants in the lifestyle, cant be in my life.
  • Dark Angel SlaveWa... 2012/06/20 02:05:05
    Dark Angel
    whats D/s?
  • SlaveWa... Dark Angel 2012/06/20 03:52:21
    Dom or Dominant and slave relationship.
  • Dark Angel SlaveWa... 2012/06/20 04:14:48
    Dark Angel
    ah, ok.
  • SlaveWa... Dark Angel 2012/06/20 04:16:53
    yea lol. Why my answers are a bit different from others. :D
  • Dark Angel SlaveWa... 2012/06/20 04:19:30
    Dark Angel
    lol yeah i was confused by your answer at first which is y i asked XD
  • SlaveWa... Dark Angel 2012/06/20 04:35:45
    lol yea, but it's good to ask. :D
  • Dark Angel SlaveWa... 2012/06/20 04:46:13
    Dark Angel
    i'm a naturally curious person, so i ask a ton of questions XD lmao
  • SlaveWa... Dark Angel 2012/06/20 05:10:09
    lol same here :D
  • Dark Angel SlaveWa... 2012/06/20 05:11:08
    Dark Angel
    curiosity killed the cat so i guess its a good thing we arent cats :p lmao
  • SlaveWa... Dark Angel 2012/06/20 05:31:10
    lol so true.
  • keya 2012/06/20 00:49:08
    My top ten are...
    1. cheat on me
    2.didn't like my family
    5.disrespect me
    7.hits me
    8.only talks about himself
    9.doesn't care for what i say
    10.treas me like crap
  • The River Rat 2012/06/19 20:44:50 (edited)
    My top ten are...
    The River Rat
    1. Cheat on me.
    2. Lie to me about something I consider inportant.
    3. Ignores me and then flirts with someone else.
    4. Treats my kids badly when they don't deserve it.
    5. Doesn't include me in her activities.
    6. Physically or mentally abuses me.
    7. Does not take into consideration my feelings and opinions.
    8. Does not communicate with me.
    9. Disappears for long periods of time and doesn't tell me where she is going.
    10. Loses interest in me sexually.
  • Vision of Verve 2012/06/19 17:55:58
  • Sinister Ken Doll™ 2012/06/19 15:45:56
    My top ten are...
    Sinister Ken Doll™
    1. you text me too much
    2. you talk too much
    3. you whine too much
    4. you want to spend too much time together
    5. you keep pressuring me to do stuff with you
    6. you get too jealous
    7. you freak out over little things
    8. you don't like my friends
    9. you don't trust me
    10. you diss my hair

    all that will get you dumped if you're dating me xD
  • kurtanderson1 2012/06/19 12:47:17
  • FELINE GESTURES IN THE DARK 2012/06/19 12:43:57
    My top ten are...
    1- 10 Does not respect me & my kid ( all the other misbehaviors to dump him would follow after losing respect ) .
  • Kitty Kat 'CARROT' 2012/06/19 12:25:40
    My top ten are...
    Kitty Kat 'CARROT'
    1) someone who dosnt care about you or the relationship
    2) Yells at you for nothing
    3) cheats on you
    4) lies to me
    5) hits me or someone close to me (or anyone)
    6) makes me feel worthless
    7) treats me like i'm unimportant
    8) disrespects someone close to me
    9) Acts like he owns me
    10) Drinks alot
  • tff~PWCM~JLA 2012/06/19 10:06:58
    My top ten are...
    The list below work really well for me.Only I would put infidelity at number one.
  • Aksana 2012/06/19 07:44:42
    My top ten are...
    Always running late
    Being rigid
    Refusing to mingle
    Acting as the resident contrarian
    Badmouthing me
    Being a sloppy lover
    Confusing informal with disrespectful
    Taking advantage of leeway
  • tff~PWC... Aksana 2012/06/19 10:08:25
    I don't know you but from your response I want to bad mouth you.
  • Dark Angel tff~PWC... 2012/06/19 10:10:03
    Dark Angel
    not like her list or somethin? lol
  • tff~PWC... Dark Angel 2012/06/19 10:22:34
    I'd break up with a woman for being illiterate.
  • Dark Angel tff~PWC... 2012/06/19 10:27:42
    Dark Angel
    ok then.
  • tff~PWC... Dark Angel 2012/06/19 16:17:35
    I'm just kidding with you.If you didn't pick up on that I apologize.
  • The Riv... Dark Angel 2012/06/19 20:57:06
    The River Rat
    My SH screwed up so I will put mine here.

    1. Cheat on me.
    2. Lie to me about something I consider important.
    3. Ignores me and then flirts with someone else.
    4. Disrespects me or my feelings all the time.
    5. Treats my kids bad when they don't deserve it.
    6. Excludes me from the rest of her life.
    7. Physically or mentally abuses me or my kids.
    8. Doesn't love me any more.
    9. Steals from me.
    10. Is no longer sexually attracted to me.
  • Death On Two Legs 2012/06/19 07:43:05
    My top ten are...
    Death On Two Legs
    Poor hygiene
    Treats me like property
    Abuses me
    Thinks that I owe him sex, and that my consent doesn't matter
    Tries to control my life
    Steals from me
    Disrespects me or my loved ones
    If they're sexist, racist, or homophobic, they're getting dumped
  • ShinyUmbreon01 2012/06/19 07:32:02
    I would make sure I'd really get to know the person before I even go out with them in the first place.
  • Little Fawn 2012/06/19 07:29:43
    My top ten are...
    Little Fawn
    1) Hits me
    2) Cheats on me
    3) Disrespects ANY member of my family
    4) Treats me without respect
    5) Tries to control me
    6) Tells me who I can and can't hang out with
    7) Tells me who I can and can't be friends with
    8) Overreacts
    9) Acts jealous over nothing
    10) Forbids me to see any member of my family
  • waternymphxD 2012/06/19 07:10:22
    My top ten are...
    4.violence in any form
    5.has mental issues(I have too many of my own to worry about)
    7.constantly checks out girls
    8.if I fancy his friend more than him
    9.if he has a possessive ex
    10.if his mates are complete ass holes

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