This a good one, as eye contact is the hardest thing to fake for people. If they can hold eye contact and not look away, there is good odds that this person actually has confidence and isn't faking it. :)
Most women are, as once you can find the cues most people are open books. I know ladies that can pick apart a guy before he can get one pick up line out.
i dont mean with just guys. im not bragging or anything but i can pick up about who someone is more than most of my peers and some other people. probably cause im a very spiritually observant person so i notice some things about people that many people wouldnt normally notice from just meeting them. my moms the same way. :PPPPPPP
Not saying you were bragging, some people have it when it comes to finding who someone really is as opposed to who they pretend to be.
I'm getting that way too, as I've met far too many woman than seem to think since I'm nice that I will give them money if they tell me a sad story. lol So, there are things that didn't make me suspicious previously that now make me ask questions.
i know you didnt say that. i was just saying that im not bragging so i wouldnt give the wrong impression. and yeah you still need to know someone a little bit more before you can fully understand them. :P and i dont like leech-women (even though i wouldnt date women since im straight) and i dont like when they try to drain guys or use them. not that all guys are right but there are guys who really try to be good and women like to use that to their advantage. some women are really sweet though. i usually tend to hang around with guys since they accept me for who i am more than women. a lot of women are just much to critical and fake for me, or too bitchy (excuse my language of course. :P ). they dont like me just cause i like to be silly and be myself. however there also are some sweet girls and cool girls. those are the only ones i hang out with. but yeah anyway i see what you are saying. :P
not like it matters to me.. but I do notice that's the first thing I look at.
ex. Attitude problem, sympathetic, nationality, nervous, lying. and so on
I'm getting that way too, as I've met far too many woman than seem to think since I'm nice that I will give them money if they tell me a sad story. lol So, there are things that didn't make me suspicious previously that now make me ask questions.