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The Art Of Making Love...

Melizmatic 2012/03/09 20:29:14
"I Feel Like Makin' Love..."
"I'm Into Havin' Sex, I Ain't Into Makin' Love..."
"Sexual Healing"
"I Touch Myself..."
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I 'haz' a ponder:

There are many different terms and euphemisms for sex in the English language, from 'proving your love' to "bumping uglies."

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And I think it's safe to say that each phrase has a particular meaning or connotation to most people, but one term in particular seems to evoke more positive responses:

"Making love."

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(It even sounds awesome, doesn't it?)

But riddle me this:

Does that term only refer to people who are actually IN love, and their physical act of expression of that deep emotion for each other?

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Or, can it also refer to the style in which one engages in sex with his or her partner; implying a level of tenderness, sensuality and intimacy that tends to be absent in mere screwing around?

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What say ye?

But wait;

Before "Ye" says anything, here's the usual Melizmatic disclaimer.

See this post?

It's listed under Fun and Humor, not News and Politics, for a good reason.

Check all political and religious rhetoric at the door, please; there's a whole entire section for those discussions.

Next, this post is also NOT labeled "An excuse to sit in judgement on others for their sexuality, and/or sexual choices."

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So for all the abstinent folks, the virgins, the uninitiated, and the asexual people out there: Good for you, for whatever choices you've decided to make for yourself.

However, those choices do NOT make you superior to anyone else, and acting like it does will get you booted off my poll, post haste.

Hope that's clear enough for everyone.

Play nice, or else.


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  • Feria~Badass of PHAET~ 2012/03/09 21:28:15
    "I Feel Like Makin' Love..."
    Feria~Badass of PHAET~
    +11
    I think if anyone has a passionate connection, they can make love. Love doesn't last forever, so why not think that it could be there, even if it only last during sex?

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  • nony 2012/06/05 02:53:01
    "I'm Into Havin' Sex, I Ain't Into Makin' Love..."
    nony
    +4
    Got sex
  • Shep720 2012/03/29 16:53:20
    "I Don't See Nothing Wrong with a Lil' Bump N' Grind..."
    Shep720
    +1
    I understand the connection when you know someone well/care about or love them but I have never in my life used the expression "make love to me" lol.
  • Wonder Woman 2012/03/17 19:49:57 (edited)
  • Melizmatic Wonder ... 2012/03/17 20:07:35
    Melizmatic
    +4
    Wow, you are such a raging, delusional lunatic; it isnt even funny.

    Go troll elsewhere.
  • Twinkle 2012/03/16 20:56:56
    "I Feel Like Makin' Love..."
    Twinkle
    +1
    Hey how did you get the pink writing. o.0??
  • Magdy mohamed 2012/03/16 20:35:08
    "I Feel Like Makin' Love..."
    Magdy mohamed
  • Melizmatic Magdy m... 2012/03/16 20:38:03
    Melizmatic
    +1
    TOS violation.
  • Anna E 2012/03/13 19:03:16 (edited)
    "I Feel Like Makin' Love..."
    Anna E
    +3
    I prefer sharing love and loving what I feel. :)

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?...
  • Mustang Girl 2012/03/13 10:44:35
    "I Feel Like Makin' Love..."
    Mustang Girl
    +3
    Actually all of the above. There isn't anything wrong with having all 5 of them. There isn't anything like having a nice sexual encounter and make it the best everytime!!!! hot sex
  • Melicious Kiss of PHAET 2012/03/11 17:20:34
  • Twinkle Melicio... 2012/03/16 20:58:17
    Twinkle
    +1
    True that
  • Wave Rider 2012/03/11 11:54:55
    "I Feel Like Makin' Love..."
    Wave Rider
    +1
    After reading the rule for this my answer changed after chapter 4. It always starts out lovemaking, but somewhere during when I'm lost in the moment it always goes to another level. My ears are bleeding, back is sore, what happened
  • Melizmatic Wave Rider 2012/03/11 17:26:50
    Melizmatic
    +1
    Um... okay.
  • Astro-Boy PHAET 2012/03/10 19:14:44
    "I Feel Like Makin' Love..."
    Astro-Boy PHAET
    +3
    For me, making love is different than having sex without that part of my heart. I've experienced both and by far, making love does fit the description you've explained here much better. Nothing comes close to it.
  • Scott 2012/03/10 15:50:08
    "I Feel Like Makin' Love..."
    Scott
    +1
    The weirdest term for vagina that I've ever heard is poontang.
  • Melizmatic Scott 2012/03/10 15:57:13
    Melizmatic
    +2
    Ooo-kay...
  • Greatki... Scott 2012/03/11 13:24:51
    Greatkibble
    +1
    How about saltfish.... or pwell? lol
  • Melizmatic Greatki... 2012/03/11 17:27:15
  • Greatki... Melizmatic 2012/03/11 23:00:59
    Greatkibble
    +2
    Sounds weird but it's pretty much normal in the local tongue.
  • Melizmatic Greatki... 2012/03/11 23:07:48
    Melizmatic
    +2
    Where's 'local?'
  • Greatki... Melizmatic 2012/03/11 23:20:42
    Greatkibble
    +2
    My country?
    Check out the Caribbean. :P
  • Melizmatic Greatki... 2012/03/11 23:24:17
    Melizmatic
    +2
    Actually, I lived there for two & half years, once.

    USVI.

    You are 'down island', I take it?

    Grenada?
  • Greatki... Melizmatic 2012/03/11 23:28:40
    Greatkibble
    +2
    Oh! Those Islands up there by Florida....

    I guess I am down island, because the only Caribbean countries more south are Trinidad and Guyana.
  • Melizmatic Greatki... 2012/03/11 23:34:41
    Melizmatic
    +2
    Gotcha.
  • Greatki... Melizmatic 2012/03/11 23:45:47
    Greatkibble
    +2
    I wonder if it doesn't sound believable the first time when people see I'm from Grenada.
    I've been asked more than once before. Apparently some folks lie about their nationality.
  • Melizmatic Greatki... 2012/03/11 23:50:29
    Melizmatic
    +2
    Well, it is the internet; many people do tend to 'over-indulge' in fantasy.

    But at the same time, there are people from all over the wolrd conversing here...
  • Greatki... Melizmatic 2012/03/11 23:57:16
    Greatkibble
    +2
    For attention and avoiding reality huh.

    I do love chatting with foreigners - and you're one of them. lol
  • Melizmatic Greatki... 2012/03/11 23:58:51
    Melizmatic
    +2
    Well, thank you.

    I enjoy conversing with you as well.
  • Greatki... Melizmatic 2012/03/12 00:01:02 (edited)
  • Melizmatic Greatki... 2012/03/12 00:04:09
  • A. Madhankumar Kumar 2012/03/10 11:45:10
    "Sexual Healing"
    A. Madhankumar Kumar
    +1
    Pls issue condom before making love
  • Melizmatic A. Madh... 2012/03/10 15:57:35
  • Robert 2012/03/10 08:29:49
    "I Feel Like Makin' Love..."
    Robert
    +1
    I live sex and love, sex is for fun and love is intimacy relationship your girlfriend or boyfriend you have been seeing and need to express your feelings towards each other.
  • bansheebanski 2012/03/10 07:50:44
    "I Touch Myself..."
    bansheebanski
    +2
    mostly because i am all i can get
  • dandieselonian 2012/03/10 07:02:59
    "I Feel Like Makin' Love..."
    dandieselonian
  • Mrs. Kathy Arch 2012/03/10 05:54:42
    "I Feel Like Makin' Love..."
    Mrs. Kathy Arch
    +2
    I've only been with my fiance. When he and I are being intimate, it IS making love. :)
  • BJAAddict 2012/03/10 04:33:25
    "I Feel Like Makin' Love..."
    BJAAddict
    +5
    'Love that song! I don't know - "making love" seems so formal and unspontaneous. The Aussies have a term for casual sex - 'rooting' - which seems fitting from time to time. I personallly like the verb "to do", as in, "I'd do Billie Joe in a heartbeat"! Sorry if that sounds crude - didn't mean it to be. It's better than the other word I had in mind!
  • Woman of many faces~ijm 2012/03/10 04:33:13
    "I Touch Myself..."
    Woman of many faces~ijm
    +5
    And I like doing it....Lol
  • Ty ~ PHAET 2012/03/10 04:05:36 (edited)
    "Sexual Healing"
    Ty ~ PHAET
    +6
    I don't know, I don't really use the phrase "making love." I would say "making love" is the way two people have sex, not necessarily with whom -- intimacy, not just sex, with someone you care about -- though I honestly think "making love" only really applies when two people love one another. They don't necessarily have to be IN love, per se, but I honestly don't feel it can be called "making love" if there's no connection there. For example, "making love" could be intimacy with your girlfriend/boyfriend, spouse, or even with bene-friends you're close to.

    Frankly, I have no desire whatsoever to have sex with complete strangers, but then that's just me. Some men can sleep with a different girl each night and never think twice about it. Other men find those types of liaisons awkward and uncomfortable. I'm actually pretty reserved about whom I have sex with, and I really have no interest in being physically intimate with a total stranger or even a casual acquaintance for that matter.
  • Waiting in the Wings 2012/03/10 03:59:52
    "I Feel Like Makin' Love..."
    Waiting in the Wings
    +3
    Making love is a way of expressing a couple's olive for each other. Its called "making love" for a reason.

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