Should Guys Always Make the First Move?

I never made the first move in high school. Thanks to that I didn't have my first gf till 19, but oh well. I just believe it's whoever wants to ask first

Interesting. How did you find the date in the prom then?

I didn't. Didn't go to prom

Both Junior and Senior prom?

Noope, didn't go to either, only went to ONE dance my entire time in school and my crush was there. I was like 'grrr' to myself cause she said she wouldn't show up but I saw her there and she spent most of the time standing by herself. I offered to get her to dance a lot of times but she lightly blushed and shook her head, saying she was shy. I think she crushed on me too, she was just as shy as me though..

Too bad for both of you. Did you guys wind up together later :?

Nope. Just recently found her on Facebook, but it can't go past friendship now..

Why so? Is she currently taken?

I'd say so if her shyness is gone. I'm the one who's taken.. happily :D <3

Glad it works out for you in the end, mate :)

I prefer traditional men

I like that tradition

It's more like a mating ritual ;)

I always hated the fact as a child that we had to make the first move, but growing up I realized that I didn't want it other way....

What made you change your mind, mate?

Life, experience...

I see

depends if they chose white or black.

Flip the coin and decide it yourself ;)

no, white always goes first

Haha. I see

good

Sometimes I make the first move. It depends on how the person is.

And what is the qualification that is needed for you to make a first move :?

If I feel comfortable with that person and I trust them.

Good choice, mate :)

sorry but what i meant was i don't know about some women but to what i seen those guys should not make the first move because they always want what they can't have they love those sick evil bastards and womanizers who don't care about women and only care about themselves.

and they love him all because they love challenge they love to change men they want him to be a bad guy so she can complain and go back to him always does get back to him because she states oh i love him why there is no nice guys out there etc.

she thinks all men is the same is the same well news flash you did this because you want a hot looking guy and you want drama so stop this BS and get your head of you asses and look for the nice guy right from the start who been making the first move if he have then maybe guys should make the first move.

that's some of the reasons i think if you want true nice guys,geeks,nerds and good guys make the first move and you do like him for who he is not what he looks like then proof it to us if you are truly worth our time then us nice guys,geeks,nerds and good guys might make the first move.

who knows they might surprise you when he does make the first move

Why does the man always have to do everything? Geez...

sometimes they dnt see that you like them so you have to make a move on them.. which sucks :/

Some are shy & some like the aggressive types

It's a little restrictive to say that girls shouldn't ask anyone out. It's also a little hard on the men to put all that responsibility on them.
Nothing I hate more than when a girl says "He didn't ask me out, I'm so angry!"
Grow some balls and do it yourself if you like him.

Good reply! Balls on a girl may put a guy off, though..LOL just kidding!

When it's the first kiss, or first whatever, it's better for the man to but after that then I guess either way But I usually like it for the guy to

its nice when the woman does.

Call me old fashion but I think it's a man's job to pursue a woman. If I am really
attracted to a man I tend to be overly sweet because he's a turn on but as far as making the first move, I wouldn't. It makes me feel so special when a guy lets me know he is into me.
I don't mess with that.

You're not old fashioned, it is a man's job to pursue a woman, hence the reason I am here replying to you lol.
You do well in not messing with that, it is our job ;)

Old school rule: If the girl makes 'the move', have some fun. If she makes you 'make the move', marry that one!

Old notion, plus it might be very helpful to some of us guys that are shy and afraid to approach someone we like!

Just a question, like, asking for advice. What should the girl do if he's DEFINITELY NOT shy, but she's pretty sure he's interested too?

Well, if he is not shy and interested it is a little strange that he hasn't asked her, but if the girl is pretty sure she outta just bring it up casually, not be too direct, just hint at it!