Should Guys Always Make the First Move?

by MiaBella Posted 2012/05/02 17:03:15

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	Yes. Hes the man.	64 votes	25%
	No.	103 votes	39%
	It Depends	94 votes	36%

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Anastasia 2012/05/03 20:47:41

Yes. Hes the man.

+5
Absolutely,men are the hunters!:))
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sockpuppet 2012/05/02 21:11:29

No.

Even in archaic, male-dominated cultures and societies, this was a pretty strange "rule".

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alexia.waterman2 2012/05/02 21:11:07

Yes. Hes the man.

+2
I'm kinda old fashion so I believe that males should make the first move.

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Remlit 2012/05/02 21:03:34

No.

Nah, it's fun either way ;)

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Fun-Betty 2012/05/02 20:58:46

No.

+2
Sometimes, if I didn't make the move, things would get no where.
besides, those that know me, know I don't wait around.

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MiaBella to Fun-Betty 2012/05/03 01:14:14

+1
Some guys are just too dang shy and unconfident

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Jannis 2012/05/02 20:57:52

No.

+3
If you like him ,then tell him.Whats the worst that can happen?..he says..No

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Kibbles 2012/05/02 20:47:46

It Depends

+1
On the two in question and their emotional standings.

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Erin Innocent 2012/05/02 20:27:55

It Depends

im thinking of making the first move, (im a girl) because the guy im interested in only makes eye contact and nothing else.....but i dont know, because im kinda shy. it depends on the situation, really.....

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Wonder ... to Erin In... 2012/05/02 21:22:48
Erin In... to Wonder ... 2012/05/03 11:27:39

+1
i can handle it.

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Mel 2012/05/02 19:39:03

No.

+2
I do not need to come off as aggressive

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MiaBella to Mel 2012/05/03 01:14:53

Agressive can be hott though!

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Mel to MiaBella 2012/05/03 05:55:05

But you have to read the moment though, and some guys can't do that right and it frightens women off. I personally will err on the side of caution, and go with the flow. If it's the right time I'll know it. Thanks My Belle. *S*

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CREW grand 2012/05/02 19:35:43

No.

+1
A smart guy never makes the first move.

Don

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MiaBella to CREW grand 2012/05/03 01:15:15

Why do you say that? im curious :3

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Cricket 2012/05/02 18:42:13

Yes. Hes the man.

+3
They usually do with me.

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Mrs. Ka... to Cricket 2012/05/04 15:48:22

+1
Good for you! Mine did too!

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Cricket to Mrs. Ka... 2012/05/04 15:51:18

+1
:):)

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E Dawg to Cricket 2012/05/12 18:19:19

+1

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Cricket to E Dawg 2012/05/12 19:11:40

;):)

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Fran-Halen 2012/05/02 18:35:17

No.

+5
Strong women don't follow stereotypical beliefs.

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MiaBella to Fran-Halen 2012/05/03 01:15:35

+2
AMEN!!!!!!

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MayaAng... to Fran-Halen 2012/05/03 01:46:46

+2
AMEN TIMES TWO!!!

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anton Lindström thevampireboy 2012/05/02 17:32:31

Yes. Hes the man.

i'm kiss you

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Walaa 2012/05/02 17:28:32

It Depends

+1
There shouldnt be a rule that is attached with the word always specially when it comes to things that can be a sensitive matter like this. It really does depend on the couple and who simply wants to make the first move or not, whatever works for them basically.

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stevegtexas@aol.com 2012/05/02 17:21:21

No.

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nah, not always should the guy have to make "the first move"..... sometimes it could be kinda kewl if the lady does it first to "break the ice" as they say.

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Metaldane 2012/05/02 17:15:29

It Depends

+1
I've made the first move and it works well but when a girl does it I'll admit I put a lot more effort into getting to know her and it's always been a better experience to me.

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POWERSHAKER 2012/05/02 17:04:17

Yes. Hes the man.

+4
Yeah. I think guys should make the first move, because a woman wouldn't know if he wants her or not.

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stevegt... to POWERSH... 2012/05/02 17:22:00

+1
but maybe she wants him, and hes not as agressive?

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POWERSH... to stevegt... 2012/05/02 17:23:59

+1
Well, I'm just saying the first kiss. After that, sure. I mean, there's nothing wrong with a woman kissing him after that.

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stevegt... to POWERSH... 2012/05/02 17:34:40

+1
its all in fun! lol.

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POWERSH... to stevegt... 2012/05/02 18:25:38

Yep. Right on. :)

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Morgan to POWERSH... 2012/05/03 00:14:36

+1
well guys don't always know if she wants him or not.

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POWERSH... to Morgan 2012/05/03 00:36:05

I know. That's why it's tougher for guys if you ask me.

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Morgan to POWERSH... 2012/05/03 01:52:00

+1
never said it wasn't

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MiaBella to POWERSH... 2012/05/03 01:16:52

+2
Guys are just too passive these days. or way too agressive

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POWERSH... to MiaBella 2012/05/03 13:04:40

If you ask me, a lot of women like aggressive men. Of course, if the woman doesn't like him, I guess it could be a real problem. :)

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cherryphi to POWERSH... 2012/05/03 17:26:54

I'ma bud in here real quick... I've heard the whole "women like aggressive men" way too many times. 9 out of 10, the guy saying it was justifying BS behavior. Assertive is not the same as aggressive. The first is sexy the second is creepy.

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POWERSH... to cherryphi 2012/05/03 17:53:01

+1
Hmmm. Yeah. I get where you're coming from. :)

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