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Should Guys Always Make the First Move?

MiaBella 2012/05/02 17:03:15
Yes. Hes the man.
No.
It Depends
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  • Connect... **Starz... 2012/05/04 01:14:55
  • **Starz... Connect... 2012/05/04 01:29:15
    **StarzAbove**
    +1
    lol Cute. Thanks.
  • Connect... **Starz... 2012/05/04 01:48:40
    Connectification
    +1
    Hehe. Should make it like a contest. Whoever reach you first win! xD xD xD
  • **Starz... Connect... 2012/05/04 01:52:08
    **StarzAbove**
    +1
    On your mark, get set Goooooooooooooooooooooooooooo... lol guys running a race
  • Connect... **Starz... 2012/05/04 06:00:22
    Connectification
    Too bad for you the fat ones are the one who are leading the race right now

    guys running the race

    By the way, I can't view your picture
  • **Starz... Connect... 2012/05/04 13:20:22 (edited)
    **StarzAbove**
    +1
    May the best man win.
  • Connect... **Starz... 2012/05/04 13:36:28
    Connectification
    +1
    Judging from the situation, you might have to go with a foursome. Are you up for it???
  • **Starz... Connect... 2012/05/04 14:19:02
    **StarzAbove**
    +1
    uhhhh, I'll let you know. lol
  • TasselLady 2012/05/03 21:04:34
    Yes. Hes the man.
    TasselLady
    +4
    Sorry. I'm old school. If the man wants me he can ask me.
  • Mrs. Ka... TasselLady 2012/05/04 15:43:27
    Mrs. Kathy Arch
    +1
    Me too.
  • TasselLady Mrs. Ka... 2012/05/04 20:26:53
    TasselLady
    +1
    I assume if they don't ask, they're not interested. And, even now with society at large being more permissive and such, women are still looked at differently if THEY ask. It makes them appear desperate. That's the last message on this earth I wasnt to send to ANY guy.
  • Mrs. Ka... TasselLady 2012/05/04 20:54:52
    Mrs. Kathy Arch
    +2
    I agree completely! And there is also the message that a woman is "forward" if she asks first.
  • Stan Kapusta 2012/05/03 20:57:32
    Yes. Hes the man.
    Stan Kapusta
    +3
    The thrill of the chase and the conquest of capture makes it a mans job. It's the womens job to slow down and let the men think they won.
  • Anastasia 2012/05/03 20:47:41
    Yes. Hes the man.
    Anastasia
    +5
    Absolutely,men are the hunters!:))
  • Connect... Anastasia 2012/05/04 13:49:16
    Connectification
    Haha. Is that mean women are preys?
  • Jenna ☮♡ッ 2012/05/03 20:42:08
    No.
    Jenna ☮♡ッ
    +3
    Nope, he doesn't have to. I'm perfectly fine with making the first move.
  • Sew 2012/05/03 20:38:05
    No.
    Sew
    +1
    I don't understand why women feel they have to wait, if you want it go get it and let the stereotypes and gender roles be damned.
  • Rore73 2012/05/03 20:37:49
    No.
    Rore73
    +1
    Come on man!
  • Boo 2012/05/03 20:10:49
    It Depends
    Boo
    +3
    Ideally guys should make the first move; however, in the confused modern world today where so many people have self-esteem issues, sometimes the lady needs to break the ice.
  • ID51 2012/05/03 19:53:18
    It Depends
    ID51
    +1
    For me, personally, it would depend on how well I know the man and what the nature of the relationship is. I know younger women are often times more forward than I would be comfortable with (unless it was a long term, committed relationship), but each generation is different.
  • benjamin beggs 2012/05/03 19:44:01
    Yes. Hes the man.
    benjamin beggs
    +1
    I've always made the first move but it never works out...
  • ehrhornp 2012/05/03 19:41:17
    No.
    ehrhornp
    +3
    Its very rare where there are no exceptions to a rule. So while this may be true in general, there will be exceptions.
  • amelia 2012/05/03 19:29:14
    It Depends
    amelia
    +2
    I like it when a guy makes the first move cos I'm rele shy
  • gldynmd 2012/05/03 18:58:50
    It Depends
    gldynmd
    +2
    That's pretty much how it works for me. Although I don't have a problem with woman who make the first move. To each their own. I have learned men are hunters and need to feel they did the hunting.
  • Bronar 2012/05/03 18:57:08
    It Depends
    Bronar
    +1
    As a man, very few thing turn me on more than a woman willing to make the first move.
  • TuringsChild 2012/05/03 18:34:14
    No.
    TuringsChild
    +1
    The really GOOD guys are more or less innocent when it comes to girls. They know they're out there, but have no real idea how to approach them. Girls, it's up to you, but if you see something you like you'd be silly not to go for it.
  • Margaret Jacobson 2012/05/03 18:16:08
    It Depends
    Margaret Jacobson
    +1
    EQUAL OPPORTUNITY
  • Paul 2012/05/03 18:14:54
    It Depends
    Paul
    +2
    Despite popular belief that men are all knowing and smart, we can be pretty dumb about the opposite sex. For the most part, not to mention this is the 21st century, I say go for it ladies!
  • U-Dog 2012/05/03 18:05:45
    It Depends
    U-Dog
    +3
    I don't have a problem with a woman making the first move as long as it isn't something like...
    want soma dis
  • Connect... U-Dog 2012/05/04 01:13:19
    Connectification
    +1
    Pussy. Yay!
  • Connect... U-Dog 2012/05/05 06:51:42
    Connectification
    You don't want...this??? What the heck is wrong with you???
  • mwg0735 2012/05/03 18:04:33
  • Lady Winters 2012/05/03 17:59:12
    It Depends
    Lady Winters
    +2
    It depends on the people I guess. I kind of made the first move when I met my husband. I just skipped past the coy smiles and just made sure he knew I liked him. He got the hint and we hit it off immediately. lol
  • Heptarch 2012/05/03 17:59:01
    It Depends
    Heptarch
    +1
    It depends. If a woman has given me reason to believe that such a move is welcome, I'll make it. If not, then I won't.
  • @TheMissesHelp <-Follow/Twe... 2012/05/03 17:54:03
    No.
    @TheMissesHelp <-Follow/Tweet me
    +4
    Its 2012. Women can and should also make moves,pay for some dates and even propose!
  • diana.dianapopescu 2012/05/03 16:47:05
    It Depends
    diana.dianapopescu
    +1
    introvertit people are awsome !They deserve an kick on their butts to make something..Sometime they are like treasures...
  • cmdrbnd007 2012/05/03 16:43:15
    No.
    cmdrbnd007
    +3
    Are you kidding, if my wife hadn't made the first move we wouldn't be together today.
  • BIG BAD JOHN R. 2012/05/03 16:42:10
    It Depends
    BIG BAD JOHN R.
    +2
    It all depends on the situation and circumstances. Ran into a friend when I was in college, she told me that when she was sending me all kinds of signals that she wanted to get to know me better. Damn sometimes I just don't have a clue... Told her I was sorry and lets make up for loss time.
  • FIDAN Ylee 2012/05/03 15:40:24
  • mwg0735 FIDAN Ylee 2012/05/03 18:05:24

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