Sex: For Marraige Or When The Feeling is Right?

by MiaBella Posted 2012/05/05 02:33:28

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	Sex is for Marriage- Abstinence.	14 votes	22%
	Experience when the Time is Right.	50 votes	78%

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Eric Albertson 2012/07/24 04:32:07

Experience when the Time is Right.

I can't wait long enough.

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zoe 2012/05/10 19:06:54

Sex is for Marriage- Abstinence.

Ideally, it's for marriage, but sadly these days you have to make do with what's coming. I'm one man's woman, I just started my sex life and he's the only male on the planet I want to have sex with. Sadly he's taken and I have to make do with the situation. I care about him so much...

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UrbanHillbilly 2012/05/07 18:02:25

Experience when the Time is Right.

I wish I lived in a world where marriage was that easy! Before any woman let me in her bed, she thought long and hard. Well, almost every woman. Not being married doesn't mean a girl just jumps in bed with a man, because she's horny, or even very often.

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Pixie·MzAwesome♠ƤĦĂĔŢ♠ 2012/05/07 01:29:34

Experience when the Time is Right.

+1
I wouldn't buy a car with out test driving it first.

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Mel 2012/05/07 00:52:24

Experience when the Time is Right.

+2
whomever said that sex is only for marriage is socially awkward

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MiaBella to Mel 2012/05/07 00:54:30

Or just has Morals.... you know ;)

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Mel to MiaBella 2012/05/07 01:05:48

+2
Are we suggesting that people who have sex outside of marriage are immoral? This syllogism lacks weight. Morality is a subjective value at best. WE are born sexual beings, chemically, biologically, and its part and parcel of our DNA conscript. To restrict anything that natural falls upon societal or religious teachings, which in themselves are outside influences.

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MiaBella to Mel 2012/05/07 01:29:19

I think Abstinence and such are more moral practices than having premarital sex. its not a black and white issue. its not to say those who have pre marital sex are immoral beings, just that thos who stay Abstinant are more moral than thos who dont.

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Mel to MiaBella 2012/05/07 06:19:23

+2
but you cannot simply measure morality by that kind of latitude. Morality is broad based.

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MiaBella to Mel 2012/05/07 16:27:38

Upon this matter it is based upon this principle. According to Religion and Tradition and History, this is how you measure Morality. whether you as an individual disagrees with it or not, does nto matter because this IS how it is measured. Thus, it can be declared that one can be more moral or less moral upon the principles they exercise concerning sexual dispositions.

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Mel to MiaBella 2012/05/07 17:50:54

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The statement you make is false correlation. There are tons of otherwise moral people who practise such without a religious affiliation or practising faith, or church. It's a prevential and strawman argument

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MiaBella to Mel 2012/05/07 22:36:33

Well, the main issue i am trying to get through is that it doesnt make you automatically immoral, it just makes you less moral than those who wait.

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Mel to MiaBella 2012/05/08 05:00:54

+1
There is no evidence for statements of that, nor can you provide empirical or anecdotal evidence to that effect.

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MiaBella to Mel 2012/05/08 05:03:32

i could if i actually felt like finding the evidence. i gave you evidence though, its Historical Tradition Of America. just how it is. i like debating with you :) thanks for not being rude or anything.

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Mel to MiaBella 2012/05/08 16:18:30

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Please you've not quited a credible source. if you were in my philosophy class, you'd be failing. There are so many logical fallacies in your statements.

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MiaBella to Mel 2012/05/09 00:19:14

I disagree :) you just cant accept that people are less moral when they have sex before marriage.

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Mel to MiaBella 2012/05/09 17:32:19

I askjed for empirical evidence for your statements. You've provided none, so all you have is personal opinion. Epic Fail.

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MiaBella to Mel 2012/05/09 22:15:56

you know what, you just are arguing to be right. to win. thats shallow and badgering me about my opinion and the ethics of our own country is geting you know where, so take a hint and blow off.

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Mel to MiaBella 2012/05/08 16:20:04

+1
BTW, people in early America had sex outside of marriage. Most of the founding fathers had courtesans and Benjamin Franklin was a member of the notorious Hellfire Societe, which was a condoned place for sexual laisons.

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MiaBella to Mel 2012/05/09 00:20:57

Yeah, it was frowned upon and discouraged by society. i never said it never happened. Pre marital sex happens all the time, but it DOES make you a little less moral. thats how it is portrayed through Society Religion, just the overall views. just how it is. im kinda done talking about this with you. so thanks for talking but lets let this die.

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Morgan 2012/05/06 03:29:42

Experience when the Time is Right.

+1
I'd like that

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cowgirl1 2012/05/05 20:47:47

Experience when the Time is Right.

+3
Make sure it's right

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☠megan_massacre☠ 2012/05/05 17:47:18

Experience when the Time is Right.

+2
Whenever you feel like you are with someone you can fully trust and you truly love them and it feels like the right thing to do for both of you.

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Margaret Jacobson 2012/05/05 16:44:29

Experience when the Time is Right.

+3
Maybe you will NEVER get married ?? Marriage is not for everyone !!

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MiaBella to Margare... 2012/05/05 16:49:48

+1
I think it is :) it just takes a while sometimes to find the person you want to be with forever

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Tank to MiaBella 2012/05/09 13:13:52

What about people who are together for years (as in, life partners), but never marry? After all, marriage is, to many people, nothing more than a party with a certificate at the end and legal benefits. What about people who's religions don't agree with marriage? Or LGBTQ people living in places with laws that ban them from marrying, and can't afford to travel? What about polygamous people? What about people who just straight up don't believe in marriage?

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MiaBella to Tank 2012/05/09 16:24:43

Hahah. okay, i dont have solutions for the world my friend. But society has become desensitized from the importance and benefits of marriage. i think its different for everyone, but i think the responsibilities of hacing sex are hand in hand with marriage.

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Lady Whitewolf 2012/05/05 11:14:04

Experience when the Time is Right.

+2
NUFF SAID

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efrain parra 2012/05/05 06:06:01

Experience when the Time is Right.

+1
why not both really i honestly think there are truly few abstents but i may be wrong i think for sure it takes more then a promise

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H H 2012/05/05 05:02:26

Sex is for Marriage- Abstinence.

+2
Not literally until marriage, but I believe there would be a much higher success rate for marriages if females would wait until they are as sure as they possibly can be that they've found the right guy before giving it up. I think it is probably okay for engaged folks to do it.

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Mel to H H 2012/05/07 00:55:12

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That's right blame it all on women? Men shouldn't wait but women must? That's hypocritical. Welcome to the 1930's

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Donald ... to H H 2012/05/07 08:10:56 (edited)

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Why did you single out females in your comment? Does this mean that you don't think males waiting would contribute to the rate of successful marriages?

How would sexual inexperience contribute to creating a successful marriage?

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MiaBella to H H 2012/05/10 16:29:11

I agree with you. i admire your opinion and im sorry so many people feel the need to jump down your throat just because they think differently

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disclaimer 2012/05/05 04:29:43

Experience when the Time is Right.

+2
Which might be marriage. Who knows. You will when the time comes.

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Helmholtz 2012/05/05 04:25:22

Experience when the Time is Right.

+1
For both.

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GeminiWolf 2012/05/05 04:13:57

Experience when the Time is Right.

+1
Yeah.. no way I could wait until marriage. Except in Vegas maybe.

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MiaBella to GeminiWolf 2012/05/05 04:42:41

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Hahahha !!!! exactly! the only place that gives out STDs as Frequently as Condoms

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GeminiWolf to MiaBella 2012/05/05 04:46:22

+1
Hey, they test their prostitutes. lol

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MiaBella to GeminiWolf 2012/05/05 04:51:14

hahaha sure. you know there are probably a lot of unlicensed or permitted prostitutes around@!

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GeminiWolf to MiaBella 2012/05/05 04:52:00

+1
true, but I don't plan on marrying a prostitute, so I guess I'm good to go

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