Okay so my boyfriend
Tater Tots
2012/08/08 17:58:25
got me pregnant and his mom is being a total b!t(h to me and I've been nothing but polite to her. She treats me like crap and she talks to me like I'm a low life or a dog. She yells at me all the time, she called me super white trash, she threatened to make the father revoke his rights as a parent even though he doesn't want to, and she said I should just kill the kid because I wont be a good mom. What did I ever do to her to deserve this? She's afraid to lose her son but what she needs to realize is that he's an adult and he's got a life of his own and she can't live it for him or tell him how to live it like she's always trying to do. Shes a control freak and I don't want to take her $h!t anymore. What do I do????
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Kylie 2012/08/08 18:04:26
+3she probably doesn't want to lose you either an feels like you're growing up to fast maybe. Try to sit down and talk to her and ask why she's acting like she is. But use a..soft..low voice not a loud one.. Act like you wanna know why she's like that, I wish you the best, doll, and I hope everything between you and your mom work out.
It sounds like from the way you describe the mother she hasn't liked you from the get go, also parents constantly worry about kids and making mistakes in life that will affect them for a long time and that's what's going on with you and your BF right now, life changing decisions must now be made and it's very tough and mentally draining for some.
I don't know your whole situation but this is something your gonna have to work out with the parent, especially if you are both underage and still live with your parents.
I hope you and your BF however have talked things over in depth and discussed your options.
I am appaled that this woman would suggest you kill her grandchild. She has serious issues. If you are under her roof, GET OUT. She may try to do that very thing to you.