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Nurse Laura Obzera Sexually Abuses Boys: Why are women abusing boys these days?

KayDee 2008/09/12 19:48:03
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A school health assistant, Laura Obzera, who is a nurse at the Wood View Elementary School in Bolingbrook, has been charges with sexually assaulting teenage boys. The boys, whom range in age from 13 to 17, were probably not victims she met through her job at the elementary school, but where they met is unknown. Obzera, was sexually assaulting the boys via sexually charged text messages. The nurse was released on a $50,000 bail.

So why do we keep hearing about women either sexually abusing, or having sexual relations with under-age boys?
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  • ~ANNA BANANA~ 2008/09/13 05:30:07
    There aren't enough good men out there.
    ~ANNA BANANA~
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    Really i dont kno but i think its disgusting! its the same as if a man were doing it! and there is no reason whatsoever anyone should do something like that!!!

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  • vampireknightzero 2009/02/10 02:35:47
  • Keen Tojones 2009/02/06 00:49:14
    Women sexually abusing boys? Where?
    Keen Tojones
    It was a librarian in Oklahoma. I think they do it because no one else will have them and because they think they can get away with it, probably because it was done to them and the perpetrator got away with it.
  • Darian 2008/11/29 16:18:40
  • xpunkox 2008/11/17 18:11:33
    Women sexually abusing boys? Where?
    xpunkox
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    There is a double standard when it comes to teenage boys and adult women call it "stiffler's mom syndrome" if you must. Tis wrong and it is just recently being viewed as the sexual abuse that it is.
  • Wolfy 2008/11/12 02:06:06
    These women like a feeling of power.
    Wolfy
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    women can get away with anything...including murder these days.
  • ~judypatootie~ :] 2008/09/19 00:45:38
    Women sexually abusing boys? Where?
    ~judypatootie~ :]
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    omg wats wrong with her
  • runningintriangles 2008/09/18 00:56:08
    These women like a feeling of power.
    runningintriangles
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    Why do men sexually abuse anyone underage? Same reason. It's all about power.
  • Diina 2008/09/17 00:21:57
    These women like a feeling of power.
    Diina
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    i don't know people who molest or any other dirty activity with little kids is really disgusting i've tried to understand but i just don't see how they find pleasure in doing things like that to little kids.
  • alw_ays 2008/09/13 20:25:05
    These women like a feeling of power.
    alw_ays
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    There are sexual deviants both male and female. We are beginning as a culture to recognize the female deviants more specifically.
  • girl_bass_player<3 2008/09/13 16:19:11
    Women sexually abusing boys? Where?
    girl_bass_player<3
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    See, It's people like That who are freaking STUPID to do things like that to anybody, bt the thing is that people have been doing this to girls for a long time i think that right now the media is just more interested in women abusing guys, even though its happens about as much as men abusing girls.
  • Republic of Honor 2008/09/13 11:58:53
    These women like a feeling of power.
    Republic of Honor
    +1
    I know this may be a tough pill to swallow, but there are sick women out there as well, all the physcos arent just men!
  • ~ANNA BANANA~ 2008/09/13 05:30:07
    There aren't enough good men out there.
    ~ANNA BANANA~
    +2
    Really i dont kno but i think its disgusting! its the same as if a man were doing it! and there is no reason whatsoever anyone should do something like that!!!
  • AnneMac 2008/09/13 03:28:54 (edited)
    Women sexually abusing boys? Where?
    AnneMac
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    Our culture is very 2-faced on this issue. If the perpetrator is female and the victim is male, people tend to treat the boy as if he is a stud and the woman as if she is a sad and pathetically immature for seeking out such younger men. We don't tend to treat boys as "victims." For this reason, authorities believe THIS crime is VERY under-reported. And you have seen that women are rarely treated as harshly under the law as men are with the same crimes and number of encounters.

    However, they have shown that boys who receive this kind of sexual attention at a young age often have problems with intimacy and sexuality later in life, often expressing sexual addiction, violent tendencies toward women, etc.

    On the other hand, if the tables are turned, the male perpetrator is often treated as a dangerous sexual predator, and the girl is his innocent victim. He has to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life, and the girl's family is often vindictive in seeking the maximum punishment.
  • texas red 2008/09/13 02:57:57
    Women sexually abusing boys? Where?
    texas red
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    Personaly I thanked God for them in my teens. Still DO!!!
  • ypd91 2008/09/13 02:51:03
    Women sexually abusing boys? Where?
    ypd91
    +1
    ?????? lol
  • PBJ 2008/09/13 02:11:28
    These women like a feeling of power.
    PBJ
    +1
    I think, in the past, it has always been publicized when a man sexually abused a girl but now we are just hearing the other half of the stories, woman abusing boys.
    I think the question is why does anyone do this and why is the media soley focusing on woman abusing boys now...
  • Zel 2008/09/12 21:29:51
    These women like a feeling of power.
    Zel
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    The a perverts...the thing is, is that this is not a new thing happening...this has been happening as long a men have been abusing girls...it's just getting more attention now and boys are less afraid to tell that they have been victimized.
  • fireware0062 2008/09/12 21:11:10
    Women sexually abusing boys? Where?
    fireware0062
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    wow! sometimes I wish I was still in school! jk! maybe she likes 'em young!!
  • AnneMac firewar... 2008/09/13 03:31:24
    AnneMac
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    This is exactly why we don't hear of it or punish it as severely. We have a big double standard. What if it were your daughter, or your sister?
  • firewar... AnneMac 2008/09/13 03:37:59
    fireware0062
    +1
    nah! we just live in a crazy world!
  • -L. ♥ 2008/09/12 21:09:04
    These women like a feeling of power.
    -L. ♥
    +2
    its soo tru. but, i shouldnt be talking. im a WOMAN. But, not all girls are bad.
  • Marky 2008/09/12 20:37:33
    These women like a feeling of power.
    Marky
    +1
    My response is not an option so I will comment...This is probably not new or even increasing. It's kind of like the "man bites dog" type of media hype. Also, teenage boys are not going to report it as a teen girl would. It would be embarrassing to teen boys because it would go against their macho image. As far as the reports, it makes for bigger news sensationalism. Well, SH will not allow comments only so I picked the least of my beliefs so I can post my thoughts.

    Marky :o)

    Marky :o)
  • KayDee Marky 2008/09/13 00:41:44
    KayDee
    +2
    thank you for your comments. =)
  • girl_ba... KayDee 2008/09/13 16:22:51
    girl_bass_player<3
    +1
    no problem, xD

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