My best friend's girl made a move on me. I turned her down. She asked me not to say anything? Should I tell him?

Unless they are about to get married.

if you really care about him...u really dont want 2 loose your besfriend because of that girl.....by thhe i give props 4 that ,,,,,ur a true friend

If it were my girl, I might be heart broken but I would appreciate it. Nothing any worse than a cheat or lier.

Not up to us it up to you.

If she did this to you, she may do it with another guy also. She is probably cheating on your friend.

You may want to hit that some day cause you never know.

She'll deny it, and then blame it on you. It's not worth losing a friendship. Sounds like she'll wind up dumping him, anyway. Let him find out on his own, it's part of life.

But keep an eye on her. If she made a stupid mistake that she probably regrets, and she really wants to be with your friend, then they'll probably continue to have a happy relationship. If it's an indication that she'll cheat on him continuously, someone should let him know his gf is a whore. But people make mistakes.

If he doesn't buy it your frienship is over untill he learns for himself.

It'll very awkward with the three of you in the same area until you do.

In today's world of incurable sexual diseases, who knows how many men this gal has slept with while being your friend's girlfriend. I would tell him to protect him from possibly dying of a sex disease - such as AIDS. You might lose him as a pal, but you could sleep soundly.

He should know that his girlfriend was willing to whore around with his best friend. No one deserves a girl friend like that. Think about if the situation was reversed. Wouldn't you want him to tell you if your girl friend was going behind your back?

You are right, Tori.

I would say no and you may want to keep your distance. It is none of your business how they end up in their marriage. Maybe it is ok with them and this is not the first time and you are not the first one to have this happen to with her.

Let it go and keep your distance or talk it out if she is a good friend.

But then, that depends on how close you are with your friend. If he is your BEST friend, then yes, definitely.

Last time I remember it happened to me, I blew it off because she was drunk but at the same time, I knew the others are not going to turn it down. Eventually, he caught her and they were divorced.
But, in the meantime, try to let him know not to trust her 100%.

I would tell her to seriously consider their relationship and its future (either way she would still have no chance with you).

I wouldn't want to contribute to his misery, if she is willing to try and make a move on you, she is willing to do it again. He will find out.

yes, but depends ur feeling for her

Pull down her pants and give her a good spanking. Then call your friend and tell him that the girl he is seeing just threw her body across your lap and that you spanked her out of loyalty to him! LOL !

I know you say you are very good friends, but if you try to tell him, make sure it doesn't turn back on YOU! Trust me. If that girl is going to do that behind his back, don't you think she would lie in his face. Sometimes, love is BLIND. Just stay out of it. Trust me, she's going to s tumble again with another person, and THEN you tell him about her sleazy ways.

yep...tell him to throw the cheater to the curb

Have no doubts

if she did it with you she's doin' it with other guys . wouldn't you want to know if your girl was cheating ?

YES. If his girlfriend is that untrustworthy or unable to restrain herself, he should know. And you hiding it from him when you know could be considered a betrayal in itself.

Do you want to tell him ...?

no

Did you kind of like it ...? Do you kind of like her? If so, you might want to think about that before you tell him and if you both have actual feelings for each other and decide you do want to mess around, maybe then she should consider breaking up with him first. That would make it a lot easier for him to accept if he should ever find out. Plus, you don't end up looking like the bad guy. ;-)

Yeah, I'm definitely partly to blame. I think, when I'm single, subconsciously I try to seduce my friends girls and then justify it to myself. It's happened too much to be a coincidence. Did I like it? Yeah, to be honest, I did. But, I'm playing right now, newly single. Any woman that I really like that falls for me, feeds my ego. Know thyself. I'm a good friend, but that's a flaw in my character. At least I didn't sleep with her. I might have if he hadn't been in the other room.

I don't want them to break up though.

Well, you're only human and at least you're honest whereas most people in the same situation would lie.

You will if you're his best friend. He NEEDS to know about her.

I hate this friggin voting system. I meant to click YES. I'd tell him straight out "dude, your girlfriend just hit on me." If he got mad at me, fine. I could take it and later he'd come back saying something like "you were so right." In this case honesty is the best policy. If you don't say something, you're part of the problem.

I can't tell from the question, but make sure you're right and she did actually make a move. Otherwise both of them will be against you and you'll just be a douche.

Getting involved in someone else’s relationship is a complete minefield as you just don’t know how some people will take things.

You left a lot out of your story… Does your friend think the sun shines out her backside? Is this a long term relationship? Was alcohol involved?

Your friend may be very appreciative if you gave him the heads up on what his girlfriend is like…but then again he may feel embarrassed and humiliated that she chose you over him…which in that case YOU become the bad guy not her. He could put the blame on you, as in what did you do to encourage her to think you’d be interested if she did make a pass at you. If she was a nasty cow she could change the story around and say it was you who hit on her and you’re only telling because she turned you down and she never told him to save his feelings.

I’d keep my distance from her and my mouth shut if I were you. If she’s the type who would hit on her boyfriend’s best friend then she’ll do it to someone else…he’ll soon see her for what she is.

Good Advice.

If you dont tell him, and he finds out later, your trust will be down the drain, and possibly your friendship too...

If he's your best bud he should know about this.And if he's really your friend he will understand this.

I would say no because I promised not to but I would keep my distance from them.

Hell yeah! Bro's before Ho's...and in this case she might be considered one. No disrespect to the real ladies.

Even if they're both good friends of yours. She is the one in the wrong and you owe her nothing. Your best friend deserves to know.