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Picture this: you're about to embark on an already anxiety-building airplane ride and the passenger in front of you decides to immediately recline his seat. We've all been there. But can something be done about it?

Well, Gene Weingarten -- the humor writer for The Washington Post -- has a solution. To approach the uncomfortable situation in a civil manner, Weingarten suggests using the polite message below to get the point across.

It's not you, it's the airline. Perfect.

He's asking people to print out copies and start placing them on seats the next time we fly.

Will you give it a shot?

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  • KSolove 2011/07/28 16:12:49
    I *am* a reclining passenger!
    KSolove
    +13
    Anytime I am on a plane and I want to recline, I have enough courtesy and respect for the person behind me to ask them if they would mind if I do so. Every single time I have asked, I have never had a problem. The only problem I have ever had on an airplane was when I had an old hag turn around in her seat to tell me to hit my daughter to get her to stop crying. The flight attendant came over to me and asked if there was anything that she could do and I said this "Yeah, you can get a ball gag for the old hag in front of me!" LOL XD About a dozen people heard me and started laughing. After the flight, most of the passengers on the plane said that my daughter didn't bother them one bit, because it happens.

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  • David 2011/08/01 22:44:36
    No
    David
    +1
    The best way would be to bite the bullet and upgrade to better seating. The reclining passenger has as much right to be comfortable as you do. If that bothers you, just grow up.
  • LVslotdoc 2011/08/01 20:29:50 (edited)
    I *am* a reclining passenger!
    LVslotdoc
    +1
    ...at least I like to take advantage of the privilege of reclining. If someone informs me that his or her a$$ is too big or have other physical limitations to get out of their seat because my seat is reclined, I will be more than happy to put it up to accommodate them.
  • EpicLuci 2011/07/31 08:17:01
    Yes
    EpicLuci
    thats random...
  • Barefooted Nana ∞ijm♥∞AFCL 2011/07/31 06:52:53
    I *am* a reclining passenger!
    Barefooted Nana ∞ijm♥∞AFCL
    +3
    WOW...lots of "rude" folks here. I am a reclining person and if you flew with me you would be happy that I take my meds and pass out till landing!
  • marylou5 2011/07/30 16:04:21
    No
    marylou5
    +2
    Each passenger buys and pays for his seat. The seats recline.
    These passengers are not doing anything wrong. How dare you chastise them!
    (I never recline my seat more than one notch because that's my preference and suits me! Complain to the manufacturers/airlines who designed the torture chambers.)

    Why on earth would you ask people to sacrifice what is comfortable for them in exchange for what is comfortable for you?

    I fly all the time and agree there is a lot of what I, and many others, consider "obnoxious" behavior!
    So be it.. It is not my job to monitor anyone. I am not the "Behavior or Courtesy Police".

    Buy the best headphones you can afford to block out the babies, cell phone weenies, computer game bells and whistles, loud teenagers and hard of hearing seniors!

    Sit in the window seat to avoid interruptions by those who have weak bladders.

    Sit in the aisle seat if you need the leg room, but watch out for items falling out of overhead bins and passengers invading your space to get them.

    Sit in the middle seat and you get elbowed from both sides.
    Sit in any seat and you may have a reclining seat in your lap.

    It is what it is. There is no way to legislate common sense or courtesy.

    You have a microcosm of society on every plane, the polite, the courteous, the obnoxious and you. But when the flight touches down, you get to walk away...until the next time......whew!
  • rightside 2011/07/30 15:25:59
    I *am* a reclining passenger!
    rightside
    +5
    That's what the seats do. They are not two inches from your face and if everybody does it, then you are all now equal.
  • marylou5 rightside 2011/07/30 16:11:17
    marylou5
    +1
    Lol..mountain out of a molehill..it's a flight not the rest of your life!
    But do look up and say hello to me when you 'come back' for your nap!!!
  • rightside marylou5 2011/07/30 16:41:29
    rightside
    +1
    Well certainly!!!!!
  • marylou5 rightside 2011/07/31 03:08:42
    marylou5
    +1
    Thank you very much...!
  • Patriot 2011/07/29 23:18:35
    I *am* a reclining passenger!
    Patriot
    +3
    I'm confused. Somehow you determine if the person in the seat in front of you can recline?

    confused determine person seat recline
  • Angelus 2011/07/29 17:25:36
    Yes
    Angelus
    *prints it off*
  • Juliees 2011/07/29 13:42:51
    Yes
    Juliees
    If you are impedeing in another person's personal space the just sit the seat up. Being on an airplane does not mean that you can just become and ass. Think of it this way you wouldn't lean your seat back onto someone in your car then why do it on an airplane
  • NoName Juliees 2011/07/31 03:25:14
    NoName
    Bad analogy: Airplane seats don't recline in coach as much as car seats: Though the sentiment is in the right place.
  • Tpem 2011/07/29 10:51:24
    No
    Tpem
    Either ask or sit in an exit isle where there is more leg room.
  • BHGOzzy 2011/07/29 10:41:43
    No
    BHGOzzy
    +1
    Answer? Recline!
  • Sam 2011/07/29 09:29:26
    No
    Sam
    +1
    We all had a roommate like this in college with passive aggressive notes. It doesn't work and it comes off as very condescending. Instead, every time I fly (which is often) if the issue comes up I just very calmly use my knees to make sure that it doesn't go too far.
  • marylou5 Sam 2011/07/30 16:16:07
    marylou5
    Passive agressive act....does it work? ROTFL
  • 13_JunkyardDog 2011/07/29 08:47:15
    I *am* a reclining passenger!
    13_JunkyardDog
    if i get air sick, i couldn't care less what anyone else thinks, hell i WILL throw up on you, i have in the past.
  • Tom 2011/07/29 07:25:54
    I *am* a reclining passenger!
    Tom
    I am not tiny. Not fat, just plain big. It happens. If possible I will ride in First Class, but that is not always possible.
  • tewaz1 2011/07/29 07:11:47
    Yes
    tewaz1
    When this happens to me I put my seat back tray down and start bouncing it. When they glare at me I give a sheepish smile and say, "Sorry, tight spaces make me fidgety." Usually they get the hint within the first 20 minutes.
  • Patriot tewaz1 2011/07/30 00:15:39
    Patriot
    +3
    You people are nuts. You don't control the seat in front of you. Every action you propose will get you reprimanded by the flight attendant. Keep it up and you'll get a free trip at the end of the flight.

    Recline your seat and you’ll have your lost space back. Good Grief!
  • tewaz1 Patriot 2011/07/30 02:49:21
    tewaz1
    +1
    Hasn't happened yet. I am a courteous flyer, but I expect the same courtesy in return. If your seat back is 2 inches from my face, we have a problem. I will not subject the people behind me to that. The very back seats don't recline, so what you propose doesn't work.
  • Patriot tewaz1 2011/07/30 12:24:40 (edited)
    Patriot
    +5
    I've been flying 45 years and I've never heard of this. If reclining your seat were forbidden then your seat wouldn't recline. There are only two reasons not to recline an aircraft seat. When the pilot/attendant tells you not to and when someone in a window or middle seat wants to get in or out. I too am courteous so I don’t kick the seat in front of me or put my tray up and down. If anyone uses the methods stated here to cause me to un-recline I'll ignore it. The second time I'll politely ask them to stop. You don't even want to know what happens if they do it a third time but it won’t be pretty.

    Let me be perfectly clear. When you purchase an airline ticket you have the rights and benefits of everything that comes with the ticket and a reclining seat is part of the package.

    Back seat doesn't recline? Life is sometimes harsh.

    EDIT: But I will give you a rave for being polite. Cheers!
  • marylou5 tewaz1 2011/07/31 03:14:43
    marylou5
    +3
    Sorry but no airline seat is two inches from your face...gross exaggeration!

    Most airlines avoid filling those non reclining back seats, unless you are on a full plane and bought the last ticket!!!
  • tewaz1 marylou5 2011/08/02 23:07:57
    tewaz1
    Oh sorry, my bad. 5 inches.
    5 inches Economy pluss extra inches
  • marylou5 tewaz1 2011/08/03 15:36:28
    marylou5
    +1
    BTW....totally inaccurate depiction.

    Yes, your bad to try to fool people.

    The seat itself does not move!! If you've ever been on an airplane, you know that.

    You are being deceptive to prove your point.

    Only the top back of the seat reclines....the foot room does not change!!

    FYI: The seat is bolted to the floor!
  • tewaz1 marylou5 2011/08/03 23:53:20
    tewaz1
    This is not a depiction of a reclining seat, but the space between seats for economy plus and regular seating. I used this illustration as an example of how much space is available in the first place.
    Do not jump to conclusions. Just because you misunderstood my point does not indicate deception. Anyone who has flown in the past two years has seen this diagram and understands what it means.
  • marylou5 tewaz1 2011/08/04 21:34:48
    marylou5
    We are talking about available space when a seat is reclined.

    I did not misunderstand your pointI
    I understood your point perfectly...to mislead!

    Otherwise why would you attempt to claim there is a 5 inch space.

    There is more than 5 inches or were you throwing that out for affect also??
  • tewaz1 marylou5 2011/08/04 22:32:53
    tewaz1
    I just flew this weekend. 5" was specifically the non-economy plus space advertised, and that is without someone reclining in your space. I used the airline's own advertisements.
  • marylou5 tewaz1 2011/08/04 22:42:03
    marylou5
    +1
    I fly all the time! There are more than five inches.Why do you insist on that erroneous statement?!? Unless you are flying in a crop duster!
  • tewaz1 marylou5 2011/08/05 00:55:13
    tewaz1
    Why are we even having this conversation? Do I threaten your sense of entitlement so much that you need to try and convince me, or someone else that you are justified in being inconsiderate?
    I have better things to do than talk circles. I"m sure there are more productive things you could be doing as well.
  • marylou5 tewaz1 2011/08/10 01:05:21
    marylou5
    You are absolutely right.
    You and I will have to agree to disagree which person is inconsiderate. I am wasting my time...and you, as well.
    Have a nice day!
  • marylou5 Patriot 2011/07/30 15:13:53
    marylou5
    +5
    As long as you have your "tush" in your seat, you have my permission to go where it takes you!
  • Patriot marylou5 2011/07/30 15:19:55
    Patriot
    +3
    Why thank you, you are most kind!
  • Barefoo... Patriot 2011/07/31 06:50:08
    Barefooted Nana ∞ijm♥∞AFCL
    +2
    same here!
  • Myrle Hulme 2011/07/29 06:53:43
    Yes
    Myrle Hulme
    Otherwise keep knocking the reclining seat until the selfish person sits up. Or get a noisy child to keep jumping and looking over the seat that would annoy me
  • Patriot Myrle H... 2011/07/30 00:11:52
    Patriot
    +4
    You people have no right to tell the person in front of you anything. Knock his seat and you'll get tossed of the plane. Good Grief. The seats recline, live with it or ride the bus. Ops, those seats recline also. Take your car.
  • Myrle H... Patriot 2011/08/01 10:42:13
    Myrle Hulme
    Wh can you not ask him politely is it a sin?
  • Patriot Myrle H... 2011/08/02 11:24:19
    Patriot
    Politely? "Otherwise keep knocking the reclining seat until the selfish person sits up. Or get a noisy child to keep jumping and looking over the seat that would annoy me"
  • Nuke 2011/07/29 06:37:09
    Yes
    Nuke
    Sure, better than kicking the seat right? I might do that if they don't heed my friendly asking first, if not then let the seat kicking begin! lol
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