Ladies when you talk to guys do you feel like they aren't listening?

by Elisa ✦ Knockout™ Posted 2012/06/20 04:06:58

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It's like talking to a pole sometimes, lol. Why do men do this? I can't seem to understand this, UGHHHHH LOL.

Sis 2012/06/22 17:56:19

sometimes, i think or feel tht they just want 2 ask u the nxt question nd doesnt really care wut the answer may be. some u can carry on a conversation and u knw they are paying attention cuz they are asking u questions that are going along with wut u r talking about.

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ღ♥ღ ℒea ღ♥ღ 2012/06/20 20:11:43

sometimes, yes. And it can be aggravating when it's something important.

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adeenmckenziekennedy 2012/06/20 19:28:12

Maybe guys find us women boring to listen to. I don't know

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none 2012/06/20 17:02:31

After listening to an endless tirade we often are no longer listening. Keep it short and to the point, tell us how to do something or what to do, not both.

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Changeling 2012/06/20 12:57:22

I have a sarcastic comment, but I'll just refrain

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mwg0735 2012/06/20 07:28:34
Inquisitve Kat 2012/06/20 06:55:48

I find that with women, too... people are very disconnected.

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IChangedMyNameAgain 2012/06/20 06:37:12

+1
I always listen to every word my girlfriend says. I can't think of anything more important to me than she is.

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Neelo to IChange... 2012/06/21 09:06:13

and I know you listen, which makes you more amazing. Love you :) ♥

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IChange... to Neelo 2012/06/23 20:20:57

+1
I love you too

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atomikmom 2012/06/20 06:28:46

Some times they seem to staring off into Space!!!

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Me 2012/06/20 05:41:40

well yes cuz they arent

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wtxwoman 2012/06/20 05:37:27
Magical Mushroom 2012/06/20 05:32:39

I know they don't and sometimes I stop talking or I just continue to hear my thoughts out out. I have live with guys. Got to love them and hate them all the same.

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Pat 2012/06/20 05:19:45

A lot of men seem to be that way. And I don't think it's our fault for talking too much. I try never to interrupt my husband if he's on his computer or watching TV unless I absolutely have to. And when he's in the same room with me he starts walking out before I actually finish what I was saying. He's always been like that. Never stays put anywhere long enough to have a real conversation.

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BubblyBlonde 2012/06/20 04:33:44

No, not really.

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Vitalani 2012/06/20 04:27:32 (edited)

Nope. I feel like girls aren't listening though. Generally they don't want to here about the new mount I got and how I top fived the last 3 instances I did. -_- I've never had a problem keeping a guys attention. But I am genuinely more interested in things that they generally like...So it's pretty simple.

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Elisa ✦... to Vitalani 2012/06/20 04:43:34

Yeah i get what you're saying lol. I guess it all depends on th person.

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☆The Rock☆ * AFCL* The Sher... 2012/06/20 04:12:10

+2
Because us guys want the girls to get to the point, my wife goes into so much details it drives me crazy!!

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Elisa ✦... to ☆The Ro... 2012/06/20 04:14:00

+1
detail :O
So a guys convo is "hey yo peace"?

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☆The Ro... to Elisa ✦... 2012/06/20 04:15:13

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It like she so in such detail and I am say girl get to the point!

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Elisa ✦... to ☆The Ro... 2012/06/20 04:19:13

+1
lol that makes no sense :P
ok i'll admit women use the right side of our brain when men use the lazy left side,lol.
By the way daddy happy belated fathers day.

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☆The Ro... to Elisa ✦... 2012/06/20 04:21:33 (edited)

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Thanks Elisa. oh us guys are just silly sometimes..My wife know she can not talk to me when I am watching my sports! LOL

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Elisa ✦... to ☆The Ro... 2012/06/20 04:23:25

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Lol i was going to get to the sports part and beer.

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ღ♥ღ ℒea... to ☆The Ro... 2012/06/20 20:09:41

I had a bf that thought my soap opera was stupid (go figure lol) & when I would be trying to watch it, he would irritate me.

Next time a big boxing match was on... he got my point lolol... I like sports, though. So he was lucky. :-)... unless it's a NASCAR, that is boring.

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Elisa ✦... to ღ♥ღ ℒea... 2012/06/20 22:24:57

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Haha you should totally do it ;)

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☆The Ro... to Elisa ✦... 2012/06/20 04:22:24

+1
BTW how close are you too Guru?

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Elisa ✦... to ☆The Ro... 2012/06/20 04:27:55

+1
8,796 i'm slowing down cus i want to hold on to it for sometime lol. :P

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ღ♥ღ ℒea... to ☆The Ro... 2012/06/20 20:05:26

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we like to share our feelings, details are the reasons explaining our actions or our desires... we like this. This is why we do it. Has your wife ever said, "what are you thinking?"?... sometimes I laugh because women want details & guys just want Cliff Notes lol

so it's kind of interesting how male and female differences can drive each other crazy lol

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DFA 2012/06/20 04:11:03

+1
Wait, what?

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Elisa ✦... to DFA 2012/06/20 04:14:26

+1
ha ha ha ;/

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