Its hard to explain, lol. But like, in purely sexual terms and nothing more, lots of muscle is HAWT. But in terms of love and a relationship, i'd prefer a guy to not have muscle. I dunno if that makes much sense, as its a bit paradoxical haha.
How is this even a question? Of course we do! We won't disregard men without defined muscle, but a little muscle makes a man more attractive. It shows that he is in shape, can help us with heavy lifting, and cares about his health and well-being. ;) http://towleroad.typepad.com/...
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