Is having friends solely of the opposite sex appealing or unattractive?

by 2789847 Posted 2012/05/21 10:15:07

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tredzwater 2012/05/21 10:44:11

Doesnt matter

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I don't choose friends by gender.

That said, I was always more comfortable around men and had more male friends than female ones. Probably because I was a tomboy and seem to understand men more than I understand women. Possibly because I was an Army brat and was around more men than women.

But, my best friend of 25 years is a woman.
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Desteni 2012/12/21 07:01:55

Doesnt matter

Depends

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Kookieless The Sexy Nihilis... 2012/11/24 17:36:49
gr8American 2012/11/24 15:10:23

Doesnt matter

Doesn't matter but it usually shows that the person has a sexual preference for the same sex..

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DoxieDad 2012/11/24 14:47:18

I'll pass

Sorry girls, if I were to have sole friends who were women I would commit suicide in a short time.

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Nicky 2012/11/24 14:46:33

Doesnt matter

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as long as you are happy, it's not that big of a deal, plus, i don't see why it's not appealing, most of my friends are girls, and i like that.

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YepIDidItSo 2012/10/25 01:56:15

Doesnt matter

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my 2 good friends are guys. Women either don't understand my personality, or dislike me because I am confident in myself. :(

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RedneckAngel 2012/10/24 22:07:43

Doesnt matter

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i say u should have friends that are girl and guys a mixture cause if u have solely the opposite sex may make ur mate jelous so if u have a mixture u can have other couples

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john 2012/10/24 20:51:24

Doesnt matter

+1
whatever you feel comfortable with

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Piwan 2012/10/24 14:26:40

Doesnt matter

+1
Friends are friends, what difference does it make?

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2789847 to Piwan 2012/10/24 23:00:27
Piwan to 2789847 2012/10/25 14:04:02

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Why? i'm not saying it is the situation for me, but still, I don't allow other people's opinions to affect what I do..no one should limit themeselves because or peers.

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Mike 2012/10/24 13:35:59

Doesnt matter

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as long as your intentions are real and not just a deviant thing, you can chill with them
but thats the hard part

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YourCompanionCube 2012/10/24 13:35:31

Doesnt matter

+1
most of my SH friends are women. In the real world, I have very little friendship. I'm a despised disturbed creep.

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Robert 2012/10/24 13:19:37

Doesnt matter

+1
I have a lot of friends who are female- but I have my limits. They think since I'm gay I like to waste time talkin about guys, do make up, go shopping... -__-.... Who said I liked to do that? lmfao. So yea, It's nice to hang out with some buds and throw a football lol

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jc 2012/10/24 13:10:34

I'll pass

+1
Just having all woman friends is too much.I have both.

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Lyndell "Still YDG'n?!" Banks 2012/10/24 12:58:43

Doesnt matter

+1
I don't pick my friends based on gender, but most of my close friends just so happen to be female lol.

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andrew.micheals.353 2012/10/24 12:40:35

Doesnt matter

+1
FWBs. I can't shag my male friends so their are some advantages I guess.

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♥♫♪♫♪RecklessMind♪♫♪♫♥ 2012/10/24 12:40:27

Doesnt matter

+1
I like to be friend with everyone!

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nneoma 2012/09/07 22:04:55

Doesnt matter

+2
i'm a girly girl who likes to hang out with guys. most of the time girls just talk about guys and about other people...it's like it's programmed into them

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AvK 2012/09/07 21:04:11

Doesnt matter

+1
why should it matter? I think that in general just positive real life human interaction is important.

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jai joshi 2012/09/07 18:15:19

Doesnt matter

+1
i thinks both gender is fine for being friends,, yeah i do agree having friends in girl for man, they might attract man sometime..

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★☆Ams★☆ 2012/09/07 17:46:14 (edited)

I'll pass

+1
Having friends of both genders is fine, but I would find it odd if a girl only had guy friends or a guy only had girl friends. It makes you wonder why they can't get along with the same sex.

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Rachael LeighAnne 2012/09/07 17:40:06

Doesnt matter

+1
When your friends with the opposite gender, it makes it harder to find someone comfortable with it, that you want to date. In the end it makes things easier in all honesty.

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TXGirl 2012/09/07 16:38:27

Doesnt matter

+1
I'd rather have friends of both sexes

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tommy 2012/09/07 16:13:48

Doesnt matter

+3
Friends are friends. Doesn't matter

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Relay 2012/09/04 00:33:18

Doesnt matter

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i have mostly guy friends... but the girls i do hang out with, i wouldn't trade them for anything.

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.: LiVi :. 2012/09/03 12:07:08

I'll pass

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If I only had male friends, and no female friends that would be sad. I love the company of women. My life would not be worth living without any female friends. I feel happier and more fulfilled to be loved (as a sister) by other women than I ever could from being loved by a man. They're just not the same

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kotabear 2012/09/03 12:06:14

Doesnt matter

+2
Almost any girl would say that they don't care if their friend is a guy or a girl.

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Demoness 2012/09/03 10:42:22

Doesnt matter

+1
I get on with male just as well as I do females,,but I seem to have a lot more male friends,tbh..

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buneter 2012/09/03 08:51:13

Doesnt matter

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i only have friends that are girls i didnt try to make that happen their just cooler then all the guys in my school

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Mz.KrissyMarie101 2012/09/03 08:21:44

Doesnt matter

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doesnt really matter to me because i make friends with guys easier than i do the girls idk why its jus been like that a long as* time. besides the guys always have a girls back when it comes to some punk trash talkin their best friend who is like a sister to them. so basically they make really good body guards. that came in handy a couple times for me before.

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Veritas CLM *First Sedition* 2012/09/03 07:27:17

Doesnt matter

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I can't really speak to whether one is better than the other or not. I've had friends of both genders for a long, long time.

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ANZ 2012/07/24 02:08:24

Doesnt matter

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All of my friends are guys, I avoid a lot of gossip and they are the most loyal friends I could ask for, and yes, I base that on their gender.

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Bob S 2012/07/22 23:45:21 (edited)

Doesnt matter

+1
It really depends on what you are looking for.

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AM 2012/07/22 23:12:54

Doesnt matter

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I don't choose my friends by their gender. It's just that women don't take a real liking to me very easily and really it's for the best.The (few) women I am close to however are held in the highest esteem to me...but it took work most of the time.

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RobHom 2012/07/22 21:10:37

Doesnt matter

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But I wouldn't mind having about a dozen hot chicks as friends

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Nam Era Vet #1 DNA TLC 2012/07/22 20:55:15

Doesnt matter

+2
Fine with me. I have always had more female than male friends.

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D.G.rocks 2012/07/22 20:54:32

Doesnt matter

+1
most all my friends are guys

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Alexis Lynn 2012/07/06 20:28:06

Doesnt matter

+2
But almost all of my friends are guys. Girls don't normally like me for some reason, maybe because I was raised like a boy ^^" lol

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Bob S to Alexis ... 2012/07/22 23:46:31

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or maybe they are jealous of your attributes.

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