In your opinions do you call me a bad close friend if i refuse to do this

by Cloud Posted 2012/07/14 23:43:58

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Hi all this question is asking your opinions and yes out of curiosity too so please be honest with me and i don't care if it's harsh or not thanks.

In your opinions do you call me a bad close friend if i refuse to record my close friends having sex if he asks me to?

I ask because yes they are 2 of my close friends and yes they are in boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with each other and he is like a brother to me I'm like a brother to him and she is like a little sister to me and I'm like a big brother to her.

And she told me my bro aka my close friend want me to record them having sex and yes so he can put it online and she told him already i won't do it since she knew i won't do it don't get me wrong i do anything for them but that i can't do it and yes i do find her beautiful and all but i just can't do it and yes i live by my own code and my own honor i created for myself and i still live by my code and my honor.

And what he ask me sorry i just can't do it i love them in all as my family yes but i just can't do it he just took it to far sometimes he does go too far anyway please answer the question thanks and be completely honest with me and i don't care if it's harsh.

GirlyGirl™ 2012/07/14 23:45:41

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I wouldn't do it, not for love nor money. If it's against everything you stand for, don't do it.
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Andy 2012/07/15 13:13:55

You are a Great Friend for saying NO. Just because someone wants you to do something...and you refuse, does not mean you are a bad friend. Some people will push a relationship to see how far they can take it. They are doing that. You have your set of morals and ethics, and this is out of the range.

If they asked you to shoot someone, or injure someone...and you said no... they need to respect that.

They want you to be part of their fantasy...say NO and be done with the situation

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Relay 2012/07/15 05:09:40

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props to you for saying no... she will regret that being posted for the rest of her life and someday thank you for not doing it

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Anna 2012/07/15 03:16:35

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Honestly, I think it'd be pretty weird of you to videotape them having sex, especially because they're like family to you. It's great to be a close friend and all, but there is such a thing as too close.

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bman~AVA 2012/07/14 23:52:46

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Cloud I don't think I'd be feeling too comfortable with a set up like that either. It's like in that old Clint Eastwood movie Magnum Force, Harry was telling his Lt or Capt. that "a man's got to know his limitations." Well, from what I'm seeing here you've reached yours. Stick to your guns my friend. If they are true friends then they'll get over it. They can always set that camera up anywhere in the room and take a video.

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☯ ʂıoвнaп ☮ 2012/07/14 23:52:40

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It doesn't make you a bad friend at all. I think it would be a worse situation if you actually wanted to.

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♥K14 2012/07/14 23:46:46

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That's not being a bad friend, It's being a normal person.
Honestly, I'd be more concerned if a friend wanted to, than if they refused to...

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Quiet-is-feared 2012/07/14 23:46:45

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No, that doesn't make you a bad friend. That makes you a very sensible individual.

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GirlyGirl™ 2012/07/14 23:45:41

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I wouldn't do it, not for love nor money. If it's against everything you stand for, don't do it.

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