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I'm just wondering but why should I as a nice guy bother getting marry/or bother with marriage

Cloud 2012/07/01 21:52:39
Hi fellow sodaheads and my friends on sodaheads this question to came to mind so if you don't mind this question is only out of curiosity and I say it again this question is only out of curiosity so please don't take this the wrong way I am just wondering and if you have veiws,opinions and understand what us nice guys like me go through feel free to answer it thanks.

I'm just wondering but why should I as a nice guy bother getting marry/or bother with marriage? because if you are a nice guy to your woman you either A get divorce or B get dumped for those bastards and round up with used up women and raise kids that's not even yours to begin with.

I say this because I'm 24 year old virgin and I'm proud of it and I'm saving my virginity till marriage and I expect her to do the same sadly a lot of women and a lot of girls throw away their virginity to those bastards thinking they are so in love with him and they think they can change him into a guy she wants.

I know I'm super skinny very thin because of my high metabolism I'm not buffed that women and girls loved to be protected and I don't have a 6 pac abs I don't have a job and I don't own a car or a ID since my mom is overprotective of me that's one of the reasons why I can't get a job or move out.

Another reason is my mom thinks I need more training or whatever so I can become a professional game designer all I can think of the reasons at the moment and yes that's my dream job and I'm thinking of hire a escort or a prostitute to give my virginity to no no I'm not going to do it.

That's just one of my options since no women and no girls want me anyway yes I admit sometimes I feel like a loser,too ugly,too nice and too skinny for women and if I meant to die alone with no wife no kids since no women and no girls wait till marriage so be it.

And I might use women and girls and dump them that's another option since they rather have arrogant jerks a**holes aka a douchebag anyway sorry for it to be long my main question again is I'm just wondering but why should I as a nice guy bother getting marry/or bother with marriage?

Since I'm still a virgin and they are not feel free to answer it and looks like us nice guys finish last it's no hope for us what's so ever oh well feel free to answer it if you don't I understand

And yes i do have other options besides these 2 so don't bother thinking that's my only options these 2 are part of my options i have left and i do have other options.

And yes I admit I'm both a nerd since I might not share the same knowledge as a regular nerd and a geek you know I'm 50/50 and I collect stuff that I love and I collect stuff that I like and yes video games is one of the examples :).
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  • Nekosarethebest 2012/07/02 15:13:51
    Nekosarethebest
    We don't know.
  • Leo Gru 2012/07/01 22:21:52
    Leo Gru
    My advice/opinion:
    Yes, you should find that girl that makes you happy that makes you want to be the best person you can.

    I also think that you should do whatever it takes to be independent and find out who you are. You should look into moving out, getting a job, and learning to handle life. Girls want a guy that, in addition to being nice, knows how to be reliable and self reliant. Get out there! Find out what things you are looking for in a girl. See what the world has to offer. Contribute to the community you live in! Take who you are and magnify it so you are the right person for that special girl.
  • Fran-Halen 2012/07/01 22:20:49
    Fran-Halen
    Your choice, live it......
  • Maria 2012/07/01 22:18:13
    Maria
    As long you're nice guy it very rare to find for ladies...don't feel bother by marriage or anything.you're fine all right along..just don't give up so easily...in long run you'll be smiling at the end..right now you're still young and full of alert video games future you're working on...
    you're just state your options and it's fine don't concern you nerd at all..just concern you're human that it.. Take good care....
  • Sister Jean 2012/07/01 22:04:03
    Sister Jean
    +1
    no need
  • 666_Maggots~PassionForGlory... 2012/07/01 22:02:54
    666_Maggots~PassionForGlory BN-1
    +2
    I'm going to say this first, I think it's really admirable that you're saving yourself per say for the right woman. But back to they question, you should bother because their is always a chance you may find someone. A lot if women appreciate nice guys, it may just take a while to find the right one. I'm just saying don't give up hope, even how cheesey that just sounded. Good luck.

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