Im fourteen almost fifteen, and i really wanna get pregnant but im over weight, and i dont have a boyfriend. So what should i do?

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youre way too young to get pregnant and you would have no way to take care of a baby!!! this would burden your parents and yourself down. you need to wait until youre out of school. finish school and go to college if possible. focus on that instead of having a baby. taking care of ababy is a lot of responsibility. and you need to be ready for that. you need to have a job and be able to pay bills. if you have ababy now this is just another burden on the taxpayers and yourself and your parents.

wait until you're out of school and married or can at least care for the child properly.

Uh...ok I'll see what I can do... wait, what state are you in? heheh...

nc

he North Carolina legal Age of Consent for sexual contact is 16 years old. See you in 2014! (totally kidding people!) Don't get preggers.

You'll regret it when youre like 26 and people you know have already graduated college and are doing great thing with their lives... but then what do I know... maybe you have a fat trust fund and will have no problem with money or anything and you'll get your kids outta the way by the time you're 30 or so. Even if that's the case, you need to be older to know how to be a good parent.

so then i would be 25,so then like the next yr 2015,yeah so then by 2020

Don't get pregnant until you can take care of a baby on your own. Stay in school.

Try waiting until you are old enough to be responsible enough to care for and support a child...you are a child yourself...GROW UP FIRST...then you will have plenty of time to have babies... :)

This gal isn't playing with a full deck, that's for sure. And if she DOES get pregnant, she'd only be bringing another loser like herself into the world.

You have no business getting pregnant at your age. How will you pay for it and support it ? Totally irresponsable

Well said!

Not sure if this a cry for help, or pure stupidity, but either way it's a bad idea. You're fifteen, you shouldn't be worrying about getting pregnant. You should be thinking about doing well in school, going to college, doing something with your life. And believe me when I say this- taking care of a baby is NOT easy. I raised both of my younger sisters and it was probably the most difficult thing I ever had to do. With a baby comes LOT'S of responsibilities, responsibilities you obviously can not handle.

I'm gonna say something that may seem harsh, but you need a reality check:

Stop being so DAMN stupid, and stay in school!

have sex with as many people as you can.

DON'T GET PREGNANT. O.O

WAIT to have kids till ur in ur 30s. U want to be able to have a stable job and life before u have a baby. I realize that is a long time to wait but it's important to know u r bringing a new life into this world. One that will be relying on u for EVERYTHING. Home, food, clothes, love, nurturing, help, growth, etc.

Idiotic decision.

You need to continue your education.
A baby changes everything.
You won't be able to hang with your friend because now you have a responsibility for another human being.

You're lucky.

I am pretty sure, if this is indeed a legitimate question that you as bright as black paint in a dark room with no windows. What kind of crack are you smoking?

Just don't hun. 1. you are too young. 2. It is so much different than babysitting. 3. If your idea came from a tv show glamorizing it kill that thought at the moment and quit watching the show.
Having a baby with you constantly means you come second in life. Everything you want goes on the back burner. Your life becomes work, baby and school. (not necessarily in that order) Note there is nothing there about you.
I had both of my baby's after I was out of school. I was better prepared to handle what life with them means. Wait hun!! Be a teen and kid first!

This is easy:

#1, Change your lifestyle eating habits and lose weight to a proper and appropriate weight-range;

#2, Wait 5 years until you are mature enough to actually know what you are contemplating, and see "what the weather's like" THEN, and continue on your journey;

And #3, don't ask total strangers for advice on how to live YOUR life. Things should go much better for you then.

You sound so stupid.If you were my daughter,I would slap the snot out of you.

I don't usually believe in corporal punishment, but in this case, I would make an exception.

How about DON'T DO IT. You are obviously one of 2 kinds of people. Either you are saying this for shock value or you are serious. Either way....DO NOT DO IT. You are 1) not mature enough to be responsible for someone elses life
2) you cannot find a job that would pay the expense of pregnancy, birth and care of a child and 3) try growing up first. You are just a child.

wait until you are 21 and then worry about it. Getting pregnant at 15 is stupid and irresponsible.

Wait ten years!

DON'T just dont.

Please do NOT do that. It's not worth it.

...you're fourteen? and you want a kid?

Wait

no, actually, I'm totally decided... you should go to your nearest family planning clinic, and talk to someone there about getting you onto birth control immediately. Then, you need to get some counseling and some serious sex and family planning education to explain to you the realities of getting pregnant, carrying a baby, giving birth, and raising a child, not to mention the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases/infections.

having a baby isn't just having someone to love, you know, it's a whole lot harder than that, and you need to know what you're getting yourself into BEFORE you find yourself trapped somewhere you didn't know you'd end up... go talk to someone who can give you the real facts. Please. for your sake, and the sake of your future children.

Just tell that to the next guy who wants to have sex with you and it will all work out just fine.

Seriously, you don't need to be having kids, yet.

I'm very very sure about your wish. Some day all of your dreams will come true. Please do not start experimenting at your early age. You have so much going for you and a baby should not be one of the choices. You say your over weight and no boy friend. You take care of your weight and it can be done in a proper manner. Start WITH YOUR PARENTS AND MAYBE YOU SHOULD GET MEDICAL ADVICE AND GO FROM THERE. The boy FRIEND WILL BE AROUND SOONER RATHER THAN LATE when YOU TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. GOOD LUCK AND PLEASE DON'T GET STARRY EYED OVER THE BOYS.

Enjoy your life. Find the man of your dreams. Marry him, then have children when you are financially secure enough to take care of them. Also, do a lot of cardio. As in an hour 5-6 days a week. Cardio, cardio, cardio. I lost 50 lbs doing only cardio.

Uh I think its a bad idea my friend had a baby at 12 an its hard so plzz dont

really she did