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Im fourteen almost fifteen, and i really wanna get pregnant but im over weight, and i dont have a boyfriend. So what should i do?

Mel Hoskins 2011/12/05 22:55:01
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  • Stef and the City 2012/09/18 04:51:50
    Undecided
    Stef and the City
    Oh okay, well as long as you're ALMOST fifteen, overweight and without a boyfriend. You sound like the perfect candidate to bring an innocent, needy, helpless infant into this world.
  • littlebuffalo55TBA 2012/09/18 04:15:22
    Undecided
    littlebuffalo55TBA
    Exercise and educating yourself on how to eat healthier? Maybe when you have a few years under your belt you'll be more capable of taking care of another being?
  • TheGnomeWhisperer 2012/08/29 04:57:21
    Undecided
    TheGnomeWhisperer
    +1
    Get an education. You have plenty of time for babies and it costs a lot of money to raise a child responsibly.
  • Alvin 2012/08/25 23:23:12
    Undecided
    Alvin
    +1
    Take a deep breath, then slap yourself as hard as you can and ask yourself "What the H*** am I thinking?"
  • SoulGlowActivatur 2012/08/24 23:53:45
    Undecided
    SoulGlowActivatur
    +5
    One more kid on the path to ruin their life...have fun.
  • heart of love ♥♥ 2012/08/24 19:56:30
    Im Not Sure Help!
    heart of love ♥♥
    i think you should see someone ok or maybe try reading some romance novels they can really change your option on that kinda junk................i also think you should talk to your mom and dad if you don't have any talk to some one you know or you bff or a trusted grown up.............or message me??? if you are that messed up you need help or need a friend...............i can help with the friend junk but not the rest.................as for being overweight how do you know you are i know a lot of kids i know think they are but they SO SO SO are not aka my bff {hummm you could be her IF YOU ARE FIGURE OUT YOUR EMAIL PASSWORD THEN EMAIL ME THIS IS ELIZABETH (my friend says stuff like that alot so i would not be suprized if you where her )}
  • dead girl 2012/08/22 23:45:40
    Undecided
    dead girl
    first things first
    you should not be getting pregnant at your age not only because of the social reasons such as maturity level, education, and financial responsibilities but because of the health risks too
    1-before 17 and after 35 the chance that your baby can be born with birth defects is greatly increased as well as pregnancy complications such as placenta previa (when the babies placenta in too far down and can cover your cervix), or the need for a cesarean which increases your chances of uterine rupture (when your uterus breaks open because it is weak where the scar tissue is from the previous cesarean)
    2-because you are overweight you have an increased chance of getting gestational diabetes and pre eclampsia and eclampsia (high blood pressure during pregnancy that can cause seizures/convulsions) which increases your chances or permanent diabetes and hypertension (high blood pressure)
    if you want to talk more feel free to contact me
  • AlexTheDrummer 2012/08/22 12:38:15
    im not sure!!!!!
    AlexTheDrummer
    I know this isn't what you want to hear, but it would be best if you waited until you were able to provide the care needed for a child. At your age, you are NOT able to, no matter how sure you are. Also, At your age, you do not have a financial income, and if you do, it is very small and not enough to support a child. Your parents are not going to want to support another child (In this case, your child).
    I think, if you want to ensure the health and happiness of yourself and your baby, you should wait until you are at least 18, and with someone who you really care about who really loves you back.

    I'm 14, almost 15, too. I may not have much experience in these matters, but I think that I am speaking logically.
  • **StarzAbove** 2012/08/22 02:14:10
    Undecided
    **StarzAbove**
    You're just a baby, and babies shouldn't be having babies.
  • Moh Al-a 2012/08/21 23:00:05
    Undecided
    Moh Al-a
    You are 15 too young
  • shygurl 2012/08/21 22:44:24
    Undecided
    shygurl
    you dont want to get pregnant at that age trust me! especially not when you dont even have a boyfriend
  • scientologist supreme 2012/08/21 18:19:03
    Im Not Sure Help!
    scientologist supreme
    +1
    um im sure your beautiful but if your like fiftenn you shouldnt be wanting to get pregnant at that age. im sure i would be your boyfriend but i dont know if i would want to get you pregnant
  • La 2012/08/21 12:04:27
    im not sure!!!!!
    La
    +1
    Okay. It's just hormones and stuff, making you want to get pregnant. I really doubt you're ready to be a mother, and to put the next 18 years of your life into raising a child. You shouldn't really even be having sex at 14. Please don't try to get pregnant. Get yourself through school first.
    If your weight concerns you, work on losing some weight.
  • sjalan 2012/08/21 07:15:42
    Undecided
    sjalan
    +3
    Go on a diet and go on the pill. You don't need to be pregnant at your age.
  • Red_Horse 2012/08/21 05:50:16
  • Matt M 2012/08/21 04:07:41
    Undecided
    Matt  M
    +3
    1) Lose weight. It's not healthy in any case.
    2) Explain your feelings to your parents. So they can put you in a cloistered nunnery.
  • queenygreeny 2012/08/21 02:49:15
    Undecided
    queenygreeny
    +2
    uh so you're 14 turning 15 you are in high school take a parenting class and see if you still want a baby after you learn the hardships of being a mom if you sill want one talk to your parents
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?...
    watch this video before you even before you even think about unprotected sex please think about your parents your peers what your friends say your sibilings will hate you because theyll be known as the whores sister okay well f***k what people say think about what your parents theyll be so ashameed theyll think they raised you wrong and theres
    about a 50% chance he'll ditch you with child mid through pregnancy so you cant do any thing about it oh and also read this pregnancy thing to sorry for the article but this such a serious matter pleas dont get pregnant in your teens
  • queenyg... queenyg... 2012/08/21 02:50:25
    queenygreeny
    heres the prengnacy poll thingy http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/...
  • rhirhi 2012/08/21 02:32:42
  • Alex 2012/08/21 02:27:52
    im not sure!!!!!
    Alex
    +4
    Don't get pregnant is all I can tell you. No matter how cute and adorable a baby is, you'll end up regretting it in the long run when you're trying to balance a baby, a job, and school. And it's really not fair to your parents. They're already raising you and any siblings you may have. Do you really want to saddle them with your child while you're gone to work or school?

    Wait a few years, get a proper education, meet a nice guy and get a stable job before you even think of having kids. That's my advice to you.
  • Ashley Strickland 2012/08/21 01:34:36
    Undecided
    Ashley Strickland
    +4
    you really want to to pregnant? since youre 15 im guessing you have no job. who's going to pay for the baby? i doubt youre financially stable to care for a child by yourself and do you really think thats fair for the baby? you do understand doctor visits, baby supplys cost money...A LOT of money! next time dont think about yourself and what YOU want. do whats best for you b/c obviously you dont care about the baby, just having one.
  • boss hawg 2012/08/21 00:18:36
    Undecided
    boss hawg
    +3
    do you know how much f'n diapers cost? who's gonna raise the kid? your mother. you're a still a kid. dang, you better try to graduate high school first.
  • KarenInKenoshaWisconsin 2012/08/20 23:47:11
    Undecided
    KarenInKenoshaWisconsin
    +1
    Do you mean you want to get pregnant eventually or now? If you mean eventually then eat unprocessed foods but a balanced diet, exercise and take care of your life (education, job, ability to prioritize and carry your weight figuratively). The rest tends to fall in place when you're ready ... if you decide to make it that way.

    You're not ready. Stop worrying, it's just suffering in advance and more than half of what you imagine probably isn't going to be the way it turns out anyway.
  • gizzibag 2012/08/20 23:02:23
    im not sure!!!!!
    gizzibag
    +2
    go to school and get an education and wait till you can take care of a child b4 u go get pregnant
  • Undecided
    Pixie·ŸŸMzAwesome♠ƤĦĂĔŢ♠
    +3
    Grow up
  • BUCCANEER~POTL~PWCM~JLA 2012/08/20 21:19:07
    Undecided
    BUCCANEER~POTL~PWCM~JLA
    +2
    Troll much,do you?
  • SlaveWaterNymph 2012/08/20 21:09:49
    Undecided
    SlaveWaterNymph
    +3
    hm im not sure if this is true or you are just making a prank or whatever children do these days. But if this is true, seriously you need to focus on school and not have children. And if you are overweight and dont like it, change your diet, and exercise more. All im going there with this.
  • pooponwalls 2012/08/20 20:53:45 (edited)
    Undecided
    pooponwalls
    +3
    yeahhh you shouldn't get prego don't rush your life slowly look and LEARN about what makes you happy and HEALTHY cuz that would be best for you your future baby and your future man!
  • Alexander T Steward 2012/08/20 20:47:52
    Im Not Sure Help!
    Alexander T Steward
    +1
    Find yourself a chubby chaser and shake what your momma gave ya!
  • queenyg... Alexand... 2012/08/21 02:11:58
  • Anna 2012/08/20 19:50:54
    Undecided
    Anna
    +5
    Get spayed.
  • Jorge Enriquez 2012/08/20 19:46:31
    Undecided
    Jorge Enriquez
    +3
    lost weight and after that look for mental help, sorry, why pregnant now???
  • wildcat 2012/08/20 19:43:04
    Undecided
    wildcat
    +3
    Are you sure you want to do that? Are you really sure? Start with a puppy first. Learn to take care of a puppy all by yourself and then see how you feel.
  • Debs wildcat 2012/08/21 21:33:50
    Debs
    +2
    Poor puppy :((
  • Anonymouse BN-0 ~bibbityboo~ 2012/08/20 19:31:37
    Undecided
    Anonymouse BN-0 ~bibbityboo~
  • InoYamanaka 2012/08/20 19:31:34
    Undecided
    InoYamanaka
    +2
    You can volunteer at group homes, daycares, I think elementary schools. They could really use a motherly figure to help out.
  • *SqU!R@L QuE3N* 2012/08/20 19:08:19
    Undecided
    *SqU!R@L QuE3N*
    +3
    umm i think you should wait at least till your 18 years old 15 is too young. 16 was too young for me to get pregnant i would tell you to wait.
  • rebecca *SqU!R@... 2012/08/30 01:14:56
    rebecca
    really you did
  • *SqU!R@... rebecca 2012/08/30 19:06:55
    *SqU!R@L QuE3N*
    really 16 i got pregnant i was still a kid. i didnt know what to do. i was too young. im still young right now but i think im more mature now that im going to be 20 years old.
  • Debs 2012/08/20 18:51:54
    Undecided
    Debs
    +3
    Why !!??
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