If your parents forced you to get married with a person who you don't love, what would you do in this situation?

by Raghunath Roy Choudhury Posted 2012/06/24 19:32:55

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BritPunk 2012/06/24 19:53:51

don't know

+7
Stupid choices
Forced (not arranged) marriages are a HUGE problem here in UK esp in the Pakistani Muslim community.

Girls raped by their cousins from the "home country" being
chased down by taxi cab bounty hunters so they can be "honour" killed for running away is disgusting.

Why don't you have the courage to put an other option?
Do you really think no-one else knows about this ?

YOU SICKEN ME WITH YOUR IGNORANCE
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Amelia 2012/06/25 16:57:46

no idea

SAME ANSWER CHOICES>>>>
*crickets
I would run away :)

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waternymphxD 2012/06/25 14:29:49

don't know

Why are the two options you gave the very same?:-$ that's just stupid. I'm not even going to bother answering with an educated answer.

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India 2012/06/25 13:16:11

no idea

i'll run away

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Vision of Verve 2012/06/25 13:08:35
Arianne 2012/06/25 09:45:03

don't know

You need better options because I know what I would do.

Tell them its my life, my choise, my marriage. And they get no F**king say in it.

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carrotcat 2012/06/25 04:51:19

don't know

I would run away

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narla 2012/06/25 01:22:59

don't know

I would not be forced to marry someone I didn't love I would tell my parents to get a life because forcing me to marry someone I don't even love Isn't going to give you a life.

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Ashlyn<3 2012/06/25 00:54:20

don't know

Why are the options like this? I do know. I would not ever be forced to marry anyone I don't want to marry.

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Scott (o)(o) 2012/06/25 00:54:15

no idea

Don't Know and No Idea ... Really ??? I know exactly what I would do !!!!! if the bitch was hot I'd marry her if she was ugly I'd take her fishing (boating accidents happen all the time )

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die Küss der Tod 2012/06/25 00:39:05

no idea

+1
First of all, there's no "forcing" me to marry someone I don't love. It wouldn't happen. Even if you held me at gun-point I wouldn't do it. I'd find a way out of it no matter what.

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Scooter 2012/06/25 00:38:12 (edited)

no idea

I'd hurry up and elope with someone I did love.

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Helmholtz 2012/06/24 23:19:26

don't know

Depending on the culture, try to learn to love her.

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Mandy 2012/06/24 23:07:46

don't know

+1
I'd probably run away.

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Nikki 2012/06/24 22:19:52

no idea

+1
where's the other option for this question.... i couldn't be forced to do something like that...

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ColourfulxRain 2012/06/24 22:12:46 (edited)

don't know

+1
Nothing. Because I would NEVER be forced into that. Parents who do that clearly aren't very caring parents and I would be better off without them.

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Lady Whitewolf 2012/06/24 21:06:01

no idea

+3
LEAVE

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justnotsaying (: 2012/06/24 20:55:16

don't know

+2
I would leave, and wouldn't care about being disowned.

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Jada_Ringo 2012/06/24 20:30:05

don't know

+2
be disowned.

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TuringsChild 2012/06/24 20:16:24

don't know

It really depends on WHY they want you married. If it's political, tell them to forget it. If you got her preggers, man up and marry her. if it's some Muslim nut job talking about their 'honor', leave the country. Fast.

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ServantOfAllah 2012/06/24 20:14:35

no idea

+2
get a divorce

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Doreen 2012/06/24 19:55:32

don't know

What country will I be living in for this scenario? In the US I would just say no and leave and same with most European countries. If I was in a country were the woman has no say in the matter I would kill myself.

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BritPunk 2012/06/24 19:53:51

don't know

+7
Stupid choices
Forced (not arranged) marriages are a HUGE problem here in UK esp in the Pakistani Muslim community.

Girls raped by their cousins from the "home country" being
chased down by taxi cab bounty hunters so they can be "honour" killed for running away is disgusting.

Why don't you have the courage to put an other option?
Do you really think no-one else knows about this ?

YOU SICKEN ME WITH YOUR IGNORANCE

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Vijay Pawar 2012/06/24 19:52:27

no idea

If in love I will retaliate or see the girl,

if a cool cat love her after marriage.

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Kibbles 2012/06/24 19:41:48

don't know

I know but you didn't give me the choice. Simply put I would not do it. THey can't make me at this point.

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jgh57 2012/06/24 19:39:50

don't know

+2
Sure I know. Why is that not a choice? IT WOULD NOT HAPPEN.

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BritPunk to jgh57 2012/06/24 19:55:01

+2
Because he assumes we are ignorant.

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BloodlessVeins 2012/06/24 19:39:00

don't know

Run the hell away- and UH UH I DON'T THINK SO!

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Heavy 2012/06/24 19:35:33
Lady Wh... to Heavy 2012/06/24 21:06:57

exactly

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Jack's Pearl 2012/06/24 19:35:08

don't know

My parents would never do this to me, so I honestly don't know. I don't know all that goes into it. For instance cultural pressure, family pressure etc.... I would like to think I'd do what I wish and marry who I love. I would either have to trust my parents to come around or they wouldn't. But marriage is so important and too big to leave up to your family. You have to love who you marry or it's not worth it to me.

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Tropiceagle33 2012/06/24 19:34:15

don't know

that will never happen

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