If you have never been invited to a party and don't know many people, does that make you a loser?

by Keely Posted 2012/08/12 11:24:57

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	Yes	5 votes	11%
	No	40 votes	89%

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greendayfan 2012/08/14 22:10:36

No

id say no because they might not be people you would think about hanging out with but you could always end up being friends after the party

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capoeirakid 2012/08/12 17:43:46

No

by that standard, most babies are losers, most animals are losers, all inanimate objects are losers, plants are losers, ideas are losers, the list goes on and on.

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janice.heartbriggs 2012/08/12 17:18:43

Yes

surely such a person does not exist but if they do they should get a life

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Keely to janice.... 2012/08/13 12:21:10

+1
I have never been invited to a party, and I have only a few friends. But what I do have is more of a life then you will ever have.

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jody.cotton3 2012/08/12 16:29:07

No

not at all,,,you got invited right,,,so your the winner,,,

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★earthbound_misfit★ 2012/08/12 15:51:36

No

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I'm the same way, and I'm not a loser...oh wait, I am. But it doesn't automatically make you a loser. Some people are just more introverted.

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Chris 2012/08/12 15:29:08

No

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Its childish to use such labels to describe people, we're all just people living life trying to figure out our own path in this world for the short time we're here.

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Badgerbumface 2012/08/12 15:12:42

No

Nope. I define the losers as the ones who so desperately fight to be popular that they have to make others feel terrible by making them feel 'left out'. So long as you have a group of close friends and an optimistic view on life, then no-one can call you a loser.

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john doe 2012/08/12 15:07:18

No

Party's are full of impressionable extroverted morons, you should be glad you don't identify with them.

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Tracie Richards 2012/08/12 15:03:23

No

It does, however, make you one of the people with the best opportunity to meet the most new people and have the most fresh viewpoints.

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Lina Al-alami 2012/08/12 15:02:58

No

ofc not ... no one is loser except how think that he's a loser

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die Küss der Tod 2012/08/12 14:56:54

No

+1
You're only a loser if you think you are.

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terrabytes 2012/08/12 14:50:15

No

+1
What you describe is not my definition of a loser

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mikeeonly 2012/08/12 13:50:48

No

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everyone is different. That is something a lot of people on here do not understand. I do get invited, but I'm usually not that comfortable. Does that make me a loser?

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luigi1- in god we trust 2012/08/12 13:32:16 (edited)

No

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At my last class reunion, all the losers, nerds & socially challenged that didn't belong to any cliques have gone on to be some of the most sucessful of their class.

The most likely to suceed & most popular turned out to be mostly duds.

I was one of the nerd rejects. I don't miss those days or that bunch one iota. I was urged to attend one of these reunions I had always passed up. I believe they wanted to see if I was still that same loser.

Many won't speak to me to this day out of envy over my sucess & their failures.

I was rejected then...I'm rejected today by that very same clique. Good riddance to the whole bloody lot, I say.

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FunnyLittleNightmare 2012/08/12 13:28:30

No

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You got an invite didn't you? I never know anyone at parties lol. Maybe i am a loser. I just don't like people.

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memebev1 2012/08/12 12:59:11

Yes

Pretty much. LOL

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(●̮̮̃•̃)(͡๏̯͡๏)(•̪●)Winches... 2012/08/12 12:47:48

No

+2
Nope they just don't deserves my attention xD

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Kat 2012/08/12 12:29:49

No

+3
Not at all. Nobody can make you a loser but you.

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All American 2012/08/12 12:22:04

No

+1
You wouldn't have been invited if you were a loser.

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The River Rat 2012/08/12 12:08:46

No

+5
Only your own attitude can make you a loser.

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shadow76 2012/08/12 11:58:31

No

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Actually it makes you a winner! There is more to life than parties. You have more real fun if you are not sleeping off hangovers or waking up with strangers.

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john doe to shadow76 2012/08/12 15:12:22

sounds like someone was a little promiscuous back in the day.

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shadow76 to john doe 2012/08/12 16:08:15

No just seen too many go the wrong way when partying becomes the only thing.

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sglmom 2012/08/12 11:48:27

No

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Quite Frankly ..
that is the definition of a person who is comfortable with, and proud of whom they are ..
for they do NOT need a 'crowd' to find validation ..
(or self-worth) ..

A quiet .. considerate life ..
with a few good friends ..
someone who is confident, sees themselves in a good light ..
is happy with the person they now are ..
is the best way to LIVE LIFE ..

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terrabytes to sglmom 2012/08/12 14:49:08

+1
Amen, very well said

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.: LiVi :. 2012/08/12 11:42:19

No

+3
You are defined by what you think you are

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Heathen 2012/08/12 11:29:30

No

+1
Hel, most of the time I made the party my own, if you know what I mean. Though I generally don't go to parties nowadays.

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CCRNRT 2012/08/12 11:26:08

No

+5
you are only a loser if you choose to be a loser

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