If you found out your spouse was cheating on you, where would you direct your anger?

by Unmistakably Liz Posted 2009/11/26 12:25:42

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	My Spouse
	His/Her Lover
	Yourself.
	My spouse and his/her Lover
	My spouse and myself
	His/her lover and myself
	I would not be angry at all.. I would be relieved.

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	My Spouse	14 votes	41%
	His/Her Lover	1 vote	3%
	Yourself.	2 votes	6%
	My spouse and his/her Lover	11 votes	32%
	My spouse and myself	1 vote	3%
	His/her lover and myself	0 votes	0%
	I would not be angry at all.. I would be relieved.	5 votes	15%

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third 2009/11/26 18:09:58

My Spouse

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thats the one thats doing the cheating
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kitty 2009/12/02 06:48:13

My Spouse

if there is no loyalty there is nothing what is nger going to do..........trow him in the garbage and move on. shit is not worth my emmotions.

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GLaDOS 2009/12/01 06:19:59 (edited)

My spouse and his/her Lover

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And yet so many of these people claim not to be jealous? Right..haha.

I'd probably scare the living shit out of her (I'm good at that), and then tell him if he ever even THOUGHT about getting with another woman, I would eviscerate him...then I'd probably smile and tell him that I loved him, and to get his ass in the shower, wash the whore's stank off of him, then to get his ass on the couch, cause he's banished from the bedroom until I've calmed down.

I'd make sure that he got tested before he even considered kissing me again.

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that0neguy 2009/12/01 06:09:45

My Spouse

+1
Been there, done that. I just ended things swiftly and didn't deal with it after that.

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kevracer 2009/11/30 18:03:36

My Spouse

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Eyebrowz² 2009/11/30 01:15:32

My Spouse

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Honestly, I'd slap the crap out of him, then kick him out! I don't play that, if he cheats he's GONE.

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SouthernB 2009/11/29 03:22:53

My spouse and his/her Lover

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But 90% toward my spouse. It would have been her decision to destroy the trust in our relationship. I would not actually react in anger, though I would be very, very angry. I think the emotions of hurt, sadness, and loss would overwhelm the anger.

The trust, once it's lost in such a way, can never be fully recovered.

I would leave. Our relationship would be over.

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TheReverend 2009/11/29 00:21:11

I would not be angry at all.. I would be relieved.

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The sooner you get comfortable with the fact that you're spouse WILL cheat on you, the better off you'll be. I expect that it's happening. That's why I'm either single or in an open relationship where it's ok. I have absolutely no faith in monogamous relationships. They're a nice idea, but unrealistic

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BitterCinderella 2009/11/28 13:07:18

My spouse and his/her Lover

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I'd tear that bastard and bitch apart.

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phoenix.ovid 2009/11/28 01:37:28

His/Her Lover

+1
I'd be even more pissed if I found out he was disrespecting me by sitting on my bike. My ol' lady can do what she wants but I don't get disrespected by any dude.

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brittney paige 2009/11/27 18:16:36

My spouse and his/her Lover

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i would be soooo pissed.. i'd prolly end up in the slammer. like that country song, but it would be papa and his little skank in the graveyard and mama in jail

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carlton999 2009/11/27 10:01:26

My Spouse

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my anger would be directed toward her. she's married to me and we should be loyal to one another. its not the other guys fault that she's cheating.

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Christopher.Paul.Colfer<3 2009/11/27 01:27:39

My spouse and his/her Lover

+1
i would find a good lawyer. so much for forever and always

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Chrissy592 2009/11/26 21:28:32

Yourself.

+1
I would direct all the anger at myself because I know how am I.

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Pet Rock Whisperer 2009/11/26 21:05:19

My spouse and his/her Lover

+2
I got angry, but I didn't lose my cool. She was stupid. Mistook my niceness for weakness, and found herself on the outside looking in, forever. And she's still plenty bitter over me holding her accountable for her actions. Booting her was the best thing I could do for our kids. They turned out great because she was out of the picture for the most part.

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Robert 2009/11/26 20:08:10

Yourself.

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I think so, but it doesn't mean I won't change my opinion if it actuly hapens

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Katherine the Renaissance W... 2009/11/26 19:15:39

My Spouse

+1
He'd have been manipulating my trust and assets. Had he really not been selfish, he would have left me for her. But instead, he wanted us both, if not for my riches or for the fact he knew I'd always fawn over him.

I'd rather him leave me than be a coward and try to have us both.

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Nick~believe ^MOTOOP^ 2009/11/26 19:09:56

My spouse and his/her Lover

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And after I had finished directing my anger, I would find a competent lawyer. I do not consider there to be a relationship any longer once one party has left it.

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Moderated 2009/11/26 19:03:26 (edited)

My Spouse

+3
On his dirty rotten ass. Unfortunately, he has a very nice gun and knife collection. I know how to use them all.

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fairief... to Moderated 2009/11/26 19:08:21

+3
Knives are perfect for neutering^_^

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Moderated to fairief... 2009/11/26 19:13:33

+2
Why yesh, they are. muwahahahahhahaha!!!

Seriously, I'd prolly put his dirty ass out on the street.

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fairief... to Moderated 2009/11/26 20:13:54

+2
Same here.

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fairiefang -annoying fashio... 2009/11/26 18:54:20

My Spouse

+3
I think it's stupid when people take their anger out on the other woman/man.

I would kick the guy's ass!

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Moderated to fairief... 2009/11/26 19:04:12

+3
darn tootin....keep that pecker in yo pants boy!

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third 2009/11/26 18:09:58

My Spouse

+4
thats the one thats doing the cheating

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H 2009/11/26 18:01:17

My Spouse

+4
And on his balls.

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Lady Suspicious 2009/11/26 17:46:10

I would not be angry at all.. I would be relieved.

+2
I don't get angry.

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~*AnnA*~ 2009/11/26 17:06:29
Sasssy 2009/11/26 16:37:15

My Spouse

+3
He is to blame.

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erdo sero 2009/11/26 16:29:30

My spouse and his/her Lover

+1
and her lawyer.

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RamblingVoices. 2009/11/26 15:57:52

My spouse and his/her Lover

+2
At his face..then her face..or god forbid his face

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Philo-Publius 2009/11/26 15:39:43

I would not be angry at all.. I would be relieved.

+4
Why be angry? What would that solve?

To quote God, in Her Holy Word:

"Wear it out (the way a three-year-old would do)
Melt it down (you're gonna have to eventually anyway)
The fire trucks are coming up around the bend"

(It's the Buddhist thing to do...)

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Jerry (Iron Priest)☮ R ☮ P ... 2009/11/26 15:23:18

My Spouse

+2
I would have to get a mistress and show her how it feels.

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Philo-P... to ©TransA... 2009/11/26 15:44:37

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Now, remember... that anger can only be fully and finally quenched and alleviated through several therapy sessions involving angry, dirty, 'curse-your-lover's-name-at -the-top-of-your-lungs' 'get-even sex' with Philo-Publius. (Just for future reference). : )

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Dark Demonic™ ★ The Origina... 2009/11/26 13:35:41

I would not be angry at all.. I would be relieved.

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I wouldn't say relieved, I would simply walk away and think no more about it.

If the home we shared was mine originally, then I would pack her stuff up and send her on her way. If it was hers before, then I'd pack up my stuff and leave. I would never waste my time on someone capable of doing that to our relationship. If they've done it once, they can do it twice. I would not trust them again, so completely and for a relationship to last, there must be complete trust.

I would remove everything that reminds me of them or our relationship and move on with my life. :o)

Except, in my case, it would be "Kiss her Goodbye!" lol

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Chancy99: Plague Rat 2009/11/26 12:42:22

I would not be angry at all.. I would be relieved.

+3
I wouldn't Be Relieved, I'd Be Upset, But I'd Make Sure The Relationship Ended with me and my partner.

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