If somebody say you look ugly, how do you feel and what do you do?

by jt Posted 2010/01/21 01:44:24

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Feria~THEZombieSlayingB!tch... 2010/01/21 01:54:21

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Laugh. Say: "I'm sorry hun, you've seemed to mistaken me for a mirror."
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JBousaid 2010/01/21 03:38:29

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I may feel a little hurt, I may tell them same to you

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야만다 ♥ AMANDA 2010/01/21 03:30:22

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"HEY I WAS BORN THIS WAY! DON'T JUDGE."

If people can use that exscuse for lots of things, I should use be able you use that for being ugly.

Or I'd agree. haha. It wouldn't hurt me. Because I already know.

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no name 2010/01/21 03:25:07

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I don't care much what other people think, but would be appalled by such lack of manners! Perhaps, I would say "Oh good - then it worked" Just something to throw them off balance
;-)

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BabyKitten 2010/01/21 03:18:01

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Laugh in their face!!! Their opinion of me matters not.

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Alicia to BabyKitten 2010/01/21 06:10:29

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FREED J... to Alicia 2010/01/21 17:38:04

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LOVE your response!

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TexanInHawaii 2010/01/21 03:06:02 (edited)

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Just smile and give them a sincere "Thankyou", it'll confuse them...then blow it off, in the long run it really doesn't matter what others think. There is no need to worry over something you cannot control (their comments), and they're not worth it.

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nltsierra to TexanIn... 2010/01/22 00:44:37

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No way you would say "Ahhh Bless your heart!!! " LMFAO!!!!

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TexanIn... to nltsierra 2010/01/22 05:06:24

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LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!! YOU know I would!!

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Damaris 2010/01/21 03:00:34

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i dont say anything i just laugh and walk away

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kimdracula 2010/01/21 03:00:34

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Laugh. This person clearly has a great sense of humor.

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moomoof 2010/01/21 02:54:18

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hmmm i am not going to lie it would hurt but then i would say something vicious back then walk away before i would just keep quiet and that is the best course

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I_heart_Alucard 2010/01/21 02:51:42

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Put on my funniest face and in a stupid voice "Tank you, ash hole!"

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driley 2010/01/21 02:51:05

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I'm not going to pretend it doesn't hurt. The more the person means to me the more it hurts, I'm afraid.

Eventually I remind myself that - even if it is true - I'd rather work on inner beauty. That's the kind I can keep no matter how unkind time may be to me.

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Alicia to driley 2010/01/21 06:17:44

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But it should not hurt because if you think of the sort of miserable unhappy person who would say a thing like that you should feel sorry for them. It reflects on them not you. Apart from Joan Rivers we are as God made us, we do the best we can with what we have and the sort of shallow person who would make a remark about someone's looks is not worth the time of day and neither is their opinion.

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FREED J... to Alicia 2010/01/21 17:40:35

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True.

But our emotions would most likely respond for that moment before truth would set in. At least for me. A slap in the face hurts. The old adage: Sticks and stones may hurt my bones but words will never hurt me isn't true.

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Alicia to FREED J... 2010/01/21 19:10:49

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That is true but a smile and "God bless" takes the wind out of their sails. I had to perfect this with my mother in law who said things much worse than I was ugly, she actually said she hoped the serial killer on the loose in our area would come when my husband was out of town. She said it in front of the whole family.

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FREED J... to Alicia 2010/01/21 19:12:55

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I agree. A soft answer turns away wrath. Your mother-in-law needs some mental help. Not to mention salvation. I'm sure you're on your knees on her behalf often.

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Alicia to FREED J... 2010/01/21 19:14:56

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Well you know the strange thing is that she ended up being killed many years later in a very questionable manner.

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FREED J... to Alicia 2010/01/21 19:20:52

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Very interesting. We do reap what we sow. If not here, there.

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Friday 2010/01/21 02:49:46

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My feelings would be hurt, so I would write Oprah and ask her to tell me who worked on Michelle!

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Arky in Y'shua 2010/01/21 02:49:16 (edited)

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I just look at them with a smile on my face and say:

For beauty, I know I'm no star;
There's others more handsome by far;
My face? I don't mind it,
Coz I am behind it.
It's you folks out front that get jarred.

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FREED J... to Arky in... 2010/01/21 19:13:27

I like that.

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♥TearsShedInVainxΨρנατσΨ 2010/01/21 02:25:29

I wouldn't care and I would say, "Thank you," sarcastically.

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Dena~In God I trust. 2010/01/21 02:21:39

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Happens alot. it hurts but I ignore it. I'm not pretty. but I sure ain't ugly.

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driley to Dena~In... 2010/01/21 02:53:15

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That's close to what I always say. "I'm no Barbie, but I'm not scary to look at either."

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Sandy to Dena~In... 2010/01/21 03:52:46

Anyone so uncouth as to dis another person for their humanous... needs to spend some time in a prison with real ugly...

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Angelique ~ Pfffft! ;)~ 2010/01/21 02:19:35

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I try to laugh it off and always say, "....And my mama dresses me funny!".....Hahaha!

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Sandy 2010/01/21 02:16:03

Tell them if they are seeing ugly they need help... cause ugly is in the eye of the beholder... then tell them all you see is beauty... everywhere... then point to someone most would consider not attractive and say... now there is real beauty...

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Isabel-Publius 2010/01/21 02:15:03
ubiquitous_tergiversation 2010/01/21 02:08:25

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Laugh because I know I'm not, and they are most likely insecure about their own appearance if they feel the need to attack mine.

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driley to ubiquit... 2010/01/21 02:54:42

So true. Someone who says that, is telling us more about themselves than they are about us.

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suzann 2010/01/21 02:08:10

well i do have very low self esteem so i would get a bit bummed... unless its some one i really hate and they hate me back then id just laugh it off and say something witty back...

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EdwardsSecretPart4 =) 2010/01/21 02:07:27

i look at them and say to them you dont hurt me and walk away

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Dave Sawyer ♥ Child of God ♥ 2010/01/21 02:07:09

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Nothing. It's merely their opinion.

If they said it hoping to hurt me, then why let it?

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Chris Motionless Girl 2010/01/21 02:02:21

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i fight back the tears and walk away hurt..... i been called ugly way to may times so i know how it feels :(

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Alicia to Chris M... 2010/01/21 02:15:18

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Beauty comes from inside. I've known many people who were not great beauties but their personality was so fantastic that everyone wanted to be with them. I've reached the age where the people I know who relied on their looks are now lost and miserable. If anyone calls you ugly it shows the ugliness that is in them not you.

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driley to Alicia 2010/01/21 02:56:37

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What a lovely response, Alecia. You have a beautiful heart.

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Chris M... to Alicia 2010/01/21 15:11:42

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thanks :')

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Alicia to Chris M... 2010/01/21 19:12:13

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Inner beauty shines much brighter than any physical attributes.
God bless you sweetheart.

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