If a someone rejects you, does it make you more attracted to them?

by .: LiVi :. Posted 2012/08/19 11:14:52

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Do you always want what you can't have? Do you find yourself more drawn to someone who rejects you or is hard to get than someone who is available?

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Johnny 2012/12/11 04:06:37

Other

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If she ignores me all the time, I may don't try anymore...and stay a little depressed, maybe x3

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NYYankees 2012/08/19 21:13:31

No

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not really... if someone rejects me its more like alright on to the next one. not gonna waste my time.

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moomoof 2012/08/19 17:24:48

No

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It doesn't it just validates me

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Sister Jean 2012/08/19 15:52:27

No

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no

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die Küss der Tod 2012/08/19 15:28:40

No

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If you treat me poorly, that's the last thing you could do to make me attracted to you. I don't like cruel or mean people. If you make it clear that you don't want me, the last thing I'll want to do is pursue you or even be by you; I'll go and find someone else who does.

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Treasure ♥ijm♥ 2012/08/19 15:00:22

No

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No, if I have been rejected... I just move on....and leave them alone.

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Marianne 2012/08/19 12:27:53

No

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No, not really, I hate to impose myself.
Normally, I will avoid to see people who are rejecting me.
Maybe that this is not always possible, for instance at work, where you can't but keep your distances.

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.: LiVi :. to Marianne 2012/08/19 12:30:53

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So I guess it's difficult for you to remain friends with them?

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Marianne to .: LiVi :. 2012/08/19 12:44:32

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With some, it is not possible.
With others, it works. I left the door open to those who wanted to stay friends.

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.: LiVi :. to Marianne 2012/08/19 12:54:27

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Yes sometimes you can't stay friends with everyone, but if at least some, that's good

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Marianne to .: LiVi :. 2012/08/19 13:08:07

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That's right; some will hate you too much, and there might be things that one can perhaps pardon but not forget.
There is no sense in trying to take a revenge on people who hurt you. It is better to concentrate on real friends.

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.: LiVi :. to Marianne 2012/08/19 13:55:59

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Agreed :)

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Marianne to .: LiVi :. 2012/08/19 14:17:46

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I suppose that you had a very bad experience, and that you could save a friendship?

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.: LiVi :. to Marianne 2012/08/19 14:21:45

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Yes a long time ago I suppose it was quite a bad experience, but there was no friendship to save because we weren't really friends anyway. But I guess you live and learn!

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Marianne to .: LiVi :. 2012/08/19 14:37:51

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Indeed, it depends of the characters. With some, you can state, for instance, that a relationship does not work, but that friendship is still a good alternative. With others, it is better to close the matter: "out of sight, out of mind".

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.: LiVi :. to Marianne 2012/08/19 21:40:38

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Yes that's true! That's a good saying

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Marianne to .: LiVi :. 2012/08/20 04:41:00

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Thank you.

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AM 2012/08/19 11:44:12

No

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Oh good heavens No.I like them less or perhaps differently a better descriptive.It would be foolish to pine for someone who doesn't share the same feelings for you as you for them.Why put any emotion into that ? We all deserve to have someone who cares for us mutually Move on -Be happy If you can salvage a friendship all the better

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.: LiVi :. to AM 2012/08/19 11:49:37

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Yes I agree, it is a waste of time and energy! :)

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Laura Lovegood 2012/08/19 11:30:38
.: LiVi :. to Laura L... 2012/08/19 11:32:20

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Yes I think that's a good reason!

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Laura L... to .: LiVi :. 2012/08/19 11:36:50