I was just wondering why some girls and some women hate gamers geeks/gamer nerds and anime/manga lovers or you can say this way gamers geeks and gamer nerds/anime and manga lovers

i had a well thought out answer but it was too long and hard to explain (it'd have sound confusing uless i say it face to face) so imma try to make it as short as possible.dont show that your "obsessed" with what you always do.make it seem like theres time for her without saying an allusion or insider to an anime/game.if you give her a pet name make sure you didnt get it from like an anime or something(ex.if she goes blank sometimes dont call her space cadet (from friuts basket) even if you may think it cute how she some times act like tohru) because when/if shes begins to really get into you she'll try to like the same things you do then seen all the cute pet names weren't from you (or your heart no matter how cheesy that may sound) it'll just be from your strange fetish.

all the other guy types you mentioned like the buff guy it shows that he likes to take care of his self,it may also show that hes self centered but a girl may not notice that right away. firt thing she'll think is that he looks good obviously and that he can help her stay in shape---i'll be stopping here cause as yu can see its not as short as i hoped but still shorter than what i had in mind describing the types of guys is where it gets tricky there are many loop holes and and different scenarios and of course all girls arnt the same but the majority feel this way...i think lol

and remember this girls tend to like people that seem like they can protect them if something goes wrong,someone who seem like they wont quit,someone with confedence (i mean shy is cute too but some guys are dangerously shy and girls may sometimes step forward to let you know they like you too but if your still shy they'll just give up and go to someone else) and sadly "gamer/manga/anime nerds" tend to be or SEEM at least like most of those

I dont mind them had lots of them for friends in high school. but for most girls/women its not about hateing nerds, games or hobbies it the attitude that comes with. a 25-40 year old that acts as if he was 12 is not attractive. women look for providers and helpers and someone who can make them feel important. not someone who when they get home from work if they even work sit down and for the rest of the evening sit infront of the tv playing games. games the women might not understand because it was never explained and being ignored. think of it this way would you want to be with a women thats hobby is collecting expenive shoes and they have hundreads already they act 15 giggling spending hard earned money on shoes they will discard after 1 year of wareing them if they ware them at all. They are always dragging you along for hours asking your opinion on everything and end up only hearing what they want. then bitching because you dont understand them when you try to tell them you dont need 50 thousand pairs of shoes that cost 100 thousand dollers. first this shows selfishness you cant show someone is important to you when you are always speening money on your self. then it shows you time is more important spent on what you want to do instead of something you can do together. now to keep someone in your heart to love they need your time, money and attention(energy) its that simple. you can win anyone over with these three things the hobby to them would not matter as long as there was a time limt boundry.