I survived through something have you?

Yes ,,, I died for over 20 mins. and they brought me back,,, I will never be like I was, but it's better then being in the cold ground. One thing I will say is that when the lights went out there was only darkness. I was driveing my work truck and the next thing was feeling the cold table at the E.R. There was no out of body experance.

Im surviving every day

I survived thru a bad Hurricane..........

Gun shot to the mouth,bullet landed in my spine..No worse for the wear.

yes I have and I suffer Borderline Personality Disorder which means I could feel or do any of these things.


Fear of being abandoned
Feelings of emptiness and boredom

Frequent displays of inappropriate anger

Impulsiveness with money, substance abuse, sexual relationships, binge eating, or shoplifting

Intolerance of being alone

Repeated crises and acts of self-injury, such as wrist cutting or overdosing
I hate him so much I don't care if people say hate is too strong a word I HATE him.

yeah

I witnessed the exact moment of my father's death. I heard his last breath.

This unstoppable titan of a man I'd known ALL my life reduced by liver cancer to....nothing. Nothing at all....

I can still see everything, and every detail of the room at the hospice...

I am glad that you have friends to help you. Stay strong rhirhi. Life gets a whole lot better.

yes.....

The work week?

pffffffffffffff yahhhhhh like a billion times for real

Yes. Lots of somethings.

Yes, like so many people. Mine include cancer, child abuse & drug addiction.

Good L-rd!

Yeah, that which does not kill us...

I survived the Christchurch earthquake..

yes

Alcoholism.. many of my friends weren't so lucky.

Yes

Yes. My birth father tried to bury me alive when I was 6 weeks old.

Heck yeah, kidney stones and two surgeries to remove them in March ...
and a man who told me he loved me but played every head game in the book
which proved otherwise. He was infatuated with me and it was just a sexual fantasy
to him.

Hi, 'blue. Haven't seen you in a while. Sorry to hear about your health issue. I hope that you are well.

As to the other situation, be brave and keep an open heart and love may find you. Some men do not know their own minds and do not really know what they want, they just think they do. When I was very young I mistook a boyish infatuation for "love". When a man is not honest with himself, honesty to others is impossible. "Maturity" is supposed to cure us of that, but some men never get THERE.

But, listen to me ramble...Hang in there and be strong, kiddo!

Hi Chibi D... did you change your screen name ? I don't remember this name
but I know you. I was on vacation twice recently... 2 separate weeks and just got back
on Friday night. Thanks, that was a horror but thanks to God I am healthy now.
I just took X rays today and no stones ! YAY ! I appreciate your message on love.
I am headed out now for awhile but I will reply to that when I get back in a couple.
Thanks so much for saying hello and for your sweet reply ! Be well. :-)

I just shortened my name a bit. It sounds a little better when ya say it (LOL). I look forward to hearing from you again! Have a good time tonight! Later!

Hi again my friend, what was your full name ? Thanks, I appreciate that.
Ditto. Love sometimes finds you when you least expect it like when you are not looking for it. You are so right when you say that some men don't know their own minds or what they want so they play head games and take a good thing for granted. There is a thin line between infatuation and love and some mistake it. It's so true when you say a man has to be honest with himself to be honest with others. " To thine ownself be true ". I admire that. I agree, some men never mature. It's a real shame how they mess up others in the process. You can ramble on anytime. I am strong. I'm over that a long time ago. Be well my friend. :-)

Thanks! You be well also. As far as names go, I started out as Chibi Denni, But then I shortened it. (I'm going to put a little something in your mailbox, go look). But, as to our topic...yes. It is sad the damage we can cause. I found myself in such a situation and I "went through the motions" of a relationship. I just did what I thought was expected of me. But, like I said, I was very young then.

Hi my friend. I read your mail and HI again !! I know you so well my
friend and it's great to see you again ! I was wondering where you had
been because I didn't see you for awhile. Good to have you back.
Thanks for connecting with me ! We all make mistakes in life. It's those cruel ones who deliberately take advantage of a good lady and play out all their head games at my expense and waste my pretty time that I have a gripe with. I've learned to spot them very well now and I end it before it begins. I'm too nice and too forgiving though and in the end I learn what I already suspected or already knew and that's the kick in the a$$, you know ?
On a good note, I am doing great and I hope you are too. Keep in touch my friend ! I knew it was you by your age and CT. LoL .. :-)

We just haven't had the luck to run into each other, I suppose. Ah, well.
It is great to hear from you again! I hope we meet again soon. Bye-bye for now. =)

Hi sweetie, you are right. Our path just crossed. As always,
I'm happy to see you and chat with you again. We will meet up again. We always seem to. How could we not here on SH ? We seem to frequent the same posts. Talk soon my friend. It was a pleasure ! :-)

^_^

That's sweet my friend. Be well. Talk soon. =)

Cancer, the death of all of my family.

car crash

Several different things that have made me who I am.

a car accident when I was about 3,maybe 4 and what I'm going through now,I'll be able to say I've survived it

i am trying to right now

Yes, something very traumatic to me anyway, and very emotionally damaging. I live with the "why did I let this happens?" everyday I face anxiety attacks on a regular basis and am scared to ever get to close.

hurricane Katrina

Cut my hand halfway off at the wrist working on a window ; I was home alone in the country . bled all over the kitchen floor trying to call for help .