I recently walked in on my boyfriend(now ex), having sex with his ex girlfriend. What should I do? How should I act?

nicki marie 2013/01/22 18:46:26
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I honestly have no idea how to act around them. He lives on the same road as me... So we see each other alot.
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  • OzSurfer 2013/01/26 03:04:16
    That's awful I'm sorry to hear it. If anyone did that to me they'd be my ex instantly. You need to take no excuses from that and move on even if it's very painful. You're a lovely person, you'll find someone much better.
  • nicki m... OzSurfer 2013/01/28 15:23:16
    nicki marie
    Thank you.
  • KaWa 2013/01/23 01:00:50
    You should probably stay out of his room, especially if you hear heavy panting and groaning.
  • Jenna ☮♡ッ 2013/01/23 00:36:25
    Jenna ☮♡ッ
    Don't even acknowledge him. Act like he doesn't exist. Once a cheater always a cheater; I wouldn't recommend ever taking him back.
  • CountryCheerleader 2013/01/22 23:42:31
    Dont pay attention to either of them. Make him feel as bad as possible. Something similar happend to me I walked down the school hall and there they were kissing right by my locker... Like they knew I was gonna be there I walked up to him and im like theres something u need to explain and u need to explain it right now and I punched her in her gut abd took her breath out and said u mess with my man u mess with me and I made him start talkin and hes like im sorry she did it she forced me and im like well ur arms were around her and btw if u havent noticed its over and he was like chasing after me and sayin srry and im like man its over bye. And ive made him feel like sh.. And I act sad when im around him and stuff like that
  • Misha Sapphire 2013/01/22 23:23:37 (edited)
    Misha Sapphire
    Here's my two cents.

    IT IS OVER!!! If he tries to get back with you, you ignore him and find a real person who loves and appreciates you. You deserve better than that idiot.

    If you are young like I, just focus on school and living your life and then maybe that special someone will come along. Keep your head high, guurrrrrrrl.
  • Sue Misha S... 2013/01/23 02:48:04
    You will find someone when you aren't looking! I was divorced for a few years and decided dating wasn't worth it and I would be fine on my own. Then I met a wonderful man and we dated for 3 years and will celebrate our 13th wedding anniversary on the 29th.
  • Misha S... Sue 2013/01/24 00:14:24
    Misha Sapphire
    Oh, that is sweet!
  • on time, again 2013/01/22 22:36:17
    on time, again
    I tell my girl's all the time boy's are bad go study get a great education and wonderful carreer that will be justified punishment for the boy.
  • Karlheinz 2013/01/22 22:24:34
    if that was me seeing him in the bed with his ex, i'll make sure that thing down below never works again.
  • Country... Karlheinz 2013/01/22 23:44:55
    Same here I wouldve walked in with.a shotgun and blew it off
  • Karlheinz Country... 2013/01/23 10:48:44
    lool i think we would off had a murder case, shotguns can shoot up to 5 bullets well i feel very sorry for your ex's.
  • Country... Karlheinz 2013/01/23 14:26:25
    Lol I havent done it before and my shot gun is a 3 shot wich means it can only hold 3 shells each shel only has 1 bullet and I wouldnt litterally shoot it of I would just fire a round to scare them
  • Pearl 2013/01/22 22:06:32
    Look the other way, and hold your head up. So many more nice ones out there.
  • Bob Roberts 2013/01/22 21:55:29
    Bob Roberts
    My answer depends on some other information - for instance, were you ever with him while he was still with her? If so, you got what you deserved. In any case, don't be uncivil but generally ignore him perhaps?
  • seahawk665 2013/01/22 21:00:02
    Break up with him, that's what! This is not acceptable behavior. He is a loser, and you need to dump his sorry butt. You deserve a lot better than that, and you need to find someone who actually cares for you. You're still very young yet, so one day you will find that right person. But this idiot is not him.
  • nicki m... seahawk665 2013/01/24 13:31:58
    nicki marie
    Thank you so much
  • seahawk665 nicki m... 2013/01/25 05:06:48
    No problem! I dislike it so much when these immature little boys think it's ok to mistreat women.
  • Lady Serena 2013/01/22 20:50:15
    Lady Serena
    In the words of Madea: "Before or after we kill him?"
    In all honesty though, humiliation in any form always works. Any dirt, pictures, or any embarrasing info you have on him. You should know what to do ^_~
  • Misha S... Lady Se... 2013/01/22 23:16:40
    Misha Sapphire
    Oh, so she could just have more drama?
    That's pathetic advice.
  • Lady Se... Misha S... 2013/01/22 23:30:05
    Lady Serena
    Excuse me new girl, but nobody hit YOUR buzzer. Who said she "had" to follow my advice? She did ask "What should I do? How should I act?". So I answered.
    Now put on your big girl panties and stfu ^_^
  • Misha S... Lady Se... 2013/01/23 00:25:18
    Misha Sapphire
    Did you really just say new girl?
    Actually I am not new, I just lost my account so I got a new one.
    BUT I do apologize for being rude (=^.^=)
    But what the hell are big girl panties?
  • Lady Se... Misha S... 2013/01/23 00:30:34
    Lady Serena
    No prob, apology accepted ^_^
    It's a term, meaning (in this case) don't try to be rude, just give polite, grown woman answers. But hey, what's done is done, I apologize for calling you "new girl".
  • Misha S... Lady Se... 2013/01/24 00:15:53
    Misha Sapphire
    Lol it's okay.
  • naked_and_barefoot N.I.T. 2013/01/22 20:39:27
    naked_and_barefoot N.I.T.
    So, your Ex preferred his Ex over you. Ignore both the pigs and let them wallow in their own slop. Burn that bridge and never look back. Let your girlfriends know and spread the word so no upstanding girl will ever date him again.

    Revenge is a dish best served cold !

  • Cher 2013/01/22 20:36:44
    Hold your head high girl you did nothing and just right his ass off..
  • nicki m... Cher 2013/01/22 20:43:40
    nicki marie
    Thank you!
  • Mike 2013/01/22 20:21:23
    Just glare at him, or make cutting remarks
  • Mike 2013/01/22 20:20:03
    Well you did right by "Ex-ing" him !

    Just try to ignore the assh-le!
  • Drummerboy 2013/01/22 20:18:34 (edited)
  • nicki m... Drummerboy 2013/01/22 20:38:02
    nicki marie
    Thank you. That seems so insufficient.. But it's all I can come up with. This put in tears while I was reading this.
  • Drummerboy nicki m... 2013/01/22 20:39:53
  • AmberBug! :) 2013/01/22 20:11:50
    AmberBug! :)
    I think you should just move on! If he has the decency to cheat on you while you guys are/were together then he doesn't deserve you! You know the saying, "Everything happens for a reason?" Well he cheated on you and God wants you to find better. And you will! Just give it time. I've been through this my whole life til I found the right one and now that I did I thank God everyday for putting me through what he did. You may not see it right away, but you will. Just give it time! And think you yourself, "I dated him?" You'll feel much better realizing he's outta your life.
  • John 2013/01/22 19:38:52
    So did you just happen to walk into his house and see him having sex or were they doing on the front lawn? Just wondering.

    Also, he is your ex boyfriend. He is going to have sex as often as possible. if you keep walking into his house you will see it again. Don't act like anything. Move on like he did.
  • Drummerboy John 2013/01/22 20:19:40
  • John Drummerboy 2013/01/22 22:17:13
    Chill man, I was just messing with her. This is just SH
  • Drummerboy John 2013/01/22 22:29:30 (edited)
  • nicki m... John 2013/01/22 20:39:52
    nicki marie
    He was my boyfriend when I went up there. I dumped him when I found them. I found him on top of her in his bedroom. I had been staying there at nights.
  • kells 2013/01/22 19:26:52 (edited)
    Normal we know people get it on. If you have a boyfriend if not get one or not then get some and be happy too! Why should other people have all the fun.
  • Aloria kells 2013/01/22 19:31:11
    res ipsa loquitor,Joker....

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