I just lost my best friend:(

by Whitney Kendall Posted 2012/07/22 18:20:21

Related Topics: Lost, Friend, Phone, Call

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My best friend who is supposed to be there for me... just stabbed me in the back :( i just got off the phone with her and she screamed at me " When you realize that you need me and that you have no body else there for you like i am then call me Whitney Nicole Kendall".... now i don't know what to do.... she was never a real friend and i told her how i felt...

Linnster 2012/07/22 18:34:44 (edited)

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In one breath you say you lost your best friend and in the next you say she was never a real friend. Can't have it both ways, girl. And, you post it in the fun and humor section. Hard to take this seriously. Sorry.
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shellyBlink182ToMark17 2012/08/18 20:40:43

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i just lost my best friends its been a week now. i know it sucks but maybe its for the best kept ur head up

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La 2012/08/12 12:23:25

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Um.....so she feels like she is there for you, and you feel like she's not even a real friend, but you consider her your best friend? Weird. Well if you want her back, apologise.

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Debs 2012/07/23 13:31:17

+2
Supposed to be there for you...friendship is a two way street !! life isnt a playground !

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Me 2012/07/23 01:44:44

+3
move on

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John Hall 2012/07/23 00:14:31

+2
You move on and find other friends .

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Artisan Rose ☽✪☾☥ 2012/07/22 22:17:58

+2
"My best friend"
"She was never a real friend"
Make up your damn mind.

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Whitney... to Artisan... 2012/07/22 23:02:35

make me:P

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Bearish 2012/07/22 22:09:29

+2
Get a Goldfish..

They are good listeners and don't care how silly things get

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Whitney... to Bearish 2012/07/22 22:11:04

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i had a gold fish but i forgot to feed it!! o.o

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CatPerson 2012/07/22 21:33:01

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I feel like that all the time, I mean i lose friends very often and i can really say it's not my fault because i am just different than anyone else who is my age in my town. If you ever need someone to cheer you up, you can have me.

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Todd 2012/07/22 21:18:12
Sintwa 2012/07/22 21:01:25

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Get over it. It sounds harsh but trust me in a few years you will barely think of her again. It's all just drama. Maybe you did something to upset her too? Just think it through for now but you have more important things to think about and I wouldn't get hung up over it.

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**StarzAbove** 2012/07/22 20:24:39

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You're better off without that kind of a friend. That happened to me recently here on SH. A person who always told me she'd be there for me, no matter what, that she valued my friendship. Evidently she lied. Well her words were false, she took something I said out of context, got mad, defriended me and blocked me. But it's her loss, with those kinds of friends who needs enemies. One less back stabber in my life.

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Ani 2012/07/22 19:38:46

+2
same going in my life too :(

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Lycaste skinneri 2012/07/22 19:34:47

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My friend died a few months ago; that's losing a friend. Please face it, if she/he stabbed you in the back then she/he wasn't your friend.

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me being me 2012/07/22 19:15:58

+2
Then ur better off without her.

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'Zedd 2012/07/22 19:07:07
tHeNeWpAiN 2012/07/22 19:05:06

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something i wrote but i think it wont make sence.: A Dream of you Holding my Hand Running through a Field full of Flowers, A Nightmare of you Twisting my Arm Pushing me into a Pit full of Rocks....

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Whitney... to tHeNeWpAiN 2012/07/22 19:21:52

i like it.

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tHeNeWpAiN to Whitney... 2012/07/23 00:49:57

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thanks. :) be hoppy (happy) :)

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tHeNeWpAiN to Whitney... 2012/07/23 00:53:34

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practually i lost a friend too...but to think about it shes never been a friend at all...(exuse me for my language) but a bitch...i moved on and found a WAY better friend (kind-a)...

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♥☯ ʂıoвнaп ☮♥ 2012/07/22 18:58:09

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Trust me, I know exactly how you feel, and I know that you want her back as a friend. But honestly, if she really is going to be rude like that and then tell you that you need her, don't give her the satisfaction of trying to get her back. She has proven that she isn't worth your time. After all, it's her loss, not yours.

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XQNP 2012/07/22 18:53:48

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Find a new one. A better one. One that you can be happier with in the long term. And, if through some ridiculous coincidence, they happen to stab you in the back, find an even better one. It'll all be fine in the end.

And besides, if someone stabs you in the back, they obviously don't know you well enough to do otherwise, and so lack the understanding to truly hurt you.

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Cameryn 2012/07/22 18:46:19

+2
Who needs friends? Make friends with yourself.

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Whitney... to Cameryn 2012/07/22 18:50:51

I NEED FRIENDS!!!!!!! IM INSECURE WITHOUT ANYBODY THERE TO TALK TO!!!!!!!!!

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Cameryn to Whitney... 2012/07/22 23:33:57

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Well, then that's your problem. Sometimes it's better to just keep things to yourself and not tell people.

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Whitney... to Cameryn 2012/07/22 23:38:54

and sometimes it's better to just shut up instead of making that person feel worse than they already feel:P

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Artisan... to Whitney... 2012/08/12 14:12:14

Wow, way to be ungrateful.

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Whitney... to Artisan... 2012/08/15 14:02:34
Artisan... to Whitney... 2012/08/16 00:54:45

Someone gives you advice and you tell them to shut up that's being ungrateful

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Whitney... to Artisan... 2012/08/16 22:40:05

shes the one that said "that's your problem" how do you think that makes me feel??? not very good and no thats not being ungrateful thank you very much i just stated my opinion:P

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Artisan... to Whitney... 2012/08/17 01:39:29

It is your problem, not theirs. you don't need to be over sensitive about it.

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Whitney... to Artisan... 2012/08/18 20:37:44

im not being overly sensitive at all..... honestly i dont care...... I was just saying so how about you leave me the hell alone!!

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Artisan... to Whitney... 2012/08/18 23:46:44

fine then. I'll exit nicely without being a drama queen.

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Whitney... to Artisan... 2012/08/19 22:17:47

Thank You :P

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SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 2012/07/22 18:42:25

+1
:O "best friends" will do that to you -_- don't trust alot of people DX

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Whitney... to SebaThe... 2012/07/22 18:43:54

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thats the reason its so upsetting... i had a bad past and i dont trust anyone anymore... she knows what i been through and i trusted her and she let me down!!!

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SebaThe... to Whitney... 2012/07/22 18:51:35 (edited)

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i know what you mean :/ people are like that, but trust me, karma always screws the other person up, thats why i dont fight or do anything stupid, because in the past ive done stupid stuff and then it happened to me XD so i learned my lesson, for the most part :P

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Whitney... to SebaThe... 2012/07/22 18:54:10

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she just left a long voice mail on my phone apologizing:/ im not convinced:P

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SebaThe... to Whitney... 2012/07/22 18:55:05

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LOL dont be, when people do that there just going to screw you over again....but you never know :P but for the most part they will do it again. let some time pass...then think of talking to them again, like a breakup XD

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