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I find it very sad that some people think they have found true love on Sodahead. And then in a couple of weeks they find another true love here on Sodahead. How many times are they willing to go through all that?

**StarzAbove** 2012/08/08 18:53:21
This poll is not meant to chastise or accuse anyone, just a note of caution, but if it keeps just one person from heartbreak, then it's well worth it.

Are people that desperate or that lonely or do they truly believe it? Why are they willing to let themselves be hurt over and over again? Care to comment?


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  • Fun-Betty 2012/08/08 22:09:55
    Fun-Betty
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    Internet true love does not exists. Fantasies exists. One never knows what's behind the screen. As far as anyone knows I am a sexy redheaded that lives in a pretty Pink square. For anyone to think coming here on SH to find true love... well it just wont happen.
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  • Melizmatic 2012/08/08 20:03:53
    Melizmatic
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    I don't find it "sad."

    Anyone who participates on a website like this usually goes into it knowing that a good chunk of what most people post is just 'wishful thinking.'

    I think that the internet can be a good venue for meeting new people whom one would otherwise never encounter, and that's awesome.

    At the same time, I realize that REAL love takes a lot of work, time, energy communication and compromise.

    All that can't be accomplished via mere fiber-optic cables, IMO.

    Face to face interaction is an irreplaceable necessity for forming real, long lasting bonds with another person.
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  • **Starz... Melizmatic 2012/08/08 21:02:03
    **StarzAbove**
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    My sentiments exactly. But some people believe all the fantasy and end up getting hurt, just saying. And that's sad to me.
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  • Rick **Starz... 2012/08/08 21:08:53
    Rick
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    Yep. It happens.
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  • **Starz... Rick 2012/08/08 21:10:12
    **StarzAbove**
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    It sure does. How you doing, good looking?
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  • Rick **Starz... 2012/08/08 21:11:40
    Rick
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    Doing alright. I have pre-testing for surgery tomorrow. I was on my way to your page to flirt. LOL
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  • **Starz... Rick 2012/08/08 21:56:14 (edited)
    **StarzAbove**
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    Don't let me stop you. lol

    I hope the surgery goes great and you'll be pain free. You've had enough pain in your lifetime.
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  • littleb... Melizmatic 2012/08/08 21:11:55
    littlebuffalo55TBA
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    Well thought out Melz!
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  • Jdogg 2012/08/08 19:54:16
    Jdogg
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    If I want to meet someone I think I would go out in the real world and fine some one
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  • **Starz... Jdogg 2012/08/08 21:02:18
    **StarzAbove**
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    Right, a real person.
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  • Jerry 2012/08/08 19:51:19
    Jerry
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    .............If this happens, it wasn't true love in the first place, impulsive love, can very well be controlling, and I'm sure sensible Soda Heads, will steer themselves away from relationships that early development in Soda Head.......this website, I believe can be highly addictive, if a person doesn't take a break from it, once in a while, I even have been caught up in this online addiction.......hopefully by talking with my Select Soda Head Friends, I can maintain a healthier approach, to Friendship First, and a longer term, Possible Relationship Mutually Shared........I pray that my Friends realize, that once in awhile I need Friendly redirection, when I start looking for a relationship, I, above all else, do not want to jeopardize my existing Friendships, with my Select, Online, Family.........
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  • **Starz... Jerry 2012/08/08 21:04:43
    **StarzAbove**
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    I doubt you'll have any trouble maintaining common sense. This isn't a dating site but an opinion site, so thanks for yours.
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  • Jerry **Starz... 2012/08/08 21:08:19
    Jerry
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    ..........you're welcome...........
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  • littlebuffalo55TBA 2012/08/08 19:24:23
    littlebuffalo55TBA
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    Good question! I now only of two people on SodaHead that found real love. There might be more? I agree though it's not likely to be found here. I have noticed in general as far as the internet in general there are more lonely folks in the world than I imagined and that some get to excited at what some extra attention might bring.
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  • **Starz... littleb... 2012/08/08 21:03:46
    **StarzAbove**
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    I think you're right. They are so desperate for attention that they fool themselves into thinking they have found true love. I find that very sad.
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  • littleb... **Starz... 2012/08/08 21:10:50
    littlebuffalo55TBA
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    It is sad and somehow for those prone to that kind of loneliness the internet much of the time makes it worse for them.

    Of course the potential always exists for "True Love" to happen almost anywhere. But the odds here? Low! On the rare occasions it would happen? Well lucky them!
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  • **Starz... littleb... 2012/08/08 22:05:43
    **StarzAbove**
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    Odds are very low. Once they meet up it would probably be a disaster.
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  • littleb... **Starz... 2012/08/08 22:11:39
    littlebuffalo55TBA
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    Lol....Ah Huh! A few years ago I did a few online meet @ Starbucks "dates". Let's just say it was my realization that many see some sort of veil from the internet. Am I recommending "online dating" these days? Nope..... ;-)

    And I know you and I don't always see things the same way and I'm ok with that. Lol....on this I think we more than agree.... ;-)
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  • **Starz... littleb... 2012/08/14 17:18:39
    **StarzAbove**
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    We do disagree on some things, and I think that's great. We all have a right to our opinions on everything.

    But we definitely agree on this one. Thanks.
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  • Queen B 2012/08/08 19:17:29
    Queen B
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    If people would get off the internet for extended periods of time and actually get out in the real world, they might find true love, but the likelihood of that happening on line is extremely remote.
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  • **Starz... Queen B 2012/08/08 19:19:35
    **StarzAbove**
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    I agree. Get out in the real world and find a real person. Maybe they are scared to, and this is how they fool themselves into believing they've found true love. These are just words on a computer screen.
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  • Queen B **Starz... 2012/08/08 19:22:14
    Queen B
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    Exactly...and you don't really know who is behind the words on the computer screen.
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  • **Starz... Queen B 2012/08/08 19:23:56
    **StarzAbove**
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    Exactly! fat guy in basement
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  • Queen B **Starz... 2012/08/08 19:26:34
    Queen B
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    OMG! LMAO!! lmao emoticon i spewed my coffee
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  • **Starz... Queen B 2012/08/08 21:05:59
    **StarzAbove**
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    lady laughing gifs
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  • SA **Starz... 2012/08/08 19:58:58
    SA
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    LOL
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  • **Starz... SA 2012/08/08 21:05:20
    **StarzAbove**
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    We never know, do we? And it's scary. lol
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  • Ray the Dog! 2012/08/08 19:13:30
    Ray the Dog!
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    It truly never ceases to astonish me that so many apparently sensible people can manage to convince themselves that they 'are madly in love' with somebody- often on the very flimsiest of acquaintanceships with an individual- who they often know virtually nothing about...!
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  • **Starz... Ray the... 2012/08/08 19:17:12
    **StarzAbove**
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    My point exactly. Educated people falling for those old sad lines, it amazes me.
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  • Ray the... **Starz... 2012/08/08 19:19:31
    Ray the Dog!
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    Sadly,Sweet Girl, 'education' doesn't always go 'hand-in-hand' with good old fashioned common sense!
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  • **Starz... Ray the... 2012/08/08 19:20:55
    **StarzAbove**
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    I agree. And too many people don't have common sense or they would realize nothing is real or ever lasting on the internet.
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  • Q 2012/08/08 19:06:42
    Q
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    Are you saying that she doesn't really love me? Next thing ya know you'll be telling me that its not really her in her avatar pic.....
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  • **Starz... Q 2012/08/08 19:08:59
    **StarzAbove**
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    Sorry, hon, I hate to break it to you in public, but...................lol
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  • Q **Starz... 2012/08/08 19:11:44
    Q
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    say it aint so gif
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  • **Starz... Q 2012/08/08 19:15:27
    **StarzAbove**
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    shaking head yes gifs
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  • Q **Starz... 2012/08/08 19:36:23
    Q
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    bawling gif
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  • **Starz... Q 2012/08/08 21:06:47
    **StarzAbove**
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    i m sorry gifs
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  • Ray the... Q 2012/08/08 19:21:57
    Ray the Dog!
    +3
    Of course she loves you Q! And I REALLY am that black labrador in my avatar pic...!!
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  • **Starz... Ray the... 2012/08/08 19:22:48
    **StarzAbove**
    +2
    Shall I perform the ceremony? "Dearly beloved.....lol
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  • Ray the... **Starz... 2012/08/08 19:26:20
    Ray the Dog!
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    Please do...lol!
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  • **Starz... Ray the... 2012/08/08 21:07:46
    **StarzAbove**
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    I now pronounce you, Q and what was her name? lol wedding ceremony gifs
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