This
question is directed at those who are sexually active adults over the
age 18, but particularly those in committed relationships.
If you happen to be a virgin, celibate, or just asexual; yo, I'm very happy for you and all... but I just have to say that sex is one of the greatest inventions of all time... *lolz
Just kidding.
That's my own smartass way of saying 'please feel free to skip this question and move onto one that interests you more.'
Anyhoo...
After a certain point, how do you keep the 'sizzle' in your bedroom? To what ends are you willing to go?
I'm
just curious because I read something earlier today that basically
insinuated that a little rough foreplay or sex somehow equates to
spousal abuse. (Don't even ask.)
That it got me to thinking about adult sexuality in general and the things that appeal to those with active, healthy sex lives.
So without over~sharing too much, let's hear it what keeps you and your special somebody craving each other...
And by now, everyone should already know how my polls 'roll';
Besides both of us going naked all the time at home we role play. I am a girl from the distant future come back in time and space to catch a guy who caught my fancy. It's...complicated : )
It's what I like about you Melz. It's 50% inspiration and 50% imagination.Unlike a lot of people who think it gets complacent ,boring and redundant.I think just the opposite .The longer the time the deeper trust grows and the more open you become to exploring every depth of your sexuality.The toughest is when your children are young .At least a few times a week I fed my children before my husband came home.That way he could focus on what was important (of course that was me) Many times I fed him dinner in bed ....broke a lot of dishes that way...No Regrets
Hasn't been a problem so far, but I do like to keep things spicy with a little role play from time to time. It keeps things interesting. Also in my last relationship, we used to have bets on things, the payment was sexual favors. It was kind of fun. ;)
Its flagrantly obvious in how they interact that they're still into each other; 70 years old and still playing 'slap and tickle', trading innuendos, 'sneaking off' to be alone at gatherings...
People are only as old as they feel, IMO... and if your own romantic life has tapered off, then you have my sincere sympathies.
Me and the wife don't have anything specifc, we are just always hot for each other. We are approaching 10 years of marriage. Our friends think it is weird that we still get it on EVERY time the kids are at her folks. Hope that is not oversharing.
Whatever consenting adults wish to do in privacy is their own business. There are all sorts of things which others do which do not appeal to me personally, but hey, it is THEIR business; not mine.
PS: It is NOT spousal abuse if both parties consent without being forced to consent, so to speak. It's also nobody's business when both parties do consent.
Lol...ok I am on the mend. That is all good! But secretly anyone who were to offer a back massage with cold aloe vera (boy my nerve ending s in my back are active! Real happy bout that but DAMN itchy!!!) could be confronted with being only able to say "Who let the DOGs out?" Stop ME before I digress..... ;-)
I think that between consenting adults anything goes and it is ridiculous to call it spousal abuse if both people are willing to participate. Maybe it's just some jealous person who wrote that.
All in good fun nothing over the top..
For my gal and I, what just keep everything open. We have no problem telling the other just what we like and want.
=D
Nothin' wrong with "twisted"....twist n shout.
That too, is a personal thing; I know a few elderly folks who are still getting their groove on...
No, please dont be gross.
Its flagrantly obvious in how they interact that they're still into each other; 70 years old and still playing 'slap and tickle', trading innuendos, 'sneaking off' to be alone at gatherings...
People are only as old as they feel, IMO... and if your own romantic life has tapered off, then you have my sincere sympathies.
Good day.
I go to the very edge of my limits.
PS: It is NOT spousal abuse if both parties consent without being forced to consent, so to speak. It's also nobody's business when both parties do consent.
It came from a post about French Vogue, of all places.