How Do You Keep Your Sex Life 'Spicy?'

Melizmatic 2012/09/22 03:09:35
*gasp* We Don't Kiss and Tell, Melz!  ;-)
Role Playing
"Dirty" Talk
Bondage/ S&M
Heavens to Mergatroid!
I Always Knew You Were Twisted, Melz...
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So okay,

question is directed at those who are sexually active adults over the
age 18, but particularly those in committed relationships.

directed sexually active adults age 18 committed relationships

If you happen to be a virgin, celibate
, or just asexual; yo, I'm very happy for you and all... but I just have to say that sex is one of the greatest inventions of all time... *lolz

committed relationships virgin celibate asexual yo happy sex inventions lolz

Just kidding

That's my own smartass way of saying 'please feel free to skip this
question and move onto one that interests you more.'


After a certain point, how do you keep the 'sizzle' in your bedroom? To what ends are you willing to go?

kidding nbsp smartass feel free skip anyhoo sizzle bedroom ends

just curious because I read something earlier today that basically
insinuated that a little rough foreplay or sex somehow equates to
spousal abuse. (Don't even ask.)

read earlier basically insinuated rough foreplay sex equates spousal abuse

it got me to thinking about adult sexuality in general and the things that appeal to those with active, healthy sex lives.

So without over~sharing too much, let's hear it what keeps you and your special somebody cr
aving each other...

general appeal active healthy sex lives oversharing hear cr ving

And by now, everyone should already know how my polls 'roll';

Be civil or begone.
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  • naked_and_barefoot N.I.T. 2013/02/20 04:20:18
    Role Playing
    naked_and_barefoot N.I.T.
    Besides both of us going naked all the time at home we role play. I am a girl from the distant future come back in time and space to catch a guy who caught my fancy. It's...complicated : )
  • Diamond Girl 2012/10/02 00:37:13 (edited)
  • Dave**G... Diamond... 2012/10/02 12:30:55
  • Ashley 2012/10/01 23:41:08
    "Dirty" Talk
    Communication is keey..
  • jere.chievres 2012/10/01 22:44:05
    Heavens to Mergatroid!
    "Cunninglinguistics" for am hour or so "before" the main event.
  • Melizmatic jere.ch... 2012/10/01 22:48:58
    I did ask that folks refrain from "oversharing."

    hard headed
  • Quietman ~PWCM~JLA 2012/10/01 20:58:00
    Heavens to Mergatroid!
    Quietman   ~PWCM~JLA
  • john 2012/10/01 20:49:28
    *gasp* We Don't Kiss and Tell, Melz! ;-)
    just love
  • AM 2012/10/01 20:46:57
  • Dave**Gay for Girls** 2012/10/01 20:43:38
  • Melizmatic Dave**G... 2012/10/01 20:49:58
  • Conservatism Rules 2012/09/26 20:27:54
    I Always Knew You Were Twisted, Melz...
    Conservatism Rules
    Being twisted is a great thing.
    For my gal and I, what just keep everything open. We have no problem telling the other just what we like and want.
  • Melizmatic Conserv... 2012/09/26 20:36:24
    Just as it should be; groovy.

  • Scott (o)(o) 2012/09/26 20:08:22
    Heavens to Mergatroid!
    Scott (o)(o)
    switch hands once in a while LOL :)
  • Melizmatic Scott (... 2012/09/26 20:09:22
  • Chris- Demon of the PHAET 2012/09/26 20:01:48
    Heavens to Mergatroid!
    Chris- Demon of the PHAET
    I'm really really good at it. smirk gif
  • Melizmatic Chris- ... 2012/09/26 20:06:02
  • Aduro 2012/09/25 21:11:57
    *gasp* We Don't Kiss and Tell, Melz! ;-)
    Hasn't been a problem so far, but I do like to keep things spicy with a little role play from time to time. It keeps things interesting. Also in my last relationship, we used to have bets on things, the payment was sexual favors. It was kind of fun. ;)
  • seattleman 2012/09/22 20:41:52
    I Always Knew You Were Twisted, Melz...
    kama sutra

    Nothin' wrong with "twisted"....twist n shout.
  • Melizmatic seattleman 2012/09/26 00:50:56
  • Donishka 2012/09/22 20:34:31
    "Dirty" Talk
    A little dirty talk,being tied up and blind folded sometimes sex outside and of coarse ice and food is always fun : )
  • Apollo ~PHAET 2012/09/22 20:01:51
    *gasp* We Don't Kiss and Tell, Melz! ;-)
    Apollo ~PHAET
  • oldlady 2012/09/22 19:06:04
    I Always Knew You Were Twisted, Melz...
    In the dark, under the covers and blindfolded...oh, and organic veggies ;)
  • Broken 2012/09/22 18:50:20
    *gasp* We Don't Kiss and Tell, Melz! ;-)
    Actually, there is nothing. I have not been able to have sex with my wife for more than 4 years.
  • mk, Smartass Oracle 2012/09/22 18:08:42
  • Melizmatic mk, Sma... 2012/09/22 18:11:53

    That too, is a personal thing; I know a few elderly folks who are still getting their groove on...
  • mk, Sma... Melizmatic 2012/09/22 18:14:15
  • Melizmatic mk, Sma... 2012/09/22 18:20:17

    No, please dont be gross.

    Its flagrantly obvious in how they interact that they're still into each other; 70 years old and still playing 'slap and tickle', trading innuendos, 'sneaking off' to be alone at gatherings...

    People are only as old as they feel, IMO... and if your own romantic life has tapered off, then you have my sincere sympathies.

    Good day.
  • Fran-Halen 2012/09/22 16:33:21
    Heavens to Mergatroid!
    She wants me to try something new......masturbation !
  • Mr.Steve 2012/09/22 13:05:11
  • cowboy 2012/09/22 11:27:20
    *gasp* We Don't Kiss and Tell, Melz! ;-)
    Me and the wife don't have anything specifc, we are just always hot for each other. We are approaching 10 years of marriage. Our friends think it is weird that we still get it on EVERY time the kids are at her folks. Hope that is not oversharing.
  • elptrek P.H.A.E.T.'s wizard 2012/09/22 08:53:47
    *gasp* We Don't Kiss and Tell, Melz! ;-)
    elptrek P.H.A.E.T.'s wizard
  • NYCbrit 2012/09/22 07:12:57
    Bondage/ S&M
    Good, clean fun

    Lois  bondage

  • Melizmatic NYCbrit 2012/09/22 07:16:30

  • Tunnel Vision 2012/09/22 06:34:00
    Heavens to Mergatroid!
    Tunnel Vision

    I go to the very edge of my limits.
  • Melizmatic Tunnel ... 2012/09/22 06:51:39
  • Pele Emerging 2012/09/22 06:04:15
    *gasp* We Don't Kiss and Tell, Melz! ;-)
    Pele Emerging
    Whatever consenting adults wish to do in privacy is their own business. There are all sorts of things which others do which do not appeal to me personally, but hey, it is THEIR business; not mine.

    PS: It is NOT spousal abuse if both parties consent without being forced to consent, so to speak. It's also nobody's business when both parties do consent.
  • littlebuffalo55TBA 2012/09/22 04:50:15
    *gasp* We Don't Kiss and Tell, Melz! ;-)
    Lol...ok I am on the mend. That is all good! But secretly anyone who were to offer a back massage with cold aloe vera (boy my nerve ending s in my back are active! Real happy bout that but DAMN itchy!!!) could be confronted with being only able to say "Who let the DOGs out?" Stop ME before I digress..... ;-)
  • Shawna 2012/09/22 04:14:26
    *gasp* We Don't Kiss and Tell, Melz! ;-)
    I think that between consenting adults anything goes and it is ridiculous to call it spousal abuse if both people are willing to participate. Maybe it's just some jealous person who wrote that.
  • Melizmatic Shawna 2012/09/22 04:32:42
    Who knows.

    It came from a post about French Vogue, of all places.

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