How do you handle ultimatums?

by **StarzAbove** Posted 2012/08/09 02:31:23

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	Obey	3 votes	10%
	Ignore	12 votes	41%
	Argue about it	0 votes	0%
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	Undecided	3 votes	10%
	None of the above	9 votes	31%

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Linnster 2012/08/09 02:37:56

None of the above

+7
I don't care to have ultimatums given to me. I'm one of those dummies who would rather cut their nose to spite their face than obey an ultimatum.
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Swan Eshdeh 2012/08/12 15:01:45

Obey

+1
i take them seriously i am a committed person ..i rarely have them

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Th8nos 2012/08/10 01:48:35

Undecided

+1
sometimes with this....

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Jan Haskell 2012/08/09 22:52:27

Ignore

+2
I don't react well to ultimatums ... using my own discretion is important to me.

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**Starz... to Jan Has... 2012/08/09 22:56:20

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Me either Jan. I'll take suggestions but when it's this or nothing, then I'm outta there. lol

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stevegtexas@aol.com 2012/08/09 18:57:26 (edited)

Undecided

+1
i take them "ultimatums" seriously.How do you handle ultimatums?

by **StarzAbove**PostedAugust 08, 2012 (16 hours ago)

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**Starz... to stevegt... 2012/08/09 22:43:47

+1
I don't like ultimatums, when I get one it just makes me more determined. lol

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Lulu's Mom 2012/08/09 14:38:57

Ignore

+1
I ignore them and do what I want.

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**Starz... to Lulu's Mom 2012/08/09 22:43:58

+3
Same with me.

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Lady Whitewolf 2012/08/09 14:33:15

None of the above

+3
Offer them an "ultimatum" back.... they don't like it? TOUGH.

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**Starz... to Lady Wh... 2012/08/09 22:44:15

+2
Good advice, thanks lady.

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oldlady 2012/08/09 12:05:14

None of the above

+3
I laugh and do what ever I wanted to do in the first place ;)

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**Starz... to oldlady 2012/08/09 22:44:28

+3
Me too.

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kitkat42 2012/08/09 09:47:02

Ignore

+3
I ignore them as negative pressuring. I don't respect people who have to use force to get their way.

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**Starz... to kitkat42 2012/08/09 22:44:52

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Me either, or have a temper tantrum if you don't give into them.

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MlssCue =Go Blue= 2012/08/09 09:25:31

None of the above

+3
It depends who the person is & what the subject of the ultimatum is. I have brought on situations myself that did require an ultimatum, so in the case I knew I had one of two options & to chose wisely. I couldn't imagine someone on SH giving me one, I'd imagine I'd have to laugh that off like so many other things...

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**Starz... to MlssCue... 2012/08/09 22:45:58 (edited)

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I was given one here on SH. Was told to delete a friend or he wouldn't be my friend anymore. Guess who is not my friend anymore? lol lol No one is gonna tell me who I can be friends with, no matter who they are.

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MlssCue... to **Starz... 2012/08/09 23:44:11

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What?! That's insane! Just who the hell do they think they are?? As we said before, this is Jr. High people, grow up! If I had it my way there's a few people that would not be on any of my friends list but that is NOT my place to say. Just because I don't like them doesn't mean no one else does (although I don't see how) LOL

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**Starz... to MlssCue... 2012/08/10 00:41:44

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I don't think anyone has the right to tell others what to do on here, especially who to be friends with. It would be impossible to like everyone on here and we all have different likes. Some on my friends list I don't know very well, but no one is going to tell me to delete them. Plus, a friend of mine was asked by one of his friends to delete me. He put her in his basement. lol

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MlssCue... to **Starz... 2012/08/10 01:03:09

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Good for him! I'd do the same. And you're absolutely right, we all have different likes, that's what makes us so great :-)

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**Starz... to MlssCue... 2012/08/10 01:07:50

+2
But there are some immature people on here that seem to think they can control others. How foolish they are. Heck I have trouble controlling my family. lol lol

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MlssCue... to **Starz... 2012/08/10 02:34:15

+2
Exactly. I'm in the midst of it with this "child" who keeps on insisting to call me old, menopausal, crazy, etc. I said look I'm a bitch...you can go all day, say what you want it's not going to affect me. What does she say? Well we agree you're an "Old" bitch who needs her depends changed. Really, that's the best you got? I have three daughters, and ex husband, effed up family and people whom I don't care for & vice versa, do you really think some immature child on SH is going to get to me.....it's funny they truly, honestly believe that.

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**Starz... to MlssCue... 2012/08/10 14:02:01

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I hope you put her in her place.....a cage where she belongs.

She's probably the one needing the Depends or why would she have even thought of them. That's not something I think about. lol

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MlssCue... to **Starz... 2012/08/10 14:04:04

+2
Me either, I don't think how someone pee's seriously?! LOL

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**Starz... to MlssCue... 2012/08/10 17:25:13

+1

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mich52 2012/08/09 06:58:44

None of the above

+3
On SH;
I Block their repetative, conservative dumbass's..

I blocked 3 idiots today.

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Lady Wh... to mich52 2012/08/09 14:33:54

+3
good for you!

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**Starz... to mich52 2012/08/09 22:46:45

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lol That's great. The hate is really getting bad out there isn't it? lol

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rocat 2012/08/09 04:18:46

Obey

+2
not exactly obey-

i give them what they ask for-

usually things do not turn out as they thought-

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Jdogg 2012/08/09 03:46:58

None of the above

+2
I'm just going to laugh at you and tell you to go on.

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**Starz... to Jdogg 2012/08/09 22:48:00

+1
Me too.

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flrdsgns 2012/08/09 03:10:57

Ignore

+3
I've never been very good at doing what others tell me to do.
Someone gives me an ultimatum, I walk away and that's the end of the relationship, job, whatever

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**Starz... to flrdsgns 2012/08/09 22:48:27

+2
Good for you. You're very independent.

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flrdsgns to **Starz... 2012/08/09 23:09:08

+1
Yep, I always have been. Sure made that stint in the Marine Corps a very difficult one lol

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**Starz... to flrdsgns 2012/08/09 23:10:08

+1
I'd like to hear about your marine days, sometime.

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flrdsgns to **Starz... 2012/08/09 23:19:29

+1
It was a war of wills, and it was difficult at times, but I learned how to manipulate the system to my advantage.

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angelbaby 2012/08/09 02:54:56

Ignore

+4
I dont do ultimatums ~

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**Starz... to angelbaby 2012/08/09 03:05:24

+6
Me either. Makes me furious.

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angelbaby to **Starz... 2012/08/09 03:53:09

+1
It can be a deal breaker for me!! I haven't had it happen to me on this site tho .. Have you?

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**Starz... to angelbaby 2012/08/09 22:49:05

+2
Yes, it's happened to me. Was told to delete a friend or else, guess who got deleted? lol

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angelbaby to **Starz... 2012/08/09 23:48:20

+1
OMG ~ that's so childish!! Who needs friends like that anyway!?!

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