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How do you handle someone trying to buy your love?

Yosyp 2012/07/22 18:56:11
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  • Nameless 2012/07/27 05:14:27
    I refuse all money and gifts
    Nameless
    +1
    My love, friendship, and respect are in no way for sale.
  • Alvin 2012/07/26 14:12:56
    I refuse all money and gifts
    Alvin
    +1
    Love cannot be bought (other than when dealing with a prostitute,) it has to be earned and grown slowly and carefully if it is to grow and blossom. Otherwise, it will not work and someone is going to be used and someone else will be the user.
  • Yosyp Alvin 2012/07/26 14:36:40 (edited)
    Yosyp
    +1
    I think best thing to do if someone tries is to refuse all gifts and money and if they don't stop distance ones self from that person. But I know people who take the gifts knowing nothing will ever happen between them, they say if they want to give it I'll take it.
  • Alvin Yosyp 2012/07/26 14:47:20
    Alvin
    +1
    That is what I mean by a user and a used. Once the person accepts the gifts it is a tacit agreement that more gifts may be a factor in swaying their "love".
    I cannot decide which is more demeaning.
  • wutever 2012/07/24 22:57:26
    I take all money and gifts and let them think something might happen between us
    wutever
    +1
    If my man wants some he has to earn it
  • Mrs. Clint Barton 2012/07/24 22:23:36
    None of the above
    Mrs. Clint Barton
    +1
    i send them to hell and tell them to find another way to get my love
  • TJ 2012/07/23 10:30:07
    I refuse all money and gifts
    TJ
    +1
    I refuse them, unless they demand that I take them. If its not going to happen between us, I always tell them that, and if they do not listen I will distance myself from them and let them know why....
  • Piper 2012/07/23 03:35:04
    If they want to give me money and gifts I take but let them know nothing can ...
    Piper
    +1
    That isn't quite the right answer for me, but once, I did allow someone into my life who wanted to buy my love. It was strange and confusing, to have a man tell me he he'd been coming to where I worked for almost a year, just to see me, and hope that I'd be 'single' again. He told me he'd already bought me a house (I had one), wanted to buy me a new car, and didn't stop with the attention, in spite of the no sex 'clause' I made clear.
  • Katie Ayers 2012/07/22 23:57:31
    I take all money and gifts and let them think something might happen between us
    Katie Ayers
    +2
    I really really wanted to pick a good answer, BUT I have to be honest, even of it makes me shallow. I know, that's really bad...but honestly, the way it's going right now, I couldn't afford to say no!
  • JCD aka... Katie A... 2012/08/13 06:43:06
    JCD aka "biz"
    +1
    It's not really bad.
  • tobe 2012/07/22 23:03:36
    None of the above
    tobe
    +1
    I've been with people who want to pay for things. I can't stand it. I don't like owing people and I hate to say it but thats how i feel. its one thing to grab a soda for someone when your in a store but I don't make an every day habit of paying for someone else and don't like them paying for me either. Im not saying I don't take a girl out and pay for dinner or pay for the movies but I don't pay every time we leave the house, no, and if she goes to pay for her own and I've paid a bunch recently i don't stop her. its the 21st century, both sexes hold jobs.
  • Alethia 2012/07/22 22:59:27
    I refuse all money and gifts
    Alethia
    +2
    I don't need that type of pressure. I find it offensive too, them thinking I am a commodity.
  • SlaveWaterNymph 2012/07/22 21:58:31
    I refuse all money and gifts
    SlaveWaterNymph
    +2
    and will tell them you can not buy my love at all. And if this keeps up, im just going to have to leave you. It's not what i want in a relationship.
  • Selketskiss 2012/07/22 20:05:28 (edited)
    None of the above
    Selketskiss
    +1
    I laughed at them..when I was younger I had a few trying to do this..I can not be bought..I owe no one anything..
  • Rie~ 2012/07/22 20:04:15
    None of the above
    Rie~
  • Selkets... Rie~ 2012/07/22 20:06:37
    Selketskiss
    +1
    OMG..I can not stop laughing at this..LMAO...
  • Rie~ Selkets... 2012/07/22 20:11:02
    Rie~
    +2
    bahahah thanks :P well that's what i do..maybe not there but i start a fight. im not a piece of meat or something..i cant be bought
  • JCD aka... Rie~ 2012/08/13 06:35:21
  • Rogue_Loner 2012/07/22 19:57:54
  • Vision of Verve 2012/07/22 19:31:16
  • Yosyp Vision ... 2012/07/22 19:33:57
    Yosyp
    +1
    but if you know they love you and probably expect something to happen but you are not interested in that way, will you still take the gift?
  • Vision ... Yosyp 2012/07/22 19:47:00
  • Yosyp Vision ... 2012/07/22 19:50:06 (edited)
    Yosyp
    +1
    not necessarily mean to get you in bed, but he wants more to the relationship than friendship. He wants to be your boy friend and thinks buying you stuff will make that happen.
  • Vision ... Yosyp 2012/07/22 20:05:53
  • Matt M 2012/07/22 19:12:41
    None of the above
    Matt  M
    +1
    Just has never happened to me! To bad!
  • Sister Jean 2012/07/22 19:11:46
    None of the above
    Sister Jean
  • Yosyp Sister ... 2012/07/22 19:15:52
  • being me 2012/07/22 19:09:07
    Undecided
    being me
    +3
    I've been there and done that. The feeling is empty and worth nothing. I rather have someone give me their love, support and a partnership instead of money or gifts. Because at the end of the day it's just emptiness only love can make u feel whole.
  • I refuse all money and gifts
    Jersey Roze ♥Jwon's Cyar'ika ♥
    +3
    I never let anybody think I owe them something...
  • Yosyp Jersey ... 2012/07/22 19:00:55
    Yosyp
    +1
    That's the best rule to follow

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