How do you feel about the quieter members of SH?
Greatkibble
2012/05/08 04:11:05
What about those members who literally don't say much, if not anything at all. It's a little weird if you ask me.
You post on their threads and all you get is a rave, or nothing at all and I'm not speaking about SHs who ignore and skip over most people's opinions - I'm talking about the members who even when asked for a little 'certification', you get nothing more than a rave or a simple one sentenced reply and in my case, that's pretty much the occasional thing they do...
Am I the only one here who notices that?
NB//: The members who I'm specifically pointing towards are one of the most active thread makers on this site - don't confuse a quiet persona with the category I'm speaking of.
You post on their threads and all you get is a rave, or nothing at all and I'm not speaking about SHs who ignore and skip over most people's opinions - I'm talking about the members who even when asked for a little 'certification', you get nothing more than a rave or a simple one sentenced reply and in my case, that's pretty much the occasional thing they do...
Am I the only one here who notices that?
NB//: The members who I'm specifically pointing towards are one of the most active thread makers on this site - don't confuse a quiet persona with the category I'm speaking of.
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VERYwiseguy 2012/05/09 15:00:20I feel....+7"Better to remain silent and be thought a fool then to speak out and remove all doubt" Abe Lincoln






















It's not bothering me though and I won't harass these folks just for the fun of it.
You don't hate them, do you?
What I've noticed about these people is that they refuse to carry on conversations, at all costs - everytime I asked anyway. Plus I hardly see them responding to their own threads.
You don't fall under this, do you?
Ah, no, I do carry on conversations! (:
It's not like you continuously create new threads every two hours or so...
http://www.sodahead.com/fun/h...
Think of it this way: you ask the person a question that would normally be returned with a reply that usually starts off a conversation, but instead of replying, that person will instead rave. Doing so everytime signals to me that something's going wrong somewhere...
...It makes me wonder why would someone post threads if they don't care of the opinions it'll receive.
Ok I'll give an e.g:
Me: So how was your day?
Quiet guy: *raves*
Me: Hey look I'm gonna go spam your profile with pics, does that sound cool?
Quiet guy: *raves*
Looks like there'll be one less SH on my friends list.
Well, I look at them as a nice change of pace.
And if they NEVER give any real feedback, then I just stop answering their questions.
Like I said, I just quit trying to engage them.